When is a person particularly sad?

The saddest thing is when a person is alone. In the dead of night, standing alone in front of the window, looking at the lights of thousands of houses, but he is all alone. At this time, I feel particularly sad!

When I started my own business, I often worked late at night, very tired and sleepy, but I still couldn’t finish the work. Sometimes I was so tired that I wanted to give up, but there was no one to share the burden for me. , I feel helpless, my heart is very painful, and I want to cry happily.

The moment you leave the place where you have lived for a long time, say goodbye to the people you are most familiar with, and say goodbye to your loved ones, the car has slowly started to move, and the person who saw you off is still staying where you are, and you are sitting in front of the window. Look, you are about to go to a strange place to work or live, and you don’t know when we will see each other again. At this moment, your heart will be very sour, so sour that you want to shed tears... Maybe you don't want to leave, but you have to leave...

I don't know why, but just looking at him almost made me cry.

I remember when I was in high school

It was a hot afternoon. My classmates came back from the cafeteria after eating, talking, laughing and playing around before they had a lunch break. During this happy time in class, the classroom was in chaos, and everyone's face was filled with confident smiles, as if flowers were about to grow.

A person suddenly came in at that time

He stood on the podium and looked around. The students became quiet because of their instinctive reaction, but it seemed that he really didn’t want to be the teacher. , it didn’t take long before the noise started again. He hesitated on the podium for nearly a minute, his face flushed, as if he wanted to say something but couldn't. But even with his embarrassing appearance, no one was willing to raise their head and pay attention.

He suddenly seemed to have made up his mind

He waved his hands and shouted to stop talking, and then began to sell his tutorial books. He really didn’t want to look like a salesman. , the stumbling introduction, the lame and weird Mandarin, and the rustic look make people not want to buy his stuff at all.

It didn’t take long for the students to exhaust their little enthusiasm.

Gradually, his voice was drowned in the noise. He kept telling the students to be quiet. After a while, someone laughed and teased him and asked him questions. He was left awkwardly on the podium and began to feel at a loss again, hesitating and not knowing what to answer.

At that moment, I really felt sad. He tried hard to smooth out the wrinkles in his rustic clothes to make himself look decent, but for such a middle-aged man, he looked like a clown. Still being teased.

When you encounter difficulties and no one tells you, when you have good intentions but do bad things, when you work hard to protect your family but are not recognized by your family, etc.

Before I got married, every birthday would be accompanied by friends and I would buy myself whatever I liked. Although the birthday ceremony was not grand, I still felt full of happiness. In the past few years after getting married and having children, apart from working, taking care of housework and taking care of the children, I had less contact with my old friends. I feel particularly sad when it comes to my birthday for a few years, because no one remembers it, there are no gifts or cakes. Although I comfort myself that it’s okay, I love myself and I buy myself a cake, I still feel sad that I have sacrificed so much for my family. , but no one can love yourself.

In my first year after graduating from college, my father was seriously ill in the hospital. My family called me and waited for me to go back and sign to pay the hospitalization fee. I was penniless. This was the most sad and helpless time in my life. At that time, my heart was shaking, my eyes were blank, and I didn’t know what to do!

My family was not rich to begin with. I had been making money on my own when I went to college, and I didn’t ask my family for money. I entered college in poverty, and even more so. I left college with empty pockets! I just found a job and haven’t waited for my salary to be paid yet. Our company guarantees three months’ salary and only pays the salary in the fourth month.

My aunt is in Suzhou, because I am also in Suzhou. My father was ill and hospitalized. It was my uncle who called my aunt and asked her to tell me.

My aunt asked a distant relative to call me at work. This person was honest and arrogant and didn't explain clearly for a long time. He only said that my family wanted me to go back. My aunt asked him to come and say something to me.

I couldn’t get through the phone at home because my parents had gone to the hospital. The phone I called my father was turned off, which made me even more anxious. No one answered my call to my aunt. She was dancing at the time and didn’t hear me. In fact, I blame my aunt for this. Her own eldest brother was dying, but she didn't come to call me in person, and she still had the heart to dance.

I had to go find my aunt in person. She didn’t come home until after 11 o’clock in the evening. When I got home, she gave me a meal: Why did you come to my house if you didn’t go home? I thought you had gone back a long time ago. Do you have no money? Come to me to borrow money? I don’t have any money either. I haven’t been paid for several months and I can barely afford to eat.

