What do you think of "Wang Yongqiang refused to see his seriously ill mother"?

Lambs kneel to feed, crows feed back, animals understand the truth, and people naturally know it. But why don't doctors studying in the United States know?

First, the grievances between mother and son in those years.

There was no detailed report on the unresolved contradiction between mother and son in those years. Only the doctor responded that "an honest official can't break the housework". Although this sentence is somewhat arbitrary, it also has some truth. From the doctor, we can get a glimpse of mother's character, and we haven't heard from her for more than twenty years. What a good decision! If one party doesn't hurt the other's heart, how can it be separated and die without seeing each other?

Everyone's heart is meat!

Second, what people say on their deathbed is good, so don't regret it next year.

Tell a story, when Zhang Ailing's mother died, she wanted to see Zhang Ailing, but Zhang Ailing refused. She regretted not seeing her mother for the last time. Zhang Ailing herself died in loneliness and was discovered only after her death.

Children brought up in unfortunate families are almost all patients with personality defects. Some people torture themselves, others hurt others and take revenge on society. So, from the day you are ready to be a parent, please seriously think about how to be a qualified parent. I also advise grown children. Imperfect parents not only gave you life, but also accompanied you through the most immature period of your life. How did you grow up without their support?

Third, you are a doctor in knowledge, but you fail in life.

A little help from others will make you feel grateful. You take your parents' hard work for granted. Children are easily dependent on their parents in life, emotionally rebellious, and their full-fledged parents deny them. Such a person is not worth seeing.

This mother, considering that he was not born to you.

Wang Yongqiang is a senior intellectual. After graduating from Peking University, he went to America for twenty years and cut off contact with his family. At present, my mother is seriously ill and wants to meet this poor son before she dies. Some good people in the United States told their relatives in China their contact information. When they called, they only got a seven-word reply: there are difficult classics at home. That's all.

After reading this report, everyone cried. In China society, especially in the vast rural areas, it is an enviable moment for children who can be admitted to universities, especially for students' families who are admitted to famous schools such as Peking University and Tsinghua. As a parent, I also dream that one day, I can show my face with my poor son. At least I will have a spiritual sustenance in my later years.

Also, in the traditional culture of China, there is not a beautiful legend. Sheep have the meaning of kneeling on their mothers, and crows have the grace to feed back. It is said that animals still know how to be grateful, let alone humans?

Wang Yongqiang said, "There is a book that is difficult to recite at home", which is the first time in 20 years to reply to an old mother who has been thinking about it day and night and is seriously ill. Speaking of the voice of this senior intellectual who received a good education at home and traveled across the ocean to work and live in the United States, it can be seen that "gratitude and conscience" have long been forgotten by him.

No matter how high or low a person is, how many books he has studied, and whether he is rich or poor, he should still have the basic moral cultivation of being a man, let alone his own biological parents. The world is very big, and there are all kinds of people. Wang Yongqiang was born in a poor family, and his father paid for his schooling by selling rat poison. For twenty years, my parents have not received greetings. It's really shameful to be such a virtuous villain.

Parents all over the world, after reading this news, should not only pay attention to their children's future academic performance, but more importantly, cultivate their children's ideological health and moral cultivation. What Wang Yongqiang did may be an extreme example, but it will never be an isolated incident. Maybe one day there will be another Zhao Yongqiang and Qian Yongqiang.

It has been circulating in Changzhou for a long time.

Wang Yongqiang, a Wei village in New Taipei, has been busy with poor parents since childhood. In the hope of her son's success, she reluctantly sent her to school. Her doctor is a professor's son-in-law. She forgot her ancestors and went to the west several times. After not seeing each other for twenty years, her parents' kindness was completely polished. Now her mother is ill in bed and dying, but she has been missing for a long time. The evil son said that she did housework, and others had to help her blindly, lamenting that I was a civilized city in Longcheng.

Hey, what can I say? When we first got married, my mother-in-law made things difficult for her, and the neighbors couldn't stand it. My mother said that you are a cultured person. If you don't care about her, I will put up with everything. I don't want to embarrass my husband. My husband can't stand it, so I choose to buy a house. But I have been kind to them for so many years, and everyone praises me. Especially the two old people are me. My husband is working outside, my second is in the field, and my grandfather has been hospitalized four times this year. They are attached to me for everything. She only knows me. So many old people in nursing homes are daughters and sons. Only our family is a daughter-in-law I was reminded that you didn't suffer enough from her. When I said that I had forgotten everything before, I was actually comforting myself.

Seeing this news, many people feel incredible. It is said that a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University has a difficult family (most ordinary people were difficult at that time), but he loves learning very much and his grades are often among the best, which means that he is a piece of reading material in the eyes of ordinary people. Later, through unremitting efforts, he finally became a postdoctoral fellow in Peking University.

