The price of growth is not necessarily a bad thing.

You can't feel the beauty of the rainbow without experiencing the wind and rain. I used to think the world was beautiful, but when I didn't make any money, I felt that the time was wrong. When the time is right, I can prove myself with my own efforts and present ability.

I don't know. The higher I think, the less I can see myself and my own shortcomings. I always feel that the problems are all others', others have never taught you, others have never cared about you, and others are sorry for you.

After graduating from high school, Xiaohua worked beside her relatives. Her relatives gave her all the work, and did not teach her how to do it in advance, but let her find her own way.

In life, teach children to do homework, buy food and cook; At work, she is responsible for disturbing hygiene, receiving customers, purchasing and returning goods. , and has become the general manager of ancient times.

Every day is very busy and monotonous. Sometimes I get sick, and my cell phone keeps ringing when I have an intravenous drip. I have to go back to work as usual, and my salary will be deducted if I am late for work. There is no overtime pay after work, and you have to be scolded as usual if you don't do well.

After working for a year, Xiaohua doesn't feel that he has learned profound skills. She does the same job over and over again every day. She feels that all her youth is spent here, and her relatives just regard her as a part-time job.

This kind of experience should be experienced by many southerners. Because there is no good university, no good job and no way to make money. Being looked down upon in my hometown, I have to hope that I can learn a skill and survive in society if I want to find a job or start a business in the future.

But because of their own pattern, cognition and other issues. When the opportunity came, she couldn't make a better choice. At this time, if someone reminds her or meets someone to help her, her life should be different.

But there is no if in life, and the wrong choice is wrong. What we can do is to stop obsessing over past mistakes, re-learn, re-accumulate, take our daily work seriously, learn to reflect on ourselves and strive to improve ourselves. Besides these, you need other abilities.

1. Good at finding opportunities

Opportunities are sometimes created by themselves. They don't fall from the sky for no reason, and it doesn't rule out that a few people can have good luck, but most people don't have that kind of luck. Of course, the opportunity you see may also be a trap, depending on whether you can identify it.

Chances are that you are ready or preparing, and you can master it. The trap looks beautiful, but you have no ability to control it, but you think you can do it, and you can't see many external factors.

2. Calm down and study.

China's culture is profound. You will never be the first person to encounter the problems of ordinary people through the ages. Someone will meet them and solve them. As long as you look hard, there is more than one way to solve the problem. The key is your own determination.

Reading can help you understand different fields, and you can learn about yourself. Reading can expand your cognition and make you no longer stick to your own world.

Step 3 improve your ability

It is difficult to specialize in a certain field and become an expert, which is why you should do it. Life will be more difficult in the future. If you don't work hard now, don't wait until you are old. At that time, I may be even more reluctant to change and act.

Suffering is the only way to grow up, and suffering is not necessarily a bad thing. Adjust your mentality and accept the changes brought by the environment, and a rainbow will appear.