Me: Why did you ask me to go home? That person came over and only told me that you asked me to go home, and he didn’t know what I was going to do when I went home. I'm busy with work and can't leave.

Aunt: Are you too busy at work to leave? You came to my house to stay for half a day and got home early. Your old man was sick and was in the hospital. Your father called me and asked me to come back to you. You don't get a penny in the hospital, and no one has any money to pay for it. We wait until you go home to sign and pay for treatment, otherwise you, old man, will be in danger.

When I heard what she said, it was like a bolt from the blue. I ran and cried to find my boyfriend to take me to the airport. My boyfriend booked a flight for me, sent me to the airport, gave me my bank card, and told me to be careful along the way and not to be in a hurry.

When I arrived at the hospital, my uncle was also there. When he saw me, he yelled at me: "You old man is so sick. Why can't you come back quickly? What are you doing so slowly?" I owe the hospital several days' payment. Come out and pay the fee. I'll ask the doctor to come over and take a look. The plan has been drawn up and I'm just waiting for you to come back.

I was so scared that I didn’t know anything. I asked my uncle: How much is it? How much do you have to pay? I have no money.

The uncle said: You have no money? What do you do when you have no money? What's the use of you? If you don’t have money, go borrow it quickly.

Me: Please lend me some money, and I will pay you back when it’s over.

The uncle yelled: How can I have money? I have already advanced 1,000 yuan to go in. Please pay me back immediately. It's better for you to come back and sign to treat your old man's illness. If you don't have money, I won't care. You can take care of it yourself! You don’t know what your family is doing. You are so poor that you can’t even afford a penny.

After speaking, my uncle turned around and walked away, scolding me as he walked. At that time, he just cried. The mother was helpless and the father lay dying. I called my boyfriend crying: I have no money and my father cannot afford medical treatment.

My boyfriend said: Stop crying, where is the card I gave you? There is money in it, you can spend it as you like and take good care of yourself and your parents! If it’s not enough, I’ll give you another injection! Buy more nutritious food for your father, hire the best doctor and go to the best hospital.

After hanging up the phone, I felt confident. I went to the window to pay all the fees I owed, and then went to see the attending doctor. My father was treated as needed. I asked the doctor if I needed to be transferred to another hospital, and the doctor said no. I gave the doctor HB and she didn’t want it, and later I bought her a gift and didn’t want it either. The doctor treated me carefully, and my father got better day by day, and I felt more at ease.

After I went back, my uncle never came to the hospital, and he didn’t even call me. He completely ignored me and was afraid that I would ask him to borrow money. I took the money back and gave 1,000 to my father. If my uncle came over, Return the money to him immediately, don't owe anyone else! I don't want to see him, my father said: Don't be like this, your uncle has been running up and down this time, and your aunt has found a doctor. The two of them have worked hard. I will give them the money in advance, and I will definitely thank them properly when I get better.

Me: You are brothers. Shouldn’t he do these trivial things? When he saw me when I came back, he was so vicious that he almost ate me. He was afraid that I would not pay him back, and he was even more afraid of asking him to borrow money. He felt uncomfortable thinking about me.

Later, I worked hard to make money. No matter when, I must keep some money around for emergencies.

When you really need money, your pockets are empty, that feeling is really uncomfortable! If you have money in your hand, you don’t feel panic, that may be the reason! Especially when you borrow money from others and are looked down upon, you feel even more uncomfortable. This kind of sadness is something only you know.

It was probably during the Chinese New Year, and I saw everyone else busy buying new year's goods, but I could only walk alone among the bustling crowd, aimlessly, not knowing what I should do. I closed the door, closed the window, and closed my heart. I acted out my own plot alone and told everyone that I was living a good life. My superb acting skills actually deceived everyone.

When you are desperate and have nothing, you find that there is no family member around you who can turn to you or a confidant who can help you, especially when you ask others to borrow money to tide you over. Friends around you say There are no excuses to avoid it. At this time, it is not only disappointment but also despair. Suddenly you will feel that the world has abandoned you, you can't find your former self and you have no courage to live. Perhaps only when you can't help but cry sad tears, you will understand the sadness and heartache.

When you are sick, no one takes care of you. It was really sad at that time

Being lonely and helpless is the saddest thing, and not being understood by friends is also sad.