My mother-in-law didn't give 1 a bride price, but only got a gift on the wedding night, and my parents came to pick me up overnight.

My name is He Rili, and my home is in the city. My husband and I met at work, and his home is in the countryside. We are going to get married after six months of love. When talking about marriage, my mother-in-law said that their family had a low income in the countryside and had a brother-in-law who was going to get married in the future. So there was no bride price money, and my mother was very unhappy when she heard it, saying that she would give some bride price money.

My mother-in-law said that there was really no money at home. However, I received gifts from my relatives and friends on my wedding day. My mother knows that my mother-in-law will not give money for the bride price anyway, and seeing that my husband and I have a good relationship and can't bear to break us up, she has to agree.

The wedding was held in the countryside, and all the relatives and friends of my husband's family came, which was very festive. One part of the wedding is that the bride offers tea to her relatives and elders, and then the relatives and elders will give the bride red envelopes.

I've been to weddings before, and I knew there was such a custom in some places, so I agreed. But my mother-in-law asked me to kneel and kowtow to my relatives and elders to get red envelopes. After standing all day, I am very tired. But I thought to myself, do as the Romans do.

So I kowtowed to my relatives one by one, one after another, and the red envelopes were also one after another. Later, several of my husband's colleagues came to join in the fun and asked me to kowtow to them. I'm too tired to move. I asked my husband for help with my eyes. My husband said there were only a few, so I insisted.

I was almost exhausted when I finished. When you are tired of playing, you will break up. Go back to your room, wash up and get ready to go to bed early. But just after taking a shower, my mother-in-law came in. She asked me to hand over the gift money, saying that it was all the gift money she had given to others before, and I had to give it to her.

I'll tell you what she said when she refused to give me a bride price and was willing to give me a gift. My mother-in-law doesn't care, just saying it's an expression and can't really give it to me. If I don't give it, my mother-in-law will come up and grab it. If I can't get it, she will take all the gift money, including the red envelope for tea.

When my husband doesn't say a word around me, I get angry and let him go to his mother-in-law to get it back. As a result, my husband said that it was more than 60,000 yuan at most, and asked me not to haggle over every ounce, just as this money was filial to my mother-in-law.

I am very angry. It was clearly agreed at the beginning, and now it changes face so quickly. I called my parents immediately, and they drove to pick me up overnight and asked me to get a divorce. In-laws and husbands stopped them and said that some people divorced just after they got married?

Mother said angrily to her mother-in-law: How dare you stop it? I shouldn't have agreed to let my daughter marry into your family. Your family is really smart. If you want to marry a daughter-in-law, you don't have to spend a penny, but you have to get a wedding gift. My daughter doesn't want this money either. Daughter doesn't have to marry. You can live with these gifts!

As a result, my mother-in-law sat on the ground, yelling that my parents bullied their poor family. Just got married and went back on our word, saying that the banquet was also booked. If I divorce, their family will lose face. My husband also begged me not to divorce, and I was a little soft-hearted. Is it not tens of thousands of dollars? I kind of want to forget.

However, my parents told me to leave at once, and the marriage was going to divorce. They said that if I marry such a family, I may not know how much injustice I will suffer in the future.

Do you think I should listen to my parents' divorce?

How do you think my mother-in-law didn't give me 1 as a bride price, but took the gift money on the wedding night, and my parents came to pick me up overnight?

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