Do you like listening to others?

Yes, I am a good listener. I think it's a courtesy. Listening is the most effective way to communicate. People who are good at listening to others should be able to give feedback to each other, and the speakers will have a tacit understanding. If the speaker knows that you are really listening to him, he will be more devoted, enthusiastic and willing to return.

Listening is to respect and appreciate yourself. According to the characteristics of human nature, people are often more interested in their own affairs, more concerned about their own problems, and more like self-expression. Once someone listens to us attentively and talks about ourselves, they will feel valued.

One of the advantages of speaking is that others will repay your sincerity with enthusiasm and gratitude. A good listener can master other people's minds, promote emotional communication and interaction, and also mean appreciation for others. The same feedback to you is also the respect and appreciation of others. Listening is to protect yourself. Talking too much may reveal secrets that you don't want to tell.

This will bring unimaginable losses to many people. In business negotiations, experienced businessmen often hide their own situation first, pay attention to each other's speeches, and know each other's situation before playing cards, but the last card will not be displayed until the key time.

Listening has important practical value in interpersonal relationship and can be widely used in various interpersonal communication. But in reality, many people can't make good use of listening to manage interpersonal relationships.

Listening can help others relieve stress. Psychologists have confirmed that listening can relieve psychological stress. When people have psychological burden and encounter problems, having a suitable listener is one of the best ways to get rid of it. He will always help others when they need help to relieve his stress.

Listening can promote our rapid growth, and everyone has his strengths and advantages. Listening will make us learn from others' strengths, make up for our own shortcomings, and at the same time prevent others' shortcomings and mistakes from repeating themselves, making us smarter. Guo Moruo once said: "If you can learn from the masses, you will dare to do it."

When you concentrate on listening and understanding each other, it is easy for you to get rid of the shackles of self-righteousness, so that you will become a modest person who is liked.

People prefer to talk by themselves rather than listen to others, and often interrupt others blindly without fully understanding, which will cause obstacles, difficulties and even conflicts and contradictions in interpersonal communication.

Listening is a good way to solve complaints. A disgruntled person, even the most difficult person, often softens, feels ashamed and becomes tolerant and generous in front of a patient and compassionate audience. So it is very important to be a person who likes to listen to people.