What do you think of married life?

Married life can be divided into several situations and cannot be generalized. There is a big difference between having children and not having children, living with in-laws or living alone, being married for a short time or being an old married couple.

Before getting married and having children,

First, the young couple will live alone after marriage. This is not much different from living together before marriage. It is so sweet for two people to be together. There is no burden at all, if the family buys a house. If you want to cook, just work on it together, even if it doesn't taste good, it doesn't matter; if you don't want to cook, just go out with friends to eat, it will be lively and more intimate than when you are in love. Moreover, the protective shield of marriage gives the two of them an unprecedented sense of security. Sometimes they can't help but smile when looking at each other, because they know that the other person belongs to them. The feeling of defining a relationship is simply not good. Although there are some minor frictions in living habits, it doesn't matter if they love each other and drink enough water. The initial polite feeling between the two people is still there. After all, two people who have just started living together and who love each other will always tolerate each other. This is probably the best time after marriage.

Second, live with your parents-in-law after marriage. Living with my parents-in-law is difficult. The advantage is that you don’t have to wash your own clothes, cook, or even spend your own money. The trouble is that living under the same roof with your parents has very different life attitudes, values, and habits, and your parents are very controlling. By nature, one feels particularly unfree, especially for women, who are born with this awkwardness. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with, but it is not particularly obvious at this time.

After newly married and having children

According to the current living conditions of young people, families generally have two-income families, so after children are born, parents usually move in together to make it easier to take care of the children. This is the beginning of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The parenting concepts of the two generations are fundamentally different, but other people's mothers have the final say on other people's children. This is a truth that few parents understand. I always think that I have raised children, but I don’t understand as well as you young people without children, so you just follow your own way. As a result, raising children is usually the breaking point of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After marriage, the young couple is very busy, and with their parents around and the children needing care, there are actually very few opportunities to communicate with each other. Otherwise, pregnancy and lactation are the peak periods for men to cheat. This period of time is actually quite difficult. Every day there is a lot of chatter, and people are doubting the necessity of getting married.

Old couple

After being married for a long time, the original passion is gone, and the living habits and personal temperaments have almost been adjusted. At this time, the two of them are basically like relatives. . But this dull and stable life can easily make people feel bored, otherwise how could they have the seven-year itch. After getting through all this, two people have become accustomed to being together. It's not that they love each other much, but that they are used to being together and don't want to be separated.