Many people say that chicken feathers are everywhere, why do you have to have a second child? Let me talk about my experience.

The second child was an accident. I just don't like being pregnant myself. I was with my husband for three years before I gave birth to a daughter. I haven't given birth for so many years, and I haven't considered having a second child. Suddenly, I couldn't accept it at first. I cried and said no. My husband and mother-in-law also supported my choice, but my mother never let me take the children away. First, it's bad for your health. Second, my mother said that the child would come to you. You said that. At your age, it may be difficult to have children in the future. I was 32 when I was pregnant with my son. ) The baby is in my belly. Although I said I couldn't have children, I kept dragging my feet. I went to have a check-up. Everything was normal and there was a fetal heart. After I came back, I cried again and struggled for a few days before deciding to stay.

Second, what did I do before giving birth to a second child?

I did WeChat business for five years before giving birth to my second child. Started making skin care products and made money. I bought my own car and luxury goods. At that time, I lived a high-cost life. Women, who earn their own money and spend money indiscriminately, can't say that they buy clothes every day. As long as they go out for a walk, they will buy them at buy buy. Later, I changed to a diet product, which gradually declined, but it was better than going to work. Maybe they are tired. They didn't work so hard and were not particularly lucky. At first, it was ok. Later, many people made it, and the platform began to limit the flow of titles. We tried to register all our mobile phones in Tik Tok, but they were all closed. We continued to buy Tik Tok. Later, there was no traffic at all, so I stopped pushing, and I still insisted on sending it. The same video is very popular with others, and mine has only a few plays. I am also anxious to see other people's fire, so I try to shoot videos and continue posting. Make a slimming product. Few people will buy it back. Even if it really works, some people can't stick to it, and some people will lose a few pounds. It is difficult to ship without joining. At this time, I was pregnant, with severe morning sickness, lying in bed all day, unable to eat anything. I was still vomiting until I was born, so I slowly put down my small business. There are still some stocks at home now. After giving birth, I had to do this.

Third, talk about my husband and mother-in-law.

My husband is two years younger than me. He is an only child. He is used to having no boundaries at home. He is a good man. My husband used to give everything in front of outsiders. No matter what others ask him, he will agree and help. There is no bottom line. Before I did WeChat business, he also went to work intermittently. I'm on a business trip. Sometimes he follows me and sometimes he looks after his daughter at home. Why do you say he goes to work intermittently? Because he has never worked for anyone since he came out of school. Later, it was a temple fair. After marrying me, I'm sure I can't adapt to work, because I won't have freedom when I go to work. He is the kind of person who is out of control, and now he is more experienced. Maybe he has a son, and he is under great pressure. He just started to go to work on the right track in the past two years, and nothing happened, so I understand his distress, especially because he is in logistics. His job is to drive a van to Beijing, and I'm worried that something will happen. He will go to work tomorrow.

Where's my mother-in-law I said she was stupid. She is not stupid, can't maintain relationships, and doesn't understand the world. Maybe a lot of things are fake. I can't understand her. The most important thing is that she is particularly lazy, her home is untidy, and the quilt is not folded. There is nothing in the room except the open door. How dirty is it? We can make up for it (we don't live together). I won't let her babysit.

The most important thing is to let the children take my daughter away and play with her carelessly. When they come back, the puppy scratches her face and spends the night with her, and her ass is flooded. Even after giving birth to a second child, I took my daughter to the hospital. After giving birth, she stayed in the hospital for six days, and so did her daughter. My mother-in-law comes back every day and never cooks for us again. It's all take-away food. Although I don't know that she did it on purpose, I really don't understand this, but I

Because my mother looked after my mother-in-law, she paid me a month's salary and went home one day. When I gave birth to my daughter, my mother-in-law used work as an excuse. When I left the hospital, she went to work. Come back from work, wash mesons. I didn't wait on my son for a day and went to the hospital every day. I didn't pay a penny or buy me a piece of meat or a leaf. My mother always asks my husband to give them our food.