Choose to be loved. It's good to talk about it

1. If someone hurts you, it's his scum. But if someone hurts you again and again, it's your stupidity. It's normal to blame someone wrongly, but you don't know how to repent, and no one can save you. Being a man is not afraid of anything, but he is afraid of deceiving himself.

We always fall in love with each other because of some detail of others. But the perfect details are only a moment. Using a fragment to identify the whole life is actually a generalization. So you love because of a small touch, but you will be greatly hurt. Really good love may not need to do anything warm-hearted, but accompany you all your life.

It's not terrible for others to disagree with you. The terrible thing is that you don't even agree with yourself. Everyone has his own personality and strengths. If you use it in the right place, it will be useless if you use it in the wrong place. This is not that you are not good enough, but that you have not found the right place. If you are defeated again and again and give up on yourself, then you really lose hope. People are not afraid of losing, but of losing themselves.

The progress of life depends on failure. The progress of feelings depends on the loss of love. Therefore, the people who have hurt you are all your teachers. There is no need to thank you, but please remember.

What makes you happy is satisfaction. What makes you fall asleep is the sense of security. Satisfaction but insecurity is fear. Being safe but not satisfied is poverty. There is neither satisfaction nor security, which is called distress.

6. No laughter is comparable to hysterical laughter. There is no sadness, comparable to the tears in my heart. I don't want to cry for you, because I still want to look at you proudly and wait for you to leave.

7. Some people say hurtful things, but they don't mean it. Some people talk well, but they hide knives in their hearts. So don't listen to others' bad words, but see if they are calculating. The heart is hard-spoken, and the mouth is kind and poisonous.

8. I didn't know the benefits of being young when I was young, but when I was old, I thought about desperately pursuing myself and freedom. In fact, all this is wrong. Waste more life when you are young, because you can afford it. If you are wrong, start over. When you get old, you should cherish everything around you, because every bit is the accumulation of life. Time waits for no one, let yourself get high first and cherish it for a lifetime.

9. You can't satisfy everyone, even yourself. But you can do your best.

10. The most terrible thing in this world is not the tragic result, but the fear itself.

1 1. Only when you have loved emotionally will you know what pain is. Only when you desperately want to have it, will you know what loss is. Only when we really want to be together will we know what parting is. A lot of things, if you desperately want them, you will lose them forever. It's not that life teases you, but that you are too persistent. Perseverance is the biggest reason why people leave you. If you don't learn to be light, you won't know what owning is.

12. There is nothing in life but helplessness.

13. If someone hurts you, don't be angry. You just need to treat people who don't hurt you with double kindness. Stopping killing with killing will only discourage people. And let others regret, is the biggest torture for them.

14. I don't know if you often feel abandoned by this world. It's like, even the wind is not friendly anymore. Just like getting old, just like leaving, we can see it, but we can't stop it. In this world, there is nothing but helplessness.

15. The most unbearable thing in life is not pressure, but loss. Not heavy responsibility, but disappointment. So the last thing we want is not the unbearable weight of life, but the unbearable lightness of life. Regardless of life or love, people are always not afraid of hardship and fatigue, and what they are afraid of is only loss. Therefore, don't be insatiable, it is the best result not to lose.

16, there is everything in this world, as long as you are willing to feel it with your heart.

17, no matter what others think, don't disturb your own rhythm. I like it naturally, but I don't like it for long.

18. Mature people need a mask to put on a strong face to the society and take off a gentle face to their families.

19 Although I don't know if I will meet someone better than you, and I don't know if I can fall in love with others, in my limited life, if I have another chance, I would still like to meet you that summer.

20. There will always be people who change themselves and let go of the bottom line to accommodate you; I am not born with a good temper, but I am afraid of losing you, so I would rather spoil you and hold you in my arms. The so-called personality incompatibility is just an excuse for not loving.

2 1, in the vast sea of people, love and being loved are lucky. Love and cherish. If the other person has no love, just let go.

22. Home is a shelter from the wind and rain, a lamp waiting for you forever, a kitchen full of fireworks, and a table of meals cooked by family members.

