Life is often like this, what you lose, fate will compensate you in another way

Introduction: With the help of time, countless passers-by come and go. For our lives, we must take responsibility for ourselves. Therefore, we must also act as the true helmsman of this life and not let our survival be equated to a blind accident. We should be brave enough to deal with it, and we need to be brave enough to take risks.

1. Maybe the so-called true love means that two people overcome their selfishness at a certain period of time and accept each other's true colors at the same time later.

2. The most difficult thing in the world is to pay attention to your mouth. Whether you pour it in or spit it out, you must control it.

3. Sometimes, the reason why people cry is not because they are weak, but because they have been strong for too long.

4. Happy people know how to control their thoughts and will not let negative emotions control them. Happy people think positively and believe that there are positives in even the worst situations.

5. If a person does not want to climb high, he should not be afraid of falling, and there is no need to exclude others. He can keep his innocence, let it be natural, and concentrate on accomplishing what he can do

6. Although he is still alive, The loneliness of death makes life wither.

7. Once a person has passed the age of youth, he no longer has the heart to risk his own life. What love, what feeling... after it lasts, in reality, it is the icing on the cake. You must have this piece of cake to add to the beauty.

8. In fact, understanding is not a skill, nor is it a question of emotional intelligence, but a question of willingness. If you really have love, you will be willing to listen to the other person and accompany the other person, and you will naturally understand everything she wants. Therefore, when you want to understand someone, you can understand them. The key is whether I have you in my heart. Sometimes it is not understood just because the heart is gradually moving away.

9. No matter how beautiful a person lives, there will be desolation; no matter how smooth the road is, there will be confusion; no matter how loud the song is, there will be silence. People each have their own position, outlook on life and values. Don't be too demanding on others, and don't be too demanding on yourself. Stay kind, be sincere, be tolerant to others, and be strict with yourself. Gains and losses, successes and failures, gatherings and separations are all a kind of growth in life. If you take a dim view, you will be in a good mood; if you look away, your life will be happy.

10. If you don’t like it, then change it. If you can’t change it, then adapt to it. If you can't adapt, then you have to avoid it. If you can't even avoid it, you just have to let it go. But the general situation is that capable people will choose to change, lazy people will choose to adapt, cowardly people will choose to avoid, and brave people will choose to let go.

11. All feelings must have an ending. Either break up or get married together. It's just that some have good endings and some have bad endings. Why did they break up? Because it is easier to break up. No matter how difficult it is to live a lifetime together, even if you lack a little courage, it is not as easy as breaking up. That's how love works. The hardest thing is not to love, but to be able to hold back and not break up when encountering difficulties.

12. Giving up is not easy, and giving up in love is especially painful. Love is a matter between two people, two completely equal people with independent personalities. You can work hard, but it doesn't mean that if you work hard, it will definitely be effective, because you can't control the other person. So no matter how much you care about a love, if another person is determined to leave you, please respect his choice.

13. The morning sun is very light, falling softly on my head, face, and hair, bit by bit, with a trace of indulgence, so light, so free and easy. The break that passes through the window lattice, the soft light that blooms endlessly, pours out the heart, the city, and the dust that has been sealed for a long time.

14. The past time is gradually drifting away like flowing water, but the feelings in the heart are still the same. Flowers bloom and fall, the years go by, the wind can take away the remaining clouds, and the clouds can cover the bright moon, but there are some things There is no going back. The youth and love lost in the fleeting years will never come back.

15. Feelings are something you can’t get away with, not something you can’t get. You think you are important, but you are always ignored; you keep trying to please, but you are always left out. The harder it is to let go, the more at a loss you will feel; the harder you pursue it, the more trouble you will find. In fact, anyone can survive without it, so why torture yourself so hard.

Rather than letting your heart suffer, it is better to get rid of it; rather than being a thorn in the eyes of the person you love, it is better to be a treasure in the heart of the person who loves you. Love must be worthy of love; release must be free and easy.

