Girls can be strong, but not strong.

Last night, I saw a schoolgirl in the space posting a message saying, "Everyone says that girls should not be too strong and independent. But I am not strong, who will stick to it for me? " For this, I think girls can be strong, but not too strong. I have a deep understanding of this, and now I will tell you about it, but this is just my own opinion. Everyone has different ideas. Welcome to discuss it together.

First of all, since I was a child, because of family reasons, the old people in my family preferred boys to girls, so I often performed better or worse than boys. I think what boys can do, so can we girls, so my strength is not like that of ordinary girls in other aspects. Every time I see a girl carrying two water bottles and asking her boyfriend for help, or two people carrying them together, I say I can't understand. I can carry two water bottles with one hand. After all, I think it's not good to carry my own things and trouble others. It's obvious that I can do it well. Why should I ask others for help?

Secondly, my parents divorced when I was three years old, so I may know more about the hard-won money or other things than my peers. When I was 7 years old, I went out to set up stalls alone, selling things to make money, and went to wineries, hot pot restaurants, noodle restaurants and restaurants in the summer vacation. Perhaps I was used to making money independently. Many times, I think girls should use their own money to buy things. I also think that if a girl wants to fall in love, she should be financially independent or ideologically independent before falling in love. Because I think economic independence must be accompanied by ideological independence, and ideological independence must be accompanied by economic independence.

Now I should belong to a Chinese woman. I will never let others help me with what I can do. Even though many people are against me, I still stubbornly do it alone. I went to Marcand alone, carrying my family behind my back. Everyone was shocked when they knew that something would happen to me because they thought I was a weak woman, but nothing happened to me. Some people thought I couldn't be the president of the association before, but I am now; Including love, we found out the next day after we were together that he occasionally wanted to smoke and said goodbye decisively; Because one of my requirements for finding a boyfriend is that I can't smoke, maybe I don't love deeply or I'm too rational. I think girls, no matter how bad they are, should have their own principles. If it's too bad, they should raise themselves. I know the world is cruel, but if you are not strong, why do you stand on your feet if you don't work hard?

My friends say that sometimes I am too strong, and sometimes it is really bad to be too strong. I know, sometimes I am too strong, just stronger, which is not good. Everyone should understand and support each other and grow up together. I often say that I have to go through the road I have chosen on my knees. But because of their own strength, they pushed away some supporting hands. Girls really must be strong, but really can't be too strong. Because sometimes being stubborn and strong will hurt many people, not only my own being too strong will hurt others, but also my friend's being too strong will hurt me, so I say girls can't be too strong.

It's good for girls to be themselves. Everyone has their own personality and ideas. I think girls should be strong, brave, independent and optimistic, have their own life skills and principles, so as to be a person with their own personality and go further. Therefore, girls can be strong, because they are strong, they will become braver. But not too strong, because too strong will hurt others. This is a degree, and we need to grasp it ourselves.

That's my personal opinion. Friends who have other opinions are welcome to discuss. I'm Lan Youyou. I'm glad you can read my words. Thank you.