23. Missing has no sound, only heaven and earth are listening; There is no sound, only the wind is whispering; There is no sound in the flowers, but spring can't bear to wake you up; There is no news of flowers, that's because of the season. Traveling all over Qian Shan, after all, I can't get out of fate; Looking through the autumn water, you are still drifting on the other side.

24, years, swallowed up your previous appearance, sour, like spinning in your heart. Once your back was like a mountain, now you are like a bare dead tree in the sunset; The wind and rain bleached your hair and sighed and wrinkled a pool of autumn water. Before, you were in high spirits, but now, you are like a candle in the wind; Life can bear all hardships, but it is hard to bear the birth and death of blood. Life can let go of everything, but it is difficult to let go of love.

25. If you miss someone, you don't have to hear his voice. Hearing his voice may be another matter. Everything in imagination is often a little better than reality. People you miss are a little warmer than reality. Missing something that seems far away, but sometimes it's just a little closer to reality.

26. I met the wrong person or was cheated by scum, but because of my previous efforts, I felt too reluctant to give up immediately, so pandering was delayed for some years. It really shouldn't be like this. The sooner you get rid of the mistakes in your life, the better. Don't hurt yourself, miss the opportunity to get rid of them, and turn your life into a negative value.

27. Being single for a long time, I feel that a person's state is quite good: read if you want to read, sleep when you are tired, eat whatever you want, be quiet for a while if you don't want to contact anyone, go out for a trip or stay at home. It's better to be quick about love, don't start casually, don't compromise in a hurry, and nothing really worth it will be so easy. Cherish the days when you can still be single. I don't mind being alone, it's more comfortable than loving you.

28. No matter how many times you have quarreled and said hurtful things, you will eventually get back together because you can't bear to part with each other. It feels so good.

The harder you work, the luckier you are.

1, time is like a shadow, and few people look down seriously. Anger is punishing yourself with other people's mistakes. Life is alive, what you want is happiness! When everything is bleak, my heart will not be tired. Don't force everything, otherwise it will only bring you endless troubles, pains and unhappiness.

There is no rehearsal in life, so cherish the present. The vast sea of people, rolling red dust, looking back around, is a beautiful scenery, a corner that everyone longs for, suitable for all seasons and unique flavor. Learn to appreciate, and you will know how to enjoy; Learn to appreciate and you will have happiness; Learn to appreciate and you will be close to happiness; Learn to appreciate and become a capitalized person!

3. Don't cry or sigh. Sorrow can't call back the lost time. Be a simple person, see the complexity of the world clearly, leave no trace in your heart, keep a normal heart, be simple and happy. Please don't treat me like a fool. Some things are not what I don't know, but what I see in my eyes and bury in my heart. A person had better not have a good memory, because the more memories, the less happiness.

4. Life needs games, but you can't go to dance school; Life, in fact, is just life, what's more, people are short, and they don't consider people's lives, their evils and their mistakes. If you want others to understand you, you should learn to tolerate others. Give all misunderstandings and injuries some time, and all prejudices are floating clouds.

5, if possible, I would rather choose a good job, not so-called busy, not so-called abuse, do what I want to do, feel that what I do is hard, then stop for a while, drink a glass of water and look at the rustling leaves outside the window; If you are hungry, you can find a food street, plunge into the food and forget the work you have dragged down; People, in this life, don't have to desire too much, and don't have to be greedy too much.

6. People are tired because they want too much. The reason why the heart is troubled is because it has put down too little. Don't care about troubles, don't worry about tomorrow, put down all your obsessions, as simple as a simple heart. When the lotus is in full bloom, it will be pure happiness. On the road of life, meet kindness and learn to pay; Meet with a smile and learn to share; Learn to be brave when encountering bumps.

7. Time is out, and all the stains can't be washed white. On the road of life, there are joy of success and pain of failure; There will be clear skies, rain and mud; There are birds and flowers, and there will be declining scenery. Experience has written the way forward and the process has laid the foundation for success.

8. Life should look forward. Only by liberating yourself from the past can there be a way ahead. The house is too big and the small house is too small. There are no shortcuts in life. It tests your perseverance and endurance. As long as you persist for a while, don't bemoan the past, don't waste the present, and don't be afraid of the future. Everything will be under your control.

