What if I can't go home for the New Year?

What if I can't go home for the New Year?

What if I can't go home for the New Year? Many people have already set foot on the journey of returning home, but some people still stay in the city to continue their work. It is also a very annoying thing that there is no way to go home at this time. See what to do if you can't go home for the New Year.

What if I can't go home for the New Year? 1 Send money back.

During the Spring Festival, I can't go home because of my busy work. I keep the money I earn for my own use, and send the rest home to let my family have a good year. Although I can't accompany them, I will try my best to satisfy my family materially.

Send something back

According to the preferences of each family member, buy a gift you like to make your family happy. Seeing a gift is as happy as seeing yourself go back.

make a telephone call

Take time to call home on New Year's Eve, greet everyone in the family, find out about the situation at home, and reassure your family that they won't care too much about you when you are outside.

Video with family

Now the mobile phone can video, and you can video with your family on the 30th, just like meeting each other. They are close, they can see each other's faces, and they are not too far apart.

Let friends take the place.

If the colleagues who work together are also old friends at home, they can also ask friends to visit them on their behalf. They are all on the road, no trouble, but they can bring great comfort to their families. Meeting friends is just like meeting you.

Go home to visit before or after making a mistake.

If you can't go home on the 30th, you can find a time to go home earlier or later to visit your relatives. As long as we meet, it doesn't matter if we don't go back for 30 days. It is not easy to work in a foreign country, and your family can understand your hard work.

What if I can't go home for the New Year? What kind of mentality do people who don't want to go home have?

First, the Spring Festival has lost its flavor (I think this is the main reason).

It's 2022, and it's about to enter. The post-80s and post-90s have become the main body of society. Because most of them are only children, they lack the feelings of brothers and sisters, coupled with the development of commodity economy and the lack of communication with relatives all the year round, this generation's feelings for rural families have become weak, and naturally they lack the flavor of the year.

Second, I failed to make money (this should be the reason why I dare not go home).

Many young people go out to work and go to new first-tier cities such as Beishangguangshen or Wuhan and Xiamen. Wages in these big cities are relatively high, but prices are also high. Let me take ordinary white-collar workers in cities as an example. After getting their salary every month, the first thing to be solved is rent, water and electricity, and then they are left with daily expenses, clothes and communication with friends every month.

Counting all kinds of expenses, one month's salary can be said to be little left. If you have to support your family, this salary is even more pitiful. Moreover, going home during the Spring Festival requires travel expenses, clothes and gifts, and thousands of miscellaneous things. Plus the lucky money needed for the New Year, it will cost tens of thousands to go home. After the Spring Festival, all the savings for one year were used up. Think about it, so many people choose not to go back.

Third, young people will be urged to find a partner, get married and have children as soon as they get home.

There are more and more young people who are not in a hurry to get married and have children now. They pay more attention to exploring themselves, pursuing personal values, being loyal to their original intentions, and paying little attention to the eyes of the outside world. However, in the parents' generation, most parents don't think so.

Therefore, for those young people who are not married, the most common nagging during the Chinese New Year is to get married early, while for young couples without children, the most common nagging is to urge them to give birth to the next generation early. Therefore, it is precisely because of this reason that many young people have resistance to going home for the New Year and don't want to go home for the New Year because they don't want to hear these nagging and urging.

Fourth, the social atmosphere of keeping up with the joneses is serious now.

Nowadays, the wind of comparison prevails in rural areas. Even if I bite my teeth to buy tickets, buy gifts and go home for the New Year, I am reluctant to spend more money. If you meet a relative who loves to compare with others, you will lose face. For example, when you go home, everyone's cigarettes will be changed to China's and Panda's, not to mention the Ninth Five-Year Plan. At this time, you still have a dozen packs of seven wolves in your hand, hehe, wait for ridicule.