16. Life is often like this. What you lose, fate will compensate you in another way. When the sweet-scented osmanthus withers, the chrysanthemum shines with its autumn makeup.

17. Deeply loving someone can make a sober person confused; having the deep love of others can make a confused person awaken. What can be cultivated slowly is not love, but habits. What can be gained over time is not emotion but emotion.

18. Don’t take losses as worries, don’t take gains as joy, and you will always be happy in life. Because I don’t have it, I never worry about losing it; because I want it, I worry about gains and losses. In fact, nothing in the world truly belongs to you, and we are just passers-by, coming naked and leaving with nothing.

19. In your youthful years, you should actually do a few crazy things. If you do a few things, even when you have a head full of gray hair, it will bring tears to your eyes just thinking about it. Then, he said without any regrets: I have been here, the days related to youth.

20. Our happiness comes from the inner truth and being the best version of ourselves; our misfortune comes from our impetuous soul and comparison with others. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Envying other people's beauty and pursuing happiness outside one's own body are all actions of a fool. There are no two identical leaves in the world. No matter how bad you are, you are still unique. There is no need to look down on yourself. The important thing in life is to listen to the voice of your own heart and be a different person.

21. There is a kind of person that no matter how much you miss him, you never want to see him again. These are people who have hurt each other. There is a kind of person who, no matter how much he is hurt, still smiles as before. This is a person whose fate has passed. There is a kind of people who hide a word in each other's hearts, but they are always ambiguous. This is someone who is full of expectations but doesn’t even have the courage to face it himself. There is a kind of person who makes you no longer proud, but makes you full of pride. These are the people who are meant to be together.

22. Is this true for everyone? When I was young, I always felt that I was full of confidence at one moment and lost it at the next. I imagined myself completely incompetent, unattractive, and worthless. At the same time, I feel that I am naturally talented and can achieve success within days. When I am confident, I can overcome even the biggest difficulties, but even the smallest mistake makes me convinced that I am still useless.

23. Life is like riding a train. Love stops and goes. Friends go and stay. Some people get off the train halfway and some get on the train halfway. How many people pass you by here. Only intimate friends Save your friends and those who love you until last. A family is a business, and couples are entrepreneurs. There is no hate in the world. When there are too many people who love, there will be hate. Friends know us when we are lucky, and we know our friends when times are bad. The truth of life is just hidden in simplicity and blandness.

24. The world loves to joke with you. When you are walking, you find that you have gone astray, and in the end you don’t know where you are; when you are walking, you encounter a wall, and you try your best to When you climbed over the wall, you found that there was a cliff behind you. Before you had time to react, you fell down and got bruised and bruised. Unsatisfactory things happen every day, but you are still stumbling to find an exit.

25. If a woman invests in a man during her most important years, then in the following decades, you will continue to beg this man not to leave you. If you invest in yourself, then in the remaining decades, you will smoothly harvest the love that truly belongs to you. Only when you are in the best state, will the best person love you.

26. If a woman is smart, she will know how to get it and how to give it up. Knowing how to gain will give her life dignity and meaning; knowing how to give up will give her life freedom and happiness.

27. Happiness has nothing to do with men. In this life, from far away to the end, there is only the word "self", and the only one who can be responsible for your happiness is yourself.

28. If he comes, I will live happily; if he does not come, I will still live happily. The world is so wonderful, why do you have to give up your freedom and be tied to a man?

29. Some people come to this world to live a good life, while others come to this world to live a good life.

30. Everyone has their own choice, no matter what they choose, there is nothing wrong with it.

But I just want to do the latter - not overriding the will of others, not trying to please and please, and not easily throwing myself into the evaluation system formulated by a third person, being lonely and gentle, and then gaining the fullness of myself. , abundance, depth and compassion.