9. In life, the harder you work, the luckier you are. Finally understand that low-key and quiet is a beautiful truth of life. Being able to calm down from external confusion is a kind of accomplishment and a kind of personality. Only when you calm down, will you find that the beauty of your inner peace will follow, and life will be peaceful and wonderful.

10, no worries, less greed. As long as you are relaxed and happy, there will be a sunny day in your heart. Those who are content, those who build dikes. We should grasp everything and seek nature, be calm when things go wrong, be proud when things go wrong and seek peace, be calm when frustrated, be inevitable when twists and turns, and be enlightened when vicissitudes occur.

1 1. In the journey of life, all the ups and downs are hidden. In the misty rain and the world of mortals, there is always a smile blooming for us, there is always a breeze to enjoy the cool, and there is always a sunshine to keep us warm. As long as we have a quiet heart, we can walk on songs, always smell the fragrance of the years and always find the direction of happiness.

12, people should be content, tolerant, generous and live in mutual appreciation. The past, let him disappear with the wind, the future, let him let nature take its course. Let him cherish what he has now. In this way, only by knowing how to cherish can we deserve to have it. He who sees through the world of mortals will stay away from it.

13, life is not black and white, either one or the other, many times, it just means that things are in a natural state. If you are looking for a perfect job, you may never find it. At the same time, others are not as good as they look. If you pursue the perfect interpersonal relationship, you may be lonely all your life.

14, people are not afraid of smallness, but are afraid of humbleness. Life is fair. If you want to live a wonderful life, you need an enterprising heart Although no one appreciates your kindness, you still have to choose to be a kind person. What kind of person you choose to be is for yourself, not for others. Your external kindness depends on the people you face, and your inner kindness actually depends on yourself.

15, life is only a hundred years. Different understandings, the same environment and the same event may have many different results. Only by letting yourself enjoy the quiet life for a moment can you appreciate many things in the world and let your heart truly understand the true meaning of life.

16, life never deliberately owes anyone, life is a kind of tolerance. When someone gossips about you behind your back, make your tongue like a lotus. The world is full of ups and downs. When you succeed, good things are like a flood. Being woken up by the alarm clock every day proves that I am still alive; Clothes are getting tighter and tighter, which means I eat well; Shadows accompany my work, which means my bright sunshine.

17, it is very simple to complicate things, and it is very complicated to simplify things. This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the strong, but the world of the volunteers. The premise of a person's luck is actually that he has the ability to change himself. Managing your strengths well can add value to your life; Managing your shortcomings will devalue your life. The earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever.

18, the voyage of life is not always smooth. Wind and rain can bear the weight of life; The wind is light and the clouds are light, which is suitable for meditation. Give yourself a reason to relax, and don't let the ideological burden be too heavy; Give yourself a way out, don't let too much trivial and messy peace; Fly with the obsession of the wind, seek with the mind of the rain, be happy in the dull, and be indifferent in the wonderful.

19, people live to pursue happiness, but they must live with pain. Happiness is a kind of mood, which has nothing to do with material desires. Open-minded, tolerant and grateful, life will be sunny. There are gains and losses in life, smart people know how to give up, and happy people know how to be detached.

20. On the road of life, know how to be considerate and tolerant, and your life will be warm and peaceful. On the road of life, if you lack understanding and humility, life will become more and more troublesome. Many troubles in life stem from our inability to understand, our concern for our own opinions, our failure to understand each other and our failure to accommodate each other, which hurts each other's hearts. Life is often a kind of understanding and comprehension.

The cure of life perception: what is left is the scenery, and what is left is life.

First, time can deceive people most, but it can also make you understand that there is nothing in this world that you can't lose! What is left is the scenery, what is left is the life, and the person who comes to the end is the right person.

Second, please cherish everything about yourself. Living for a day is a blessing. When you cry that you have no shoes to wear, you should think of a person without feet; When you sigh that the world is too boring, you should think that some people have never seen the world; When you hate your parents' nagging, think of an orphan. In a world without complaining, you find yourself very happy.

