After two years apart, I met my ex-husband at a wedding banquet, and I couldn't stop crying. What should I do?

I just want to live here. Time is no problem, just warmth, no sadness. After experiencing joys and sorrows and seeing the world, we begin to yearn for a warmth. The greatest luck in life is that you will be exposed to happiness when you are eager for love, supported when you are not old, and accompanied when you are lonely. When we find true love, we feel endless romance, but many beautiful love finally lost to reality.

Women pursue a sense of security, and I want to be held in your hand forever. Sometimes they will confirm each other's sincerity by "frequently asking". No matter how beautiful love is, it can't stand torture. You will occasionally release your willfulness and occasionally show your pride, but you can't ignore his heart at all. Repeatedly attracting attention, creating contradictions, and forcibly compromising will lose the initial happiness.

1. Lu Ling (a pseudonym) is not only cute, but also has a good image. Because she likes to play, she didn't say anything about her partner until she was 28 years old. Seeing that her friend has a place to go back, she is also anxious. Xiao Fei (a pseudonym) is a steady and kind person. Because he was booed or brought milk tea every day, Lu Ling tried to accept him. Between his parents, they became lovers.

When I want to eat dessert, Xiaofeihang will drive for you for a few minutes. I didn't have a coat at work, so Teacher Fei asked for leave to give it to her. If you catch a cold at night, Teacher Fei will prescribe medicine for you. Such thoughtful care made Lu Ling deeply like each other. They got married right away, and the man paid the down payment. After marriage, they paid off the loan. At first, they lived happily, but after a while, Lu Ling began to feel dissatisfied.

02. Every time I get together with friends, Lu Ling will face ridicule. She is the most beautiful person in the club, but she is the poorest to find a husband. After being stimulated, she went home to complain. Xiao Fei has a good temper. All he can do is make money and try to make up for it. After work, he insisted on setting up a stall in the factory and working as a temporary worker on holidays. Nevertheless, he is still responsible for housework and doesn't let Lu Ling work hard.

Lu Ling was sad to see Xiao Fei working so hard, but because she was immersed in making money, she spent less time together. Because the plane came back late, she complained that she didn't care about things at home. Maybe she is used to being willful. Lu Ling's whereabouts are unknown and she is a black hand, but she did it to get more attention from the other side. After that, she often said "divorce".

03. During the holiday, Xiao Fei didn't keep her promise, so she and Lu Ling went home and applied for a divorce again. Xiao Fei was disappointed. Moreover, Lu Ling frequently said that he had no strength, and he finally put it down. When divorced, Xiao Fei didn't pursue a house or property. After that, the two broke contact. After a while, Lu Ling regretted it. She found that the other party ignored her and she could do nothing. But because of face, she didn't save it.

In the next two years, Lu Ling never looked for each other again. At the same time, I know that Xiao Fei has made a lot of money by starting a business. She happened to meet a friend at her wedding reception. Everyone quarreled and put two people on the table. At that time, Lu Ling wore a cheap role in her left hand when she was in love. She suddenly hid her face and cried, and the other party never let go of herself. However, at this time, she is no longer qualified to ask for reunion. That night, Lu Ling cried to a friend, "Two years later, I met my ex-husband by chance at a party. I couldn't stop crying when I saw his left hand. " She is worried about what to do after that.

Luling was tired and lost her beautiful happiness because she didn't know how to cherish and love. If she changes her personality and tries to save it, maybe she can get her happiness back. Every girl is eager to be cared for and pampered. After marriage, they also yearn for a better life. However, while pursuing a happy future, they should not be eager for success.

Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Enlarging the shortcomings of loved ones can lead to dissatisfaction. A wise man can protect the happiness around him when he sees the advantages of his lover. Although I can feel love by trying and quoting, I can't challenge each other's bottom line. I can't always ignore his mood. A marriage without mutual understanding and respect will alienate two people. Many beautiful feelings will collapse because of "I don't know how to cherish" and "I'm not satisfied", and I will lose my love myself. This is the biggest regret in life. I hope everyone can get a mature and grateful heart in their feelings.

Love that can be redeemed, don't let go.

Love can cultivate a person or change a person. Many times, the quarrelling between lovers is because they care about face, and this stubbornness may ruin happiness. If you take the first step, he may approach you through 10. In fact, it is not shameful to compromise with your lover if you can't let go of the irreparable love.