Postscript: I hope the shoes I buy are the color you desire. I hope you happen to be thinking of me when you make the call. I hope to say good morning you have just woken up too. I hope to write books that are stories you enjoy. I hope you feel sleepy when you turn off the lights. I hope you will always find the fruits you buy sweet. I hope the songs you order are all ones you like to sing. I hope what I hope is what you hope. Every kind of trauma is another kind of maturity

1. You don’t understand how many times a day I read your information. You don’t understand. As soon as I saw your signature change, I started to think wildly. You don’t understand, even if I chat with you online, I will laugh happily. You don’t understand how disappointed I was when I went online and saw you were away. You don’t understand, when everyone said you were not good and not suitable for me, I only said that I liked you. You don’t understand, you go online every night just to wait for a good night. You don’t understand, because it’s you, so I cherish it.

2. Don’t test love, because love is vulnerable. You either believe it from beginning to end, or you don't love it. Testing again and again is to use deception to test deception. Memories are inherently beautiful, as long as you let the past pass. There is nothing better than doing three things well without regrets: first, knowing how to choose; second, knowing how to persevere; third, knowing how to cherish.

3. Don’t say it, you will still miss me after you leave; don’t say it, you will still be friends after you break up. If you leave a place, the scenery no longer belongs to you; if you miss a person, that person has nothing to do with you.

4. Some people can never forget, just like some people can never remember; there is love that can never be let go, just like some love can never be tolerated. . In this world, no matter how broad the heart is, it is selfish when it comes to love. The more you love, the more you will care and the more you will tolerate others. When an open heart has become the size of a needle's eye, then this heart must be immersed and lingering in love, and it will turn over and over again.

5. It is so gratifying to experience and persevere while alive. Life is a difficult journey, and we always have to experience all kinds of pain and suffering. There is no need to magnify the pain, and there is no need to blame others. Let go of the burdens in your heart, life has never owed us anything, and we don’t have to cry all the time. The world is big and there are many scenery. Drink a cup of coffee without sugar and appreciate the bitter taste.

6. Finding the right person is the best gift you can give yourself for the rest of your life.

7. The older you get, the more you understand that sometimes you really need to wait in life. Let what comes and let go. Don’t force it or force it to stay. There will always be a day when you can’t see it away. Be able to look away. What you can't get will one day be given to you in another way. Don't be anxious or complain. It just depends on what answer time will give us. Maybe the answer is not important. If you don't take it lightly, it won't matter. The most important thing is, even if people forget their teeth are cold.

8. Every idea has its meaning, and time is a wise old man.

9. If you have nothing to give up, you will achieve nothing. A person, the only one who can hold on to hope is himself, and the only one who can give up hope is himself. Resentment and jealousy will only make you lose more. Regardless of success or failure, we all have reason to cheer for ourselves! It doesn’t matter if we fall or lose, we can get up and continue to walk through thick and thin, singing and walking. Keep your eyes open and don't let confusion confuse you. Only when there is a shore in the heart can there be a ferry, a ship, and a tomorrow.

10. Every time you give up easily, it is a failure in life. It is not tiring to rely on others, but it is very tiring to be a woman who relies on herself. No matter how tired you are, it's worth it. Because in your life, you no longer need to look at other people's colors, and you don't need to be afraid or worried. All life is in your hands, and that feeling is freedom. No matter how hard and difficult it is, as long as you are a free person, it will be worth it.

11. On the road of life, if you know how to be considerate, understand and tolerate, your life will be very warm and peaceful.

12. People who have never lost often lose miserably; people who have never fallen often cannot get up after falling; people who have never experienced hunger and cold, poverty is destined to be your destination; For those who have not experienced hard work, the majority that belongs to you will not last long.

Whatever you despise will eventually be valued by you; if you focus on one direction, you will eventually go further than others. The fragrance of flowers is always in the night; forging ahead is always in loneliness; success or failure is always on the road.

13. The most beautiful state is to see the darkness and pain of the world but still believe in its simplicity and beauty.

