Wang Xun: Women are either beautiful or fighting! What do you think are your strengths?

As the writer Wang Xun taught her daughter, women are either beautiful or hardworking. If they are not born beautiful and lack outstanding talents in study and specialty, then they should tap their own advantages and try to make this advantage a bright light for us. There are few things in life that deserve our courtesy, education, character and care.

Either be beautiful or fight, and let the advantages become the light of the body.

Author: Wang Xun (pen name "Under the Lotus Tree", a well-known writer and best-selling author)

My friends and I went to the university to pick up my daughter who came home at the weekend to eat hot pot. After getting on the bus, my daughter seldom talked. I had a good chat with my friends and didn't pay attention to her. Hot pot in winter is always in full swing, and the shop is full of people. A friend added a piece of beef to her daughter, but she threw it back into the pot. I didn't say anything at that time, and continued to chat with my friends for dinner, instead of seeing my daughter's increasingly unhappy face in Zhang Yue. It was already late at night when I got home. I let my daughter go to bed, but I sat alone on the sofa for a long time and suddenly felt very sad.

The next morning, my daughter took the initiative to talk to me, and then gave a bunch of reasons for being unhappy last night, including missing the English exam registration, we didn't talk to her in the car, she didn't eat raw meat and so on.

This is not what I want to hear, so I interrupted her: it is your own problem to miss the registration time, and you can't change it. As your biological mother, I can't relax at any time to understand whether you are happy or not, and others have no obligation. You can't control your emotions and respond to such impolite behavior when others bring you food. My friend later commented on me that you should use public chopsticks to pick up food for you. At this moment, your upbringing is obvious. No matter how many reasons you have, you can't save the fact that you have no culture. This is my disappointment.

My daughter was silent for a long time before muttering in a low voice: I want you to be proud of me, so I have to finish the exam ahead of time. I am sorry to miss the registration, and I regret it after doing that. I asked: What do you think are your strengths? My daughter thought for a moment and answered: My studies, my background. I said: you are clearer and harder than many children in personal planning and professional direction, but because of occasional gains and losses, you are under too much pressure, and there is a problem of falling off the chain at a critical moment. There is no distinction between high and low birth, but personal education is enough to explain the persistence of three generations. Don't forgive yourself for being unreasonable easily because of your age. You obviously have two advantages, and when you show them in the most fragile and unreasonable way, your advantages become your weaknesses, which is the worst.

There are few things in life that deserve our courtesy, education, character and care. If you can't control your emotions, you will lose opportunities or lose face altogether. My daughter apologized to my friend afterwards, and then she said she was much better. I told her: I should apologize if I did something wrong. No matter whether others can forgive you or not, the moment you say you are sorry, you are already growing up. If you don't understand the power of education when you are old enough to go to college, you are indulging yourself in missing it, and you won't become a better person. No amount of education, money and power can change this result.

How many girls in life are talking about hard work, but they are doing the opposite of hard work, and finally turn their strengths into shortcomings, and then expect the whole world to change to suit them. Some girls don't know what their strengths are, so they can't see the strengths of others. What they see is the bad of others and the injustice of the world. They are full of negative energy, and at the same time, they have become the source of smog. This is just pot calling the kettle black.

No matter how the times change, it is the most natural way to socialize. Chen Danqing said: A person's appearance is who he is. The differences between people will first appear on your face, reflecting your family education and quality of life, and your inner self will always reach others first. If we have absolutely excellent beauty, we will certainly win the initiative for ourselves. If not, girls will work as hard as boys and keep the same height and sky all their lives. This is also the most easily seen and widely recognized real talent. Women are either beautiful or hardworking. If they are not born with beauty and lack outstanding talents in study and specialty, then we should tap their own advantages and try to make this advantage a bright light for us. Even if it's just careful laundry and cooking every day, even if it's just a humble and gentle attitude towards family and outsiders, even if it's just a good habit that you have adhered to for many years, etc., it may become the light on us and let us finally fight for it.

