Why do many colleagues do one thing to face and one thing to the back?

"You can endure him, let him, avoid him, endure him, let him, respect him and ignore him. In a few years, you will see him. "

Because many colleagues are actually in a competitive relationship, in order to maintain superficial harmony, they will say one thing to their face, say one thing behind their backs, do one thing to their face and do another thing behind their backs.

The main purpose of doing this is to maintain their competitiveness in the company, and don't want others to surpass themselves and compare themselves. This may also be an office survival philosophy. These are common phenomena in any company, so we don't have to make a fuss.

If you don't want to go along with them or do the same thing, talk as little as possible or have less conflicts of interest with them.