14. Predict less about the future and try not to assume. Treat what you have as everything and the present as eternity. If you are too impetuous, exaggerated, and too tired, you will have difficulty filling your grievances, your mood, and your burdens. , In the end, we are tired and sad, which only increases our worries. Life requires climbing uphill and overcoming obstacles, going through dangers and difficulties. There is no need to be obsessed with one place or stop in one place. Only by seeking happiness in suffering and turning suffering into joy can you broaden your horizons and broaden your mind. Look further and relax. Think about it and be more detached.

15. Even if you are unhappy, you should never disturb the happiness of others. This is the principle.

16. Believe in your own strength, but don’t refuse tears; believe in material beauty, but don’t devote your life; believe in the sincerity between people, but don’t accuse hypocrisy; believe that hard work will succeed, but Don't avoid failure; believe in the fairness of fate, but don't forget that when a door closes, learn to draw a window for yourself.

17. Sometimes, people who know how to avoid problems are better than people who know how to solve them.

18. Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes. Don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk. Being able to suffer is a person with lofty ideals. Being willing to suffer is not an idiot. Only by respecting a gentleman can you be virtuous. Being afraid of villains is not considered incompetent. Taking a step back is the best. Broad, let the three-pointer be calm. If you want to make progress, you need to think about regressing. If you start, think about letting go first. If you are successful, you should not go back to it. There should be room for steps in everything you do. It’s better to think twice before things happen, and to be patient when you are angry is the best. Don't be greedy for unexpected wealth. Those who are content will always be happy.

19. There is no one step too early or one step too late. I met you at that time.

20. Instead of worrying about the future, it is better to work hard now. On this road, only struggle can give you a sense of security. Don't place your dreams on someone easily, and don't care too much about the whispers around you, because the future is your own, and only you can give yourself the greatest sense of security. Don’t forget what you promised yourself to do, and don’t forget where you want to go, no matter how difficult or far it is.

21. Some things seem to be forcing yourself, but in fact they are making things difficult for others.

22. When we were young, we failed to learn the lesson of love, so we made many mistakes. We loved each other tenderly and hated each other violently; we lived happily happily and painfully. Hurt. After the complicated separation and reunion, the people who once loved finally became familiar strangers. As we each walked on the road of life, we finally understood as we grew up: we really didn’t understand love when we were young.

23. When I think of you, there will always be a sweet and sour feeling in my heart. Having such a feeling is so profound that people cannot extricate themselves. I like the feeling of being hugged by you, that tight, suffocating feeling, it is the warmth I long for, and the intimacy I like.

24. Whoever breaks into my venue catches me off guard. I had prepared a plot for a long time, but you gave me a stroke, cunningly and fatally hitting my heart. Whoever I become close to becomes distant from me. The gorgeous performance is a perfect complement to the grand event, but your back is the only one, and the friendly guest appearance leaves unforgettable memories.

25. The best relationship is when two people are together and can tolerate each other. As the saying goes, one thing comes from itself and another thing comes from it. Arrogant and willful people will also meet people who make them forget to play tricks. Whether you are noble or humble, you need to be willing. If you can't control someone, you won't be able to do it willingly. Everyone is always asking, "Who is the right person?" Someone with money, power, talent, and good looks... it's all just a cloud when you think about it. Just find someone who can handle you.

26. Every kind of trauma is another kind of maturity.

27. When a person desperately wants you, this is not love, but possessiveness. A person who truly loves you will not try his best to get you, lie to you, or please you with sweet words, but will help you wholeheartedly and plan for the future. People who love you sometimes can't even stalk you, they just get hurt silently and look at you silently. The deeper the love, the more timid the love.

28. When you think about it, you should actually look away. The love that makes people cry today will eventually fade away. It's all just a matter of time.

29. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you; when you meet a person and he puts away his stubborn temper for you, it is also because he Love you; he turns your interests into his interests, or because he loves you. ---If you find such a person around you, please cherish it. The little fish that escapes is always the most beautiful; the lost lover always understands you best.

