Why are some rural daughters-in-law now "wealthy families"? What has happened in the countryside in recent years?

In the past, rural families in China have always been guided by the idea that men are the masters and women are the masters. Rural women have always been a group of thrifty and virtuous people. They can take care of this family and let men work outside with peace of mind. Especially in the past many years, rural men have embarked on the road of working in big cities. Women take care of the elderly and children at home, take care of crops, feed a few pigs at home, and do odd jobs nearby during the slack season. It can be seen that in the past, rural women were no more relaxed than men. If there is no woman to support this family, how can a man make big money outside, build a villa or even buy a car? However, the problem of marriage in rural areas is becoming more and more difficult. Nowadays, the sky-high bride price has increased the number of rural bachelors. Many rural boys are over 30 years old, but they have been single.

But in fact, those married men have a hard time, and these people have to work hard to make money. An unhappy wife will run away from home in a rage, and a little contradiction will lead to divorce. In the countryside, there is such a strange phenomenon. Farmers who marry their wives are simply "ancestors" and should be treated well every day. They don't need to cook or clean, just take care of the children. In-laws should also respect their daughters-in-law. Why is this happening?

1. Mother-in-law's ideological progress: It takes half a life to marry a daughter-in-law in the countryside, so it is necessary to serve the daughter-in-law well, not as willful as her mother-in-law in the city. Now that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas has become a daughter-in-law, naturally, the daughter-in-law will not be allowed to do farm work, and she will tolerate her little willfulness. There will naturally be more "ancestors" at home. 2. Promotion of daughter-in-law's status: It is difficult for farmers to get married now. Many men are always alone because they don't have enough money for bride price. These hard-won daughters-in-law naturally have to serve well, and if they are unhappy, they will divorce. You know, second-married women are also very popular in rural areas, and bride price and RV are the same.

3. Deep feelings: As the saying goes, loving a person will tolerate a person. Many rural couples are free to fall in love, and these people have always had deep feelings. Therefore, after marriage, men will assume the responsibility of the family and make their daughter-in-law live better. And they don't want their daughter-in-law to work to make money, as long as they can take care of the children. Nowadays, more and more young married women in rural families can live the life of housewives. They don't worry about food and clothing, enjoying a leisurely and happy time. This shows that the economic conditions at home are good and life can be relaxed, which is the embodiment of economic development and social progress.

For example, people who are hardworking and have the ability to take care of their families. Nowadays, the life of rural kannika nimtragol no longer depends on "turning your back on the loess" to make a living in the fields like your ancestors did. Those young wives who can exchange money for a living, with "one hand and one mouth", keep their homes in good order and live a prosperous life. It is not surprising that it is really like "Phoenix Pepper" and is regarded as a "rich family" by others. This phenomenon is not difficult to understand when there are more men than women in rural areas. After all, in some places, marrying a daughter-in-law may cost a family all their savings and even borrow money. It is no exaggeration to be called a "housewife" when you get married.

It is difficult to marry a wife in the countryside. Ordinary families will naturally be kind to their married wives in order to pass on the family line to their sons. If they divorce, their money will be wasted and they will not be able to marry another. And this kind of high-level treatment has naturally caused some women's "willfulness", and their daughter-in-law is arrogant. Let's talk about why it has changed so much and so quickly. First of all, I think it has something to do with the policies of our country. Nowadays, in the service-oriented society, girls get better employment and enjoy higher education. Therefore, after they gain more economic independence, their lives become more independent and more selective. As the saying goes, you are good to me, and I will consider it. If you treat me badly, forget it! After all, people were born in the era of family planning. Since childhood, she has been the apple of her parents' eye, and even girls have raised boys in poverty, so the general conditions of girls growing up in this environment can't really tempt them.

After meeting the basic material needs, they are more willing to advance to the advanced spiritual civilization needs. In the face of mate selection criteria, there is a premise: if you are good to me, I can still consider it. Don't think about it if you are bad to me! Getting married is not just about being with your husband, but also considering all aspects, including parents and family factors. Do you think the old couple is bad for their future daughter-in-law? Can the son marry a daughter-in-law? No wonder it is so difficult to find a wife now. Under such cruel competition, who doesn't feel bad after spending so much effort to marry a daughter-in-law.