How should parents talk to their children?

"Don't talk to grandpa like that!"

"Hurry up and do your homework and put away your mobile phone!"

"You must do your homework!"

"Get up!"

(2) Warnings, admonitions and threats

"If you say one more word, I won't give you your pocket money tomorrow!"

"When I count to three, I won't put down my phone. You see how I tidy up you! "

"Can you be honest!"

"If you are naughty again, I will spank you!"

(3) Persuade, spread and spread

"How many times have you said that you shouldn't treat children like that?"

"You should abide by social morality and don't throw things about."

"You can't do this to your grandmother. This is a manifestation of unfilial. "

"Be quiet when you write your homework, and peace of mind will have strength."

(4) Suggestions and opinions

"Add a triangle and it will be a small house."

"Can you put on more clothes?"

"You should have a good talk with the teacher!"

(5) Persuasion, education and reasoning.

"Reading a good university is your only way out."

"Getting along with classmates is the most important thing."

"If you hit someone, others will hit you."

"Look at what those people who can't get into college are doing!"

(6) Evaluation, criticism, denial and accusation

"Why do you still think so? You still don't understand. "

"How can it not be done well?"

"How many times have I said it?"

"Why are you still like this?"

"This child is always disobedient!"

(7) praise and agree.

"My son is so smart!"

"Great!"

"My girl is obedient!"

"You are my mother's treasure!"

(8) Classification, ridicule and humiliation

"You are a naughty boy!"

"Will you stop being naughty?"

"You are really something. Give you a stick and you can poke a hole in the sky. "

"Shame on you!"

"Are you ashamed? Are you still like a man? "

(9) Interpretation, analysis and diagnosis

"You still don't understand what the college entrance examination means!"

"You are jealous of your deskmate!"

"Now it's time to wait for no one, you are still wasting your time!"

(10) Comfort, sympathy and appeasement

"Just work hard!"

"Nothing, just growing up."

"Yes, some people don't have to pay attention to him."

"Just get along with other students!"

(1 1) Investigation, inquiry and interrogation

"When did you start thinking like this?"

"Tell me why you hate studying?"

"Why don't you want to go to school? What's wrong? "

"Why do you always play with your mobile phone?"

"What's so funny about this game! Why can't you just keep playing? "

"Why do you talk to the teacher like this?"

(12) Avoid, divert attention, joke and change the subject.

"What's the point of thinking about these little things!"

"You are a study committee member, so you should be responsible for the study of all students. Are you kidding? "

"Don't always talk about games, can you talk about learning?"

"Why do you always think so much? Children are so complicated! "

"How much homework do you have today?"

Talking to children in this way often shows that your educational methods were before 2000. At least treat your next generation with the educational methods you received from your parents!