30. Love is the most unreasonable thing in the world. It is not a reward for hard work, and it is not a 100% reward you can get through hard work and dedication. It is not a math problem, as long as the calculation method is correct. You must be able to find the right direction and exit, and find the right solution; it requires two people to be in love with each other and work together to continue--but because of the unilateral abandonment of either party, it will be fragile and paralyzed to the end. Some things, when viewed from another perspective, are another kind of mood

1. Many emotions are defeated by distance. Being far away creates dissatisfaction, while being close creates conflicts. In fact, distance is about each other. A kind of respect. Distance is needed in love. Getting along without distance is selfish. You cannot only think about yourself and ignore the feelings of others. Love is not a shackles. Moreover, when you give the other person space, you also give yourself space. No need to be too close, we still have our own lives; no need to be too far away, just a turning distance.

2. I always miss you in the nights when tears fall, I always miss you in the cool mornings and dusk, I always want to hide you gently in my heart, I always want to comfort you with the trembling flute music, I always want to heal my wounds with heartbreaking words...

3. The so-called recovery means not minding living with the pain. ---Chao Xiaocheng's "Elite Lover"

4. You are like the dew-covered petals, bringing me the fragrance of a room; you are like the pigeon whistle across the blue sky, bringing me The tranquility and pursuit of the soul.

5. Guard your heart, don’t guard it like a cat. When it is cold, it comes to snuggle with you; when it is hungry, it comes to call you; when it is itchy, it comes to rub you; when it gets tired, it sneaks away. Guarding a heart is like guarding a dog. It is not you guarding it, but it guarding you!

6. The beautiful words of the past have excited me for many years. The wonderful love of the past has gradually made me understand a true truth. Even if the heart of love is tired, we must persist in loving. Youth is endless. Regrets, love has no regrets, you are tired and I am tired, but we must love the tired love to the end, because no matter how tired the love is, it is also the unforgettable love between you and me.

7. If you like someone, you want to be with them even if you are unhappy; if you love someone, you want to be with them even if you are unhappy.

8. The loneliness of life and the withering of love. It made me so embarrassed, lost my self-esteem, and lost my pride.

9. Love is something that is better to be done in short supply than in excess. It cannot be rushed. If there is love, treat it wholeheartedly. Without love, you can be content alone.

10. The reason why people suffer is because they pursue too much. Even though we know that some ideals will never be realized, some questions will never have answers, some stories will never have endings, and some people will always be just familiar strangers, we are still pursuing, waiting, and fantasizing hard.

11. The chaotic rainstorm beat against the plaster wall, which was too intense. The sound seemed to be exactly the same as the sound of my heart breaking, so familiar. The raindrops hitting my face, accompanied by sighs, penetrated my heart. I thought, since it is coming, it should come more violently and wash away my humble soul.

12. Falling in love with someone is not because they give you what you need, but because they make you feel like you have never felt before.

13. What does it mean for a man to belong to you completely? He gave you his heart, his home, and his wallet. What does it mean for a woman to belong completely to you? She gave you her heart, her body, and all kinds of little emotions like jealousy, anger, and jealousy. A man gives you everything he can carry, and a woman gives you everything her heart can carry. This is love.

14. Some things, when viewed from another perspective, are another mood.

15. We can see the sun, but looking out from the sun, the surroundings are dark, and the sun cannot see its own light. We can see things clearly on the outside, but we don’t understand our inner nature.

16. Sitting quietly all night, just waiting for dawn, thinking about our past, our memories, so long, so long, but our happiness is too short, too short. When I reach out to hold it, how can it be The moon in the water, the flowers in the mirror, are they all just illusions?

17. A lonely thinker, still alone in the busy city.

18. The flowers have fallen, and it is infinitely sad. There was a time when we laughed and showed our faces, but now our hearts are full of sadness; there was a time when we also talked, but now we can only feel a trace of helplessness and heartache; we loved, hurt, and hated, but when we parted, our hearts were full of scars

Nineteen, gently, I don’t want to disturb you. It's a pity that I still encountered memories that hurt me!

