Trust between people is like a mirror image sentence.

"Trust is like a piece of paper. Once it has wrinkles, it will never be smooth.

No matter how deep the feelings are, even if they are reconciled by every means, there will still be bad feelings.

Only one heart. It's not hot when it's cold. Trust only once. If you lose it, you cannot get it back. "

Life is alive, there is no trust for no reason, and people are mutual.

If any relationship wants to go to the end, mutual trust is the most basic.

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Trust is the hardest thing.

Tolstoy once said, "To be true bosom friends, we must trust each other."

People are always mutual.

Only sincerity can get sincerity, and trust can get trust.

Song Lian, one of the three great poets in Ming Dynasty, loved reading since he was a child, but because of his poor family, he could not afford books.

So he often borrowed other people's books to copy them, agreed on the return period every time, returned them in time, and never broke the contract.

On a cold winter night, the inkstone froze and his fingers could not move, but he still didn't stop copying.

Mother looked distressed and advised him to say:

"Son, it's too cold, it's the middle of the night. Wait until dawn to copy slowly. People are not in a hurry to ask you to pay it back. This is just a trivial matter. "

Song Lian said, "Whether I am urged to return the book or not, I will take the initiative to return it at the appointed time.

Since he trusted me and lent me the book, I can't break my word and betray others' trust. "

Then he continued to copy and returned the book on time the next day.

There is a good saying: "Trust is the most beautiful language between people, and it is also the basis for maintaining feelings." "

Trust is the premise of communication with people; Trust is the foundation between people.

It is said that in this world, trust and people's hearts are the most rare.

Trust is rare because it is too fragile. Once trust collapses, it is difficult to re-establish.

So, don't lose trust.

It is the best respect for others' trust to live up to one's word and not be perfunctory.

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Doubt hurts the most.

Ouyang Xiu once said:

"Do as I say, there is no doubt. It is better to choose someone than to take it lightly and not believe it. "

It means telling us to dispel doubts and learn to trust others.

I remember a sentence:

"All misunderstandings in this world come from incomprehension, all contradictions come from non-communication, and all misses come from distrust."

History as a Mirror records a story like this:

In the Jin Dynasty, there was a minister named Wang Dao, and his younger brother Wang Dun got up to make an insurrection.

Wang Dao, fearing that his family would be implicated, knelt in front of the palace with his youngest son to show his loyalty.

At this moment, his good friend Zhou Boren appeared.

When Zhou Boren was about to enter the palace, Wang Dao begged him to intercede with the saints, saying, "My family of more than 100 people depends on you."

Unexpectedly, Zhou Boren didn't seem to hear it, so he walked in directly with a straight face.

But in fact, Zhou Boren put in a good word for Wang Dao when he met the Holy Family.

After returning home, I wrote a letter and submitted it again, pleading with Wang Dao.

But Wang Dao didn't know what Zhou Boren had done, but because of Zhou Boren's superficial indifference, he suspected that he had betrayed himself and held a grudge.

Later, when Zhou Boren had an accident, Wang Dao didn't say a word and looked at him coldly.

Later, when Wang Dao was sorting out the documents, he came across the throne that Zhou Boren tried his best to intercede for him. Only then did I know that Zhou Boren had been trying his best to protect him.

Thinking of his doubts about him, Wang Dao was annoyed and cried and said:

"I don't kill Boren, but Boren died because of me. I am sorry for this good friend! "

That's exactly what I said: "Suspicion will turn all worries into ulterior motives."

It is true that people are most afraid of suspicion in communication.

Imagine, if you give your heart to a person, you will get doubt and suspicion, and everyone will feel chilling.

Never doubt others for no reason, because trust is destroyed and feelings are gone.

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Trust, only once.

Joseph Lu said:

"Trust is an important part of friendship. How much this air is reduced, how much friendship will disappear accordingly. "

If two hearts want to be close, they often take trust as a bridge to gain mutual recognition and affirmation.

No matter how good the relationship is, without trust, two hearts will drift apart.

When sincere trust is disappointed again and again, no matter how hot the heart is, it will feel chilling.

Only those who know how to cherish can gain trust, and only those who know how to respect can have sincerity.

There is such a story in Zuo Zhuan.

At that time, Qin Jin jointly attacked Zheng, who was dying.

Zheng Wengong sent a candle to see Qin Mugong in the middle of the night.

The Power of Candles uses his golden words to analyze Qin Mugong;

"Please think it over. You are so friendly with the state of Jin. You gave the state of Jin kindness, but he encroached on the interests of the State of Qin.

You've been a big help. Kim promised you two cities, but what happened?

He ignored your friendship, broke his word and betrayed your trust.

Is such a dishonest person worthy of your help? I want you to think it over. "