After being admitted as a postdoctoral fellow, the postdoctoral fellow called his parents and said that he would go abroad for further study with his girlfriend, earning about 6.5438+0.8 million a year, which can subsidize his family.

After listening to his plan, his family was very pleased and felt that their efforts finally gave them hope. I also specially entrusted my uncle to go abroad in Beijing for this postdoctoral son.

On the eve of the postdoctoral preparation for going abroad, he and his girlfriend plan to get married in Beijing before going out. His family was very happy to hear the news and wanted to attend the wedding. When the ancients talked about being the top scholar, the wedding night was two major events in life. But he refused his parents and relatives to attend his wedding on the grounds that he didn't want to make his family tired.

After going abroad for a few years, the hard-working mother at home needs a medical fee because of her infirmity, and the dilemma at home really can't pay her medical fee. Forced by her helpless mother, she thought twice before calling her postdoctoral son and telling the truth, hoping that he could send some money back to see her doctor. This is reasonable!

However, all my mother got was one sentence: Don't contact me again! To say the least, even if his economy is limited and he is unable to do so, he can be honest with each other. How can he say "Don't contact me again"?

Since then, he has changed his contact information, and he has not called back to greet his parents Gao Tang on holidays, and his family has not been able to contact him. Far away from the other side of the ocean, there was no news, and the postdoctoral doctor chose to abandon his family and "disappeared" from his family's world for twenty years.

Now, my mother, who is obsessed with him, is dying and wants to see this son who has read many classics and is still studying abroad for the last time. Through the tortuous search of the media and enthusiastic netizens, I have found him now! But the old man still hasn't seen her postdoctoral son, who is pregnant in October and keeps accounts.

When I got married during the wedding, I made an excuse to refuse my family to attend. Is vanity what makes me dislike my parents' poverty? Or care about the other half? I don't know. However, on his post-doctoral journey, filial piety seems ridiculous. After going abroad, I lost contact for 20 years and ignored my parents.

I think even a hard-hearted person can't turn a blind eye to his seriously ill old mother and want to see him for the last time! Unless it is born a subtle egoist; Or vanity and inferiority; Or someone who marries his daughter-in-law and forgets his mother.

A colleague's neighbor is also the "high flyers" of a key university. Five years after graduation, I was tired of going to work. After really working for less than a year, I quit my job and played games at home all day. He is not only a bookworm, but also dissatisfied with his parents. Yes, "some children come to repay their kindness, and some baiwenhang come to take revenge."

As most well-meaning netizens, they didn't kidnap someone morally. They just don't understand. Is the postdoctoral fellow as emotional as adversity quotient? So you can't bear to see your mother? I don't think soft-hearted people can do it.

Fan Sheng's American parents do exist in reality, but these are only a few. As China's parents, most of them are: "When you are 100 years old, you have to worry about 99." When we become other people's parents, we can personally understand this kind of affection and concern that blood is thicker than water, and we can also deeply understand the hardships and difficulties of parents raising children!

Parents' kindness is as heavy as a mountain. Sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing. Facing the dying wish of a seriously ill mother, a person's mind is so thin and indifferent, how strong his biological parents need to be, and how broad and inclusive his mind needs to be to withstand such a freezing cold! (express your opinions, don't spray if you don't like it. Thank you. )

Share some things around me. The hero is about the same age as this doctor. My father died young, and my mother took him back to my grandmother's house (grandma was alone). She brought up her children, who became orphans and widows in the countryside. However, the children are very successful. They were admitted to a famous university in Beijing and stayed in Beijing. They got married with a girl in Beijing and didn't let their mother go when they got married. After their marriage, they never went back to their hometown to visit relatives. After that, they called their mother and told her that they had a clever little grandson. I rushed all night to make cotton-padded jackets and bedding for my grandchildren. My old mother, who never goes out, came to Beijing with her luggage on her back. After leaving the station, she called her son, who took his mother to the hotel and complained that her mother should not come to Beijing without authorization. She stayed for days on end. My mother was anxious and said that I had to wait on my daughter-in-law and grandson. Why do I live here? The son was silent for a while and said, Go home. What you made was not disinfected. Your daughter-in-law won't let you use it, and you don't have to wait on the nanny.

My mother went back to her hometown alone and became seriously ill. Before she died, she said to her mother, "I will cry for you so that you won't get old." There are not even mourners. In a few days, people left without telling her son, and there was no contact from then on. " I heard that my son went to America later.

For this matter, it has been fermenting for two days.

What I want to say is that, aside from the previous right and wrong, in this case alone,

Do parents really miss their son that much?

If you really love children, how can you block the future of Wang Yongqiang?

For example, is there really no other way to find your son online?

In this way, everyone knows that Wang Yongqiang is an unfaithful and unfilial child.

Abandon your parents and even see your mother for the last time,

Isn't this your first impression of Wang Yongqiang?

Speaking of this name, this is not the first thought.

I really don't know what the parents are thinking about.