20. After many years of waiting, some flower souls are left in the world. Once the birds wake up from their dreams, who knows that the love that has lingered for thousands of years will be buried in a hundred feet of loess. Who knows that wherever the flowers bloom, they will be filled with longing. There is hope for yesterday and there is waiting for today.

On the 21st and July, the willow trees grew more and more lush, and the rich green covered the sky outside the window, and all the memories, whether happy or sad, seemed to be covered by this rich mass. Green is buried in the depths of memory. This terrible green blocks the sun and the sky, leaving only me waiting in loneliness...

22. Secret love is a courtesy , narcissism is a kind of pride, love is a style, and lack of love is a taste.

23. Pursuit and desire bring happiness, but also frustration and disappointment. After frustration and disappointment, we learn to cherish. If you were not loved by someone before, you will cherish the person who will love you in the future.

24. Whenever I quarrel with you and get very fierce, I want to stop and have a good kiss.

25. I want to take care of you, but my method is different from theirs. I want to tell you gently and don’t want to quarrel with you unreasonably.

26. You said we can be friends, but I can’t. I can’t forget you. Even if we are friends, I can’t control myself

2 17. I used to wait for you with all my heart, but after a long time, I found that I no longer love you. Maybe what we love each other is just the feeling that we have never had before! Loving you is ultimately an empty emotional talk, and what you lose will come back in another way.

1. The most important thing for two people to be together is mutual understanding. While he is working hard to make money, what he needs more is your care.

2. The past is gone. No matter what you lose, you should live well, because one day, what you lose will come back in another way.

3. Love has nothing to do with any external conditions. What matters is that you have consistent views, can talk well, have similar personalities, and feel comfortable getting along.

4. Women, live the way you want. Apart from your parents, the only one who can pamper you is yourself. You are living a wonderful life, but are you worried that no one will want you?

5. If there is no one to be your armor yet, pick up your own shield, protect yourself, and make your life wonderful.

6. On the road, someone comes and someone leaves. We can't force anyone to stay or force anyone to leave. We just pass by each other's world, but the traces left behind are pieced together to form our colorful life.

7. The predecessor is also the current one. I'm not good with words, but you are an expert in this area. My salary is not high, so you can buy and buy if you like. I spend less, so you can buy more. I am also busy at work, but I like to spend my free time with you. You don't need to say anything, just looking at you makes me smile happily. I am willing to give you my love and bread, so please come with me through the tribulation. . .

8. Girls who are both financially and mentally independent are very attractive and exude my noble temperament.

9. Your efforts will definitely be rewarded, it may be love, it may be growth, but it will definitely get better and better.

10. The wrong person is the wrong person after all. No matter how hard you persist, you are just torturing yourself.

11. First set a plan and goal for yourself. What to do every day, don’t make yourself too tired, and look forward to your changes.

12. There is a kind of singleness, which is called singleness by choice. Instead of consuming yourself in a bad relationship, it is better to choose to be single and wait for a better love.

13. True love doesn’t have any excuses. Make yourself better. For other things, just let nature take its course. What you want will become better and better as you The time will come.

14. When you become better and better, in fact, you will become more and more casual about love, and you will be less willing to make do with it.

15. Women must have the ability to arrange their time reasonably at all times. They can hold one person and cope with a group of people.

16. It’s not about falling in love. Spend time with each other and learn to leave space for each other.

17. Pretend that I am always good and capable of everything. Invulnerable. But recently I have entered a dead end and cannot get out. It seems that there is no difference between living and not living, and the latter is even easier.

18. Living is to realize your dreams. Only when you work hard to live and move forward can you truly feel the meaning of existence.

19. If you love someone again, you must not lose your original appearance, otherwise you may become farther and farther away from love.

20. Falling in love is not easy to stick to, but it is even harder to stick to it. A good relationship depends on the relationship to be born and won. A high-quality relationship understands each other, is the same as each other, tolerates each other, and progresses together. Learn to be a person who understands love, but also a person who doesn't lose yourself.