I am not afraid of being laughed at, but I am afraid of surrendering myself.

Sometimes, I wonder how someone can do something good for themselves under the banner of being good for you, and how it can be justified.

Your parents say that everything I do is for you, but in fact it's just for my own selfishness. Maybe we can really choose our parents freely, and many people will have no parents.

Your friend said it was to help you understand the facts, but in fact it was just to prove that he was excellent. Sometimes I wonder if the world is too bad, or if we all think too badly.

Maybe I was wrong. In this world, we live with masks most of the time and occasionally take them off.

The world is a little strange. Those who say they are good to you never ask what you want, what you like and why you do it.

It seems that there is only one standard answer to everything, which is to do what they think.

I am unwilling, and I am unwilling. I live in this world with trepidation, trying to be a better self, with only a little confidence and courage.

Prove to myself that I don't need to live the life they want. I can have everything I want, as long as I am myself.

1, don't blindly follow, give back your confidence.

We always hear too many good words for you, make decisions for you, analyze the pros and cons for you, say a lot for you and do a lot of things.

But no one said, let him decide for himself, let you try, let him do what he wants.

I know that there are many things in the world that may not be successful even if I try hard, but if I don't work hard, then I will regret it.

You live your life, and only you know what you want to be and what you want.

Those who make irresponsible remarks in front of you and make decisions for you, no matter what the final result is, you have to bear it alone.

So in this case, try to give yourself confidence. It doesn't matter who you are at all. It is important that you clearly understand what you want and what kind of person you want to be.

If you have nothing, then as long as you work hard, you will move forward, and the worst result of your efforts is only a late bloomer.

You can't do it, but only if you try your best and you don't want to have it, not if someone else decides for you.

Life is too long to live with the shackles of these voices all your life.

If you want the freedom you want, you must make the decision you want, make the effort you need, and finally you can want that person forever.

Your life is neither a copy of your parents' life nor an imitation of your friends' life.

Your life belongs only to yourself. Even if you fight alone, even if you are alone, you should live as a team, become your own armor and resist all accidents.

Step 2 overcome fear

It's never too late to start, but lingering again and again will only make you retreat again and again, and then let yourself return to your little corner.

On the road of pursuing the life you want, on the road of pursuing your dreams, on the road of pursuing a better self.

We always have to do many things we haven't done, overcome many difficulties, overcome our fears and stand firm.

Find out the reason for your fear, analyze it step by step, try and stick to it. When you start doing something.

When you succeed, you seem to open the door to a new life, and you find that life has unlimited possibilities.

You are afraid of water, but when you let yourself float on the water, you feel the fusion of water and body, and you feel more relaxed than ever. You started to learn breaststroke, butterfly and backstroke, and you started to dive and play all kinds of extreme water sports.

You are fascinated by all kinds of sports brought by water, you have overcome your fear of water, and you feel the happiness and sense of accomplishment brought by water sports more and more.

You are afraid to communicate with others, but when you read more and study more, when you clearly know what you want to say and you understand each other's thoughts.

You find it interesting to communicate with others. You can gain a lot of knowledge by listening. You improve your thinking and exercise your communication style.

As long as you overcome your fears and do something in a planned way, you will still do it even if it is difficult at first and even if you encounter difficulties halfway.

Because you know, as long as you start, there is no retreat. The premise of your choice to give up is that you don't regret it.

We strive to live, not to live the life that others expect, but to live the life that we expect.

If you want more freedom, you can make your own decision. You must have the confidence to make this decision and try to bear the consequences.

In fact, many things, why do they make decisions for you, is because they don't believe you can do it.

But if you don't believe in yourself, you will never be what you want to be.

I know you're having a hard time, I know your strength is still weak, and I know you're still afraid.

But let's try. Only when you try your best to live the life you want and become the person you want, can you be confident to say whether that life is good or not.

Don't persuade others to be good, don't suffer others; Don't just say you don't suffer. Your suffering will become the strongest force in your heart and accompany you through the long years.

I have a long life. I want to work hard. I think I can do it. Even if it is not the best look, it must be my choice after trying my best from the heart.

Don't put a heavy burden on yourself, let's unload the burden and move forward bravely. If you don't have the courage to fight hard, how can you harvest a bright future?

If there is only one voice in the world, it must be my inner voice; If there is only one choice in the world, it must be my voluntary choice; If there is only one lifestyle in the world, it must be the lifestyle I want.

Then there is only one me in the world, so I will be the brightest color in the world. Because I'm unique.

Because I worked hard to get the freedom I wanted, not just a dream, but a reality.