Do such a thing to your children, but since you can destroy your children like this,

Then it seems understandable that Wang Yongqiang will never see his parents.

After all, going out from the mountains requires much more things than the average person.

Parents, however, may only know how to take and not how to love their children.

Perhaps, Wang Yongqiang is just a tool they got.

Wang Yongqiang, a doctoral student in Peking University, comes from an authentic peasant family.

But he claimed that he was a rich second generation and talked about a girlfriend who never took her to meet her parents.

I stayed in Japan for a while before going to America.

Even before I went to Japan, I lied to my uncle that I went to Japan to earn a lot of money to buy a house for my parents.

Let parents enjoy a happy life.

Later, when I was in Japan, my mother fell ill and called him for money out of desperation.

He hung up the phone because it was inconvenient and his family never contacted him again.

When the mother was seriously ill, she missed her son very much and the whole family was looking for him.

Netizens couldn't stand it, so they helped each other and found Wang Yongqiang in the United States.

However, Wang Yongqiang only left a sentence for everyone: "It is difficult for an honest official to break housework", and then disappeared.

I haven't been back to see my mother until now.

We can all understand what Dr. Wang is doing now. After all, a beautiful wife and concubine,

The colorful world outside is so attractive. Who remembers the poor parents at home?

Recognizing parents can only be a burden.

So why don't you do it all at once and pretend you jumped out of a crack in the stone?

Anyway, he doesn't need the help of his parents in his present life.

Isn't it obviously humiliating to recognize your parents now?

Therefore, even if the mother is seriously ill, she should stick to her post and resolutely disappear.

The poor raise children just to eat, so the poor dare to have a pile.

The child went out to see the world, and was too self-abased to let people know his background.

So I can only choose to avoid it.

During the Wenchuan earthquake, a teacher saved the child first and was also called unfilial.

When we calm down, it makes sense to think about it.

Similarly, there is a story in Taiwan Province Province, where the mother is old and wants to go to the United States to find her son.

My son couldn't come, so he sent some money to his mother, asking her not to disturb their own lives.

Mother complained at first, but later learned that it was her son's home, not her own.

Why don't Chinese mainland people understand that the times are progressing, and so are their thoughts!

It is also possible that as a Phoenix man, his family demands too much and his financial ability is not good enough to help.

Therefore, it is difficult for an honest official to judge housework, and it is impossible to listen to only one side of the story, and it is difficult for doctors to say.

If the family, seven aunts and eight aunts, my uncle has been asking him for money.

I broke my baby's heart, so I broke up with her I think so.

Otherwise, it is impossible to deny it.

Or when he was a child, his parents didn't want to send him to school. He lived like a beggar at school.

Parents have hardly given living expenses since high school.

Later, he vowed to study hard to change his destiny, and finally he did it!

Anyway, since people say that it is difficult for an honest official to decide housework,

Then as outsiders, we really don't need to interfere too much in this matter.

Let's wait and see. Finally, I want to say that every poor person must have something hateful.

The so-called good for evil can only be cruel to oneself.

As for Wang Yongqiang, you said he was a doctoral student studying in the United States. I don't think he is even as good as an animal. Animals all know family ties. When abandoned orphans are raised or adopted by others, as long as they tell their unfortunate life stories, they all look for their parents who gave birth to them and brought them into this world. As a doctor studying in America, Wang Yongqiang hasn't visited his parents for 20 years. His mother wanted to see her son for the last time when he was seriously ill, but she didn't show up. She played hide-and-seek and forgot her parents who gave birth to him, raised him and sent him to college. She never even met her mother when she died. Do you think he can catch up with the beast? I don't believe it.

In any case, parents are not wrong. It's not easy to conceive in October, give birth to you, support you and provide you with education! Animals, I was born in 1969. There are parents at home and children at home. Now my old parents are still worried about me. I haven't called for three or five days. This is a considerable burden. I should be filial to my parents at home and be responsible to my children at home. Naturally, I just want to ask, Wang Yongqiang, you should have children by now, you bastard.

The postdoctoral fellow didn't go to see his seriously ill mother. Why do you think this is meaningless?

Don't forget who brought you into the world, conceived in October and suffered greatly. Once a child is born, a big life is replaced by a small life!

Parents all over the world have tasted the pain of raising children, not to mention your parents!

Maybe you were treated unfairly and your parents made mistakes, but there are all parents in the world, you know? Parents are parents no matter how wrong they are!

The lamb kneels to feed, and the crow feeds back. How many people are there? As a postdoctoral fellow, you should know more than we do. Do you know that your parents are kinder than the sky?

My mother is dying and wants to see her son. The greatest love and the most selfless love is maternal love! You know, then why can't you satisfy your old mother's heart? Let her old man leave with regret?

Come back and see your mother while she is still alive. One is to fulfill the old mother's wish, and the other is not to leave regrets for yourself! Where to go, choose quickly, or it will be late!