What is even more disturbing is that relatives haven't seen each other for a long time after the Chinese New Year. It's nice to sit down and chat with each other, but once you sit down, you regret it immediately. They will ask if you have bought a house or car, your salary and so on. Even if it seems to be laughing and laughing, it is actually embarrassing to the extreme. That's it. Who wants to go back for the Spring Festival?

Friends are not related by blood, but friends are generally like-minded people. They won't embarrass you, laugh at you and understand your situation. Close friends will help you without hesitation when you are in trouble and will boldly point out when you are wrong.

And some relatives, who don't come and go all the year round, are nothing without their blood. So I think if I can, I will go back for the Spring Festival and see my real relatives.

People who want to go home have the same reasons, and people who don't want to go home have their own reasons. Despite these macro reasons, some friends have a more interesting mentality, that is, it is rare to take a small long vacation and want to sleep but can't sleep well.

A friend, who usually gets up early at work, is eager to have a good sleep every holiday and sleeps him for a day and a night. But I can't sleep well at home during the New Year. Constant firecrackers are a nightmare for people who sleep lightly. Plus being woken up by my mother to eat jiaozi every morning makes people want to cry.

Some friends are sad because they don't want to go home for the New Year. They are full of helplessness. Who doesn't want to go home? Because I don't know where my home is. It's not that I don't want to go home, but that I don't know where my home is. Some people say that you didn't have a family before you got married, because it was your parents' home, not yours. I was deeply touched by this sentence when I was a child.

For some friends whose parents are divorced, it must be very unpleasant to have a reunion festival every time. In particular, parents have formed their own new family. Going to father and mother are both their own homes, but neither seems to be their own home. So, they all worked hard outside all the year round and didn't want to go back because they didn't want to disturb the peaceful and happy life of those two families.

Anyway, you don't like the world anymore, and you can't resist the temptation to go home. How can anyone really not want to go home for the New Year? This is a matter for China people. How do you feel about going home?

What if I can't go home for the New Year? What about those who don't want to go home for the New Year?

Uncle Wang's son went home a week ago. He is studying in the provincial capital, and now it's winter vacation. Two days ago, the father and son talked and laughed every day, and then they began to "intensify contradictions." Today is a complete explosion. Why? It turned out that Uncle Wang made breakfast this morning to wake his son up, but his son just answered and went to sleep again. He didn't get up until an hour later. It was already ten o'clock, so Uncle Wang scolded his son, and then they quarreled.

It is estimated that many people have experienced these trivial things, and they are homesick if they don't go home, but they are looking forward to returning to work in the city as soon as possible after the Chinese New Year, or they often quarrel with their parents at home and can't stand that environment. Then why did these things happen? Four reasons to see which one you belong to. First, the living environment of children and parents is very different. Because of work, school and other reasons, children have been in the city, and we all know that the lifestyle of the city is very different from that of the countryside, so it is inevitable that there will be contradictions when the two sides live together during the New Year.

Second, children who are used to living in cities basically have mobile phone diseases, which is the most troublesome thing for parents. In my parents' words, I just keep staring at my cell phone and don't know what to do. It's nothing at ordinary times, but Chinese New Year is supposed to be a busy time for families, and children will "neglect" their parents just by staring at their mobile phones. Children think this is nothing, but parents will think, is the mobile phone that important? More important than parents? More important than family reunion?

Third, I can't adapt to some conditions in the countryside. My children have lived in the city for too long, and there is no countryside they need. For example, Xiao Wang once complained to me that he felt a little hungry at 10 at night and wanted to go out and buy something to eat. As soon as he left the gate, he realized that he was not in the city, but in his hometown in the country. Where can he buy food when he is hungry? So I had to endure hunger until the next day. Or some girls like shopping, which is normal in the city, but there is no place to go shopping in their hometown unless they go to the market.

Fourth, the generation gap, a topic for many years, is also a developing phenomenon. The ideas of the younger generation are different from those of the older generation. After all, it is normal for different things to create a generation gap. This is why parents don't like their children to sleep late and play mobile phones and computers. If you don't like it, you want to say something. Finally, when you quarrel, family conflicts come out.