I feel very depressed mentally, as if I am about to collapse. I even have thoughts of death, but I don’t want to tell others about the troubles in my heart. What should I do?

I feel very depressed mentally, as if I am about to collapse. I even have thoughts of death, but I don’t want to tell others about the troubles in my heart. What should I do?

People who grow up in different environments, gender, age, time, and wisdom will receive different answers. I can’t finish them in three days and three nights.

Happiness, happiness has no end. If there is an end, it will be lost to cruel and ruthless reality, alas!

Sister, you have forgotten that you are a woman, your mind is confused, and you have lost your way. Calm down your mind first, then you will have wisdom, and you will not be in a bad mood, causing trouble and harm to yourself.

People live for themselves, and they are the most important. If they lose their direction, lose themselves, and cause unnecessary sadness and pain, then why bother?

In fact, the answer is very simple, use your heart and wisdom, "Understanding is happiness, there is no reason to be happy." "What I don't understand is that I'm in a bad mood, sad, painful and tired. Why? Why"?

Building a career in the world is a man's business. Women only need to have the wisdom and attentiveness to find a good partner and do his job well. A good wife, if you can have love and bread at the same time, the rest won’t be too troublesome.

I will answer your question from different angles. What you are asking about is the effect. After I help you solve it, it will not help you much. It will happen again in the future. I will give it to you to eliminate the cause. If you have the direction, you will not make the same mistake. This question must first find the direction before it can be answered correctly. Just like us, psychiatrists and traditional Chinese medicine doctors, we cannot prescribe prescriptions if we cannot know the patient's condition.

First of all, I need to know "are you talking sarcastically" and "or are you telling the truth?" The truth is hard to hear. If the following reply does not satisfy you, or if it offends you, please read Guan Duoduo, understanding. Forgive me, I don’t ask for grades and success or failure. I just want to take this opportunity to let you know more about other aspects. It may help you find the direction and shorten some of your suffering. Ignorance will make you suffer for the rest of your life. So, teach me. Scolding and scolding are two sides of the same coin. Please understand my little sister’s hard work, and please be mentally prepared!

There is an ancient saying that it is painful to love, but happiness is to be loved. I will choose the person who loves me first. At the very least, I will not "fall out of love" and suffer "heart-breaking pain". Being loved will make you happier and sweeter. If you tell him to go east, he will not dare to run west. Even if you do anything wrong and lose your temper, he will tolerate you.

Any vigorous love must be based on facts and reality so as not to deteriorate. If there is no realistic support, love is just a dream. There has been a famous saying since ancient times: "Since ancient times, there is only so much love and hatred." Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai have been a good story for thousands of years, but in the end, it could not match the reality. Ma Wencai separated the couple, which became an eternal regret. . The so-called "couples who don't have money will suffer from everything". Today’s fact is that in real life, “money is not everything, but money is everything.”

Without a foundation, everything is empty talk, which will only increase the pain. Love cannot be filled with water, and sometimes relying on mouth and talking in sleep is not enough.

If you are a woman, what is a woman? In fact, women don't want much. What they are looking for in the vast sea of ????people is a sense of security. Relationships and marriage are a matter of a woman's lifetime, but they are part of a man's life, so a woman will carefully and carefully consider whether the man she is dating is a general? A slave? Or a person who says he is invincible, but is a hollow carrot with weak intentions? . "Choose bread and you will die laughing. Choose love and I will starve to death." You said I was a woman, which one would I choose?

A woman’s age from 17 to 30 is the age when men all over the world are happy to treat her to dinner. Go and use it well. The blessings God has given to women should carefully choose a sense of security. Don’t just do it for the sake of security. One, feeling, emotion, and loneliness lose one's reason, and come to be buried in the hands of a hollow carrot.

If you only get a small amount of money every month, you can't afford a car or a house. If you have nothing to do now, who will you rely on for your parents' filial piety in the future? What should you do if you are suffering from physical illness? Where is your sense of security? .

There are many men in the world who can make women feel comfortable, but there are fewer men who can make women feel comfortable and happy. "You have to use wisdom and heart to find them."

Actually, you are smarter and wiser than me. There is a saying: A wise person should not only use his own wisdom, but also use the wisdom of others. See for yourself. On the Internet, you can just post a few words and then you can cut off half of my head. If you write a few more words, then I will give you all the experience of my little brain. Have you dug it all out? Finally, your "great wisdom is like a fool" is too bad. But don't tell me, "I didn't expect that." Dizzy.

People are late-minded, and you will know it as soon as it is said. If you follow the previous method and have wisdom and initiative, are you still afraid that you will not be able to live the life you want or the life that others want? Aren't you happy? What pain and trouble are there? . . What else is there to be tired and worried about? .

Final conclusion: Be careful that your biggest enemy is "yourself". Don't be harmed by the "laziness" in your own head. It will kill your hands and feet and make you tired all your life. peaceful.

This is not an article, this is a talk from experience. I have already done it, it’s up to you, come on, come on. Failure and success lie in your thoughts. Destiny and opportunities must be controlled by yourself. Don't go in the wrong direction.

Remember: take action, no, just talk but not do it. 2008 is the year of hope. Let’s encourage each other.

Someone asked me online, old Chinese medicine practitioner, are you a doctor? Hee hee~~~It is guaranteed to be replaced if it is fake.