Every woman has her own life, there may be small differences, but the general direction is similar, with quality, value and grade, but how many girls love themselves on the surface, which leads to a more superficial misunderstanding of life. You buy designer clothes and bags, get a high salary in high-end office buildings, and drive a BMW with a proud face, but you just don't lose weight. Beauty has nothing to do with you, lack of education, opportunities to avoid you. If you don't respect others, you won't live happily. No matter how much material you have, you still haven't lived a quality life. You love yourself only because you are used to vulgarity and less and less.

We should be full of awe and gratitude for life, not willful and reckless, because everything has a cause and effect, and what kind of people and things you are will meet. If you know how to be modest, you will be rewarded with beauty. If you lack education, you will get the harshest color. If you can't give full play to the brightest part of your strengths, you will be bound to grow up by its fatigue, and those stubbornness and tenacity that were originally used to support your strengths will become paranoid and melodramatic, which will make you lose.

A person who can live a simple and innocent life must pay a higher price and be guarded by countless people around him. We can't always be proud and proud in luck, but remember to be cautious and share in luck. Don't ignore the power of education, that is, let us be beautiful through age, work hard to be down-to-earth, and still look elegant and calm. You are either beautiful or hard-working, so that your advantages will eventually become the light on you. Even if you are displaced, you will be the sun for your whole life.

I hope that one day, you can get tired of your gloomy appearance, pack your bags and set off for the place you want to go.

Improve your positive energy. Sentences should either stand out or come out.

Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, it is easy to be replaced without reading. The following content is shared with you: improve your positive energy sentence, either excellent or out, let's take a look!

1. Don't forget to promise what you want to do and where you want to go, no matter how difficult or how far.

Nothing can be done without hands. As long as you are willing to go, there will be roads everywhere You can't see beauty because you didn't persist. Life is action. When hesitating, you might as well take a small step first. Do your best every day!

The biggest failure in life is not to fall, but never to run forward. You are either excellent or out, and live a dazzling and rich self.

When your talent can't support your ambition, you should calm down and study. When your economy can't support your dreams, then you have to work hard!

Victory will not come to you, you must go to victory.

6, life is like the weather, predictable, but often unexpected.

7. Except true friends, no medicine can go straight to the heart.

8. The biggest enemy in life is yourself; The biggest failure is arrogance; The greatest stupidity is self-deception.

9. Your choice is to do or not to do, but if you don't do it, you will never have a chance.

10, the most difficult time, that is, not far from success.

1 1, the road of life is bumpy. As long as you persist and work hard, there is no hurdle to cross.

12, without the awakening of human nature, power and wealth will only make people more vulgar and degenerate.

13, your parents are working hard for you, which is why you need to work hard.

14. Memories of past misfortunes constitute new ones.

15, people who are afraid of climbing the peak will always wander down the mountain.

16. Suffering is the highest school to temper personality.

17, people can climb to the highest peak, but they can't stay there for long.

18, wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and power can't be bent.

19, only by turning the mood of complaining about the environment into a force for progress is the guarantee of success.

20. A few more minutes of preparation last night saved hours of trouble today.

2 1, there is no natural self-confidence, only self-confidence that is constantly cultivated.

22. Education is not to fill a bucket of water, but to light a fire.

23. The earth is round, and what seems to be the end may just be the beginning.

24. You can find your own happiness in study, labor, science and selfless service to the people.

25. People's structures are mutually supportive, and everyone's career needs everyone's participation.

Only by learning to like what you have can you get what you like.

The above is about: the sentence to improve your positive energy is either excellent or out of sharing, I hope it will help you.

Disappointment and sadness, say either none or all, now or never.

1. Save enough disappointment and leave. You can't save enough despair. ?

The world has never felt the same way, only knowing it well.

3. Laugh generously and hide from crying when crying, which is very cool. One of the greatest braveness in life is to keep trust and love after being cheated and hurt.

If one day, I don't bother you and I don't love you anymore, will you be disappointed? Will you be sad? If I disappear into your life, will you wake up in the middle of the night and miss me?

Time doesn't really help us solve any problems, it just makes the problems we couldn't figure out before unimportant.

6. The person who returns in seconds should be very gentle, because he loves you and he doesn't want to keep you waiting for too long. ?