Third, there is nothing not to do. When you lose all your dependence, you will naturally know everything. This is helpless but true, and no one will always help you bear it!

Don't look down on others at any time. Birds eat ants when they are alive; After the bird died, the ants ate it. A tree can make a million matches, and a match can burn a million trees. So don't look down on anyone! When you look down on others, they just don't care about you!

Sometimes it's not that the other person doesn't care about you, but that you take the other person too seriously. Sometimes I always feel that others ignore me, but in fact I may be too idle.

6. In this life, there are always some unspeakable secrets, lingering time, irreparable regret, unreachable dreams and unforgettable love. I only complain that time is too thin, my fingers are too wide, and the most delicate time has slipped away. Time, like water, is always silent. If it is well, it will be sunny.

Seven, people have to pay for their mistakes, not that you say sorry, I want to say it doesn't matter.

Eight, people's biggest opponent is often not others, but their own laziness. Don't count on luck. Luck can't be with you forever. You have to rely on your own ability to eat at any time. You must do your best to qualify as unlucky.

If someone takes you seriously, there is no need to get angry. Needless to say, don't try your best to show it, but you have to prove how good you are. Doing so will kill you, because there are many people who don't take you seriously, and you can't satisfy everyone's eyes. The best way is that whoever doesn't care about you, you don't have to care about him.

If you don't like it, you can politely refuse, but try not to lie or force yourself. People's life is limited. If you force yourself for a long time, you will forget to take the initiative to fight for what you want.

Talk about mood phrases that suit you. Every sentence is a feeling of life.

1, you can ignore my feelings, you can also squander my enthusiasm, and even ignore my depression and sadness, but you must understand that everyone can give limited love, whether to friends or lovers.

2. When you see a person clearly and don't expose him, you will understand the meaning of forgiveness; Hate a person, don't turn your face, just know the greatest respect. In life, there are always people you don't like and people who don't like you.

3, some words are hurt if you don't say them. Some people will leave if they don't stay. Those who want to leave have a thousand reasons, and those who want to accompany you can't get rid of them. Meeting is always unprepared, and parting is always planned for a long time. There are always some people who will gradually fade out of your life. You should learn to accept, not miss.

4. There are always some behaviors that make you suddenly cold; There are always moments of sudden death; There are always some attitudes that make you suddenly heartache; There are always some tones that make you suddenly sour; There are always some conversations that suddenly sting your heart; Always remind yourself not to overestimate your position in the hearts of others!

5. I am not greedy. I just hope that my friends will remain the same now. In the future, we can get together, regardless of money and fame, drink and eat meat in a big bowl, and forget the pain when I can be chic and happy. When I am old, I will hug each other and recall the past and look at each other at dusk.

6. Women just want to support themselves. All your anxiety and anger have been abused. If you don't want to be immersed in the world, love yourself first from now on. We have to be good enough to be elegant.

7. Don't be complacent because of good luck, and don't be depressed because of bad luck. A truly strong person is good at finding shadows from prosperity, finding light from adversity, and always calibrating his goals.

8. We all have some unspeakable secrets, irreparable regrets, unrealized dreams and unforgettable love. Give yourself a hope every day, try not to worry about tomorrow, don't sigh for yesterday, and make today better.

9. Sometimes, God tells you to end a relationship, not to confiscate your happiness, but because God always sees your unhappiness in his eyes. Even God loves you dearly and feels unworthy, so he lets you go.

10 We always take some small favors given by strangers as emotional goodwill, but take the unswerving love around us for granted.

1 1. Don't live with inferiority. People who are too inferior are often too sensitive. Too sensitive people are always unhappy. The best way is to focus on yourself. You are strong enough to care about others.

12, sometimes you really want to talk to someone, but in the end, you will find that you often can't tell the reason. Slowly you realize that what you want to say to others may not be patiently listened to, and it will only make you more confused. Even if you tell others, they won't understand. So the best way is to calm yourself down first.

13, time is changing and people are changing. Life is an out-of-print movie that cannot be replayed. No matter how hard you try, some things can't go back. The furthest distance in the world is not love, not hate, but that a familiar person becomes strange gradually.