How to be a gentleman? In language, action, communication and other aspects.

(1) Pay attention to appearance and neatness of clothes. Men should not be vulgar and sloppy, and women should not be frivolous and gaudy.

(2) be polite, elegant and generous in words and deeds. In communication, when making introductions, it is the custom in western countries to introduce men to women first, the young to the old, and the low-ranking to the high-ranking. The order cannot be reversed, otherwise it is considered impolite.

(3) civilized language, being polite to others and not doing anything beyond courtesy, is a polite expression of gentlemanly manners. "Please", "You", "Thank you", "I'm sorry" and "Goodbye" are civilized expressions that express a person's education and manners.

gentlemanly manners

A man's courtesy can often show the moral demeanor of a man in a civilized society, and can also show a man's education level. In fact, a man's demeanor should be reflected not only in his communication with his girlfriend, but also in his attitude towards women in daily life.

(1) You should greet the familiar lady with a slight nod first. If a lady walks up to you, please remember that you can only shake hands with her if she offers her hand.

(2) When you meet a familiar lady in a public place, you don't have to shake hands, but you must take your hand out of your pocket and take the cigarette off your mouth. If you are eating, you should stop chewing, and of course, so should the lady. It is disgraceful for a man to stop a woman in the street, even if he is an acquaintance. Of course, exceptions can be made if there is an emergency.

(3) If you meet an acquaintance while walking in the street with your female companion, you can't leave your female companion alone and talk with the acquaintance endlessly. You can introduce your acquaintances to your female companions, but if you have to talk about something with your acquaintances and you can't say it clearly in a few words, you can make an appointment to meet or call. (4) If a woman takes the car you are driving, you must open the door and let the woman sit in the co-pilot position first, and then you can sit in your own position. When the lady gets off the bus, you should get off first and open the door for the lady. It's unsightly to lean over in the car and open the door. Of course, women can't take out their luggage by themselves.

(5) When you meet a familiar lady in a cafe or restaurant, you should lean slightly from your seat to show your welcome. If a lady approaches you, stand up and talk to her.

(6) At the party, your girlfriend needs to go to the bathroom to tidy up a little. You can take her to the lobby, but you should detour carefully so as not to disturb the people who are dancing.

(7) After the party, if you have the conditions to drive your own car or take a taxi to send your girlfriend home, don't forget to thank her for accepting the invitation. Generally, I watch my girlfriend approach the stairs or the door. It is more polite to get out of the car and send your girlfriend to her door.