7. If it's just friendship, be friends if you can, and don't be too greedy.

8. Actually, we just want to find someone who gets along well, is comfortable together, misses being apart for a long time, is quiet for a long time, and will regret giving up immediately after quarreling. Although no one really likes to be friends, they just love it too much, whether for life or strangers. ?

9. After separation, I am fine now, and I am not in love, but I have become a better self. In the past, just because I was too young, all the joys and sorrows seemed so profound, and it was earth-shattering at the touch. Now I am no longer angry about a trivial matter, and I am no longer angry about some little people.

10. None, all, now or never. From now on, I don't want anything but what I have. ?

1 1. I was fine before. I think little, go to bed early and like to laugh. And somehow, I suddenly lived a sloppy life.

12. It's easy to make up, but it's too difficult at first. It's better to go our separate ways than to suspect each other. I will laugh generously and walk generously.

13. Psychologically speaking, a good impression on a person lasts at most 4 months. Once it is more than 4 months, it is love.

14. Don't wait until you are thirsty, and don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it. Love is like this, friendship is like this.

15. It's always windy in this city, and lonely people always come home late. May everyone who walks alone at night be strong enough.

The most incisive classic says: be cruel, endure or get out.

1, there are two things lying on the glass in the world: a gecko and a class teacher.

2, the three principles of life: either hard, or endure, or roll.

I don't know when I became the most annoying person in my mouth.

4. The more you grow up, the more cautious, the more cautious and fragile you are. Growth takes away not only time, but also the courage that is not afraid of losing.

5. Every day, "I am as thin as him!" And "damn, this is delicious!" Wandering around.

6, the so-called holiday, the family suspects that there is no money to go out, and every day is particularly idle.

7. I just want to say "Call me when you go" to this classmate who likes to base his happiness on the pain of others.

8. Every New Year, there are always one or two elders who like to bring out your unforgettable past to make everyone happy.

9. How dare you curse me for eating instant noodles without seasoning? I curse you for eating instant noodles with seasoning.

10, "Why does the holiday feel so short?" "Because there is no morning during the holiday."

1 1. I've always heard people say how cool it is to open a room. Finally, one day I couldn't help it. . It's really cool to sleep alone in such a big bed!

12, there are three treasures in the lie: everlasting, everlasting, love till old; There are three treasures in Korean dramas: car accidents, cancer and incurable diseases.

13, don't always complain that God is unfair to you. In fact, God doesn't know who you are.

14. Being serious means losing, and being serious all the time means winning.

15, if swimming can lose weight, how can whales become so fat?

16, people who can see through you are trustworthy: the sadness behind your smile, the love hidden in your anger, and the reason for your silence.

17, "I want the dog to bite you" "Will you?" "I can't bear the dog!"

18, I don't envy her being more beautiful than me, I don't envy her being richer than me, what I envy is having you by her side.

19, men hate women's doubts most, often because they guess too accurately.

20. You must remember these two points in your life: don't make a decision when you are angry, and don't make a promise when you are happy.

2 1, I wish I were a boy again, because a broken knee is always easier to repair than a broken heart.

22. Why do people make the same mistake? There may be only one reason: the former one doesn't hurt enough.

23. People are simple when they are young and complicated when they grow up; Poverty is simple, and breadth is complex; Simple when down and out, complicated when in power; Gentleman is simple, villain is complex; Simply look at yourself and look at others in a complicated way. The world is actually very simple, but people's hearts are very complicated. In fact, people's hearts are simple, but the distribution of benefits is very complicated. People are happy when they are simple, but few people are happy; Complex times are painful, but painful people are bustling.

24. After the meal, the man pays the bill as a couple, the woman pays the bill as a couple, the classmate grabs the bill, and the brother doesn't want to pay the bill.

25, suddenly thought of a very serious academic question, who set 60 points as a pass.

26. Maturity means that you ignore me and I won't say much. If you satirize me, I will laugh it off. If you love me, I will love you more.

27, men are not qualified to shout spicy! Try on your bra! Try sticking your hair around your neck! Try putting on sanitary napkins!

28. You can forget the past, but you must let go.