Ask someone to do things, with some sincerity.

65438+February 30th? 18/ 100 ? Ask someone to do things, with some sincerity.

I saw an article "Things that can be solved with money, try not to bb". After reading it, I deeply agree. Growing up, I have seen all kinds of things to find relationships and ask people for help in order to do one thing. At that time, I came to a conclusion that you should never owe anyone anything that can be solved with money.

Now the most used software is WeChat. In order to expand their influence, merchants often engage in activities to let users turn articles and praise gifts. We often see "harassment information" such as friends forwarding articles for praise in major WeChat groups and friends circle. Sometimes, as a friend, I may do you a favor. More often, when this happens, it is ignored. If it happens frequently, it may be hacked. I don't know about others, but I am. Based on my own psychology, I think most people are the same. So today in the WeChat group, I want my classmates to help me praise the WeChat article. After forwarding the article, I immediately sent a red envelope. As the saying goes: eating people has a short mouth and taking people's hearts. Although the red envelope is not big, it is a bit unreasonable to accept it. Although it cost a little money, the effect was surprisingly good, and it rushed directly to the message board. Asking for help in the WeChat group and sending a red envelope is the fastest and most effective way. Psychologically, this breaks people's adaptive prejudice. Before I saw others' praise, I asked to choose not to watch it. When I saw a surprise and a red envelope, I felt unexpectedly happy and more willing to do it. The person who sent it gained the effect, and the person who took it was also happy, killing two birds with one stone.

No one should be nice to you, remember to give back and be grateful. We have been loved and cared for by our parents since childhood, so slowly, when they pay, we feel taken for granted and feel at ease. A bowl of noodles given to you by strangers can make us cry. Our parents have never been so grateful for their efforts for decades. In fact, no one in the world should be kind to you, including parents. Everyone's help and love for us should be kept in mind, and then choose a suitable opportunity to give back. This is especially true when seeking help. Show sincerity, give gifts, invite you to dinner, and show your attitude. No one should do anything for you unless he is paid. For the help of friends, the care of parents and the kindness of strangers, we thank them in time with actions.

Can be solved with money, try not to ask friends for help, human feelings are the most expensive. I have seen countless realistic examples and realized this truth. A illegally parked on the side of the road, and the traffic police came to post a fine, and found that it was his old friend B. After some greetings, B withdrew the ticket and released A. After that, A was caught by B for many violations, but survived, and A accepted this favor. Once, when they were having dinner together, B asked for trouble to arrange one of his relatives to work in A's company. Due to previous human feelings, A can't refuse. Who knows that A's relatives are the laziest and most inefficient bosses, and staying in the company not only does nothing, but also incites other employees to be lazy. At this time, A regretted it. Tens of thousands of wages are not mentioned every year, which seriously affects management The hundreds of tickets saved at the beginning brought a lot of trouble. If A doesn't accept B's kindness of not issuing a ticket, it's not ungrateful to pay. After that, what B proposed can be safely rejected, and less trouble will be caused.

This kind of similar thing happens from time to time around us. Countless people who are greedy for small profits and save small money find friends to solve it. In the end, they all have more trouble and more money. In China, human feelings are the most expensive. Any problem or trouble that can be solved with money should be solved with money as much as possible. It won't be long before you find that this is the most economical choice.

Ask for help and show sincerity. It is an obligation for someone to help, and it is also an obligation for no one to help. Thank everyone who is willing to help you. At the same time, whether you spend money or teach yourself, try to solve things by yourself and don't bother your friends.

To sum up:

00 1 will do. Don't harass, harass and give out red envelopes.

Ask friends for help and be grateful in time.

003 can be solved with money, don't bother your friends.