It will be born in two months, but I'm so scared. Is it really that terrible to have a baby?

Start (a disease)

Giving birth to a child is not as terrible as you think, mainly because of the mentality. I also gave birth to two children, and I was afraid, but only afraid. Children are as beautiful as life.

The feeling of giving birth to a baby When I gave birth to Dabao, I chose caesarean section for various reasons. At that time, I was scared. First, I am afraid of any accidents during the operation. Second, I am afraid that the children born are unhealthy. Although pregnancy tests are normal, there are still concerns in this regard. Thinking that the baby should be born, the medical conditions are so good now, and I feel much better. But when I heard Dabao's first cry on the operating table, I couldn't hold back my tears. I'm still very touched. I am a new mother, and I can't hide my joy.

When I gave birth to Bauer, I had this experience. My mind was much better and I was not so nervous. However, there are still some concerns, and the performance in the operating room is relatively calm, and the second child is delivered smoothly.

The choice of delivery mode Suggestions on the choice of delivery mode for pregnant women should be based on their own actual situation, and they must not be obsessed with any delivery mode. Whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section, it will hurt.

A natural delivery means that it hurts first and then it doesn't hurt. If your own conditions permit, natural childbirth is a good choice. Although the moment of delivery will be very painful, there are many benefits.

Caesarean section is the pain after the pain. The biggest advantage is that giving birth is painless, but the subsequent pain is inevitable. Moreover, it takes a long time for lochia to be discharged and the recovery time is longer. Leave a scar on the abdomen. If it is not handled properly, it will itch.

The pain of giving birth varies from person to person. As long as you are healthy and have a normal pregnancy test, giving birth is not as terrible as you think. Relax and everything will go smoothly!

I am the mother of two children. The original plan was to give birth naturally, but I didn't have much experience and didn't go to the expectant mother's class (there are free expectant mother's classes in general big hospitals). If you want to consult, you must listen. I didn't attend the class and didn't know the basic knowledge, which led to two very serious consequences. Secondly, in the last two months, I ate hard when I was hungry and didn't control my weight. As a result, I have no time to live. Secondly, after giving birth to the baby, I have to suck the nipple for the baby for hours on end. Missed the best opportunity, resulting in children without milk to eat. Between babies, we must learn more and see more, and make full preparations so as not to take detours. The second one was cut in Guangzhou at two o'clock in the afternoon. I can get up the next afternoon. It is painful to stay in bed for three days in my hometown.

It is difficult to have a natural delivery and a caesarean section. I remember my sister-in-law gave birth to a baby naturally. My brother is in the delivery room. After the baby and mother were safe, he called me as soon as he left the delivery room and cried. I told him to be brave and be nice to his wife.

Although it is hard to give birth to a baby, as long as you are fully prepared before giving birth, relax, listen to slow-paced classical music and communicate with the baby more, and tell him that his mother is brave and the birth of a baby is exciting, even the hard work is worth it, because money can't buy a baby. I remember I had no fear when I first gave birth to a child. I am looking forward to it. I keep a diary for my children every day. Be a brave mother. Let's go I wish you and your children a smooth, safe and healthy life!

Hello, expectant mother. Thank you for your trust. Let me help you answer this question.

Sincerely say: you have worked hard. It's not easy to get pregnant, as everyone who has been there knows. Understand you. It will be born in two months. Congratulations, you will be liberated soon, and you will see the lovely baby soon. What a happy thing! Think about this, can you alleviate your fear?

I believe you also learned about the specific process of giving birth from books, online and chatting with friends and relatives. Everyone's situation is different, and the speed of the baby's arrival is different, so everything can only be said at that time. Don't listen to others too much, what you hear may not be true. If you have any discomfort with the doctor, you can get a good solution.

I understand and understand your concern, because the closer you get to the due date, the more worried you are. However, my sister told you today, don't be afraid, it's nothing. The doctors are very professional and the hospital equipment is very advanced. Your worry is unnecessary. Besides, my sister told you that the more relaxed you are, the better your life will be, really.

Giving birth to children is a sacred thing. Only after experience can you say that your life is worth living. You did a very great thing. As long as you relax yourself and think about the relevant knowledge you usually see, you can know yourself and know yourself. The baby will obey you and cooperate with you. Believe in yourself.

I wish you a smooth delivery. Now all you have to do is have a good sleep, eat a good meal and keep a good mood. Don't worry about two months from now, okay? Let nature take its course, and it will be quite smooth. Blessing, blessing.

It should be tolerable to have an anesthetic. There are so many children in the world that it should not be terrible. You've been seven or eight months, and two more are in labor. Don't worry and don't think too much. Just let nature take its course. Go to the hospital when the amniotic fluid breaks and listen to the doctor's instructions step by step. Don't be too nervous. It only takes a few hours to regenerate after giving birth. I just think it should be ok. I'm just pregnant.

Having a baby is actually not that terrible. Every mother goes through this stage. There will be signs when you are about to give birth, and your stomach will hurt. At first, it was a kind of pain. When it hurts just now, take a hot bath and relax from head to toe. Because you can't take a bath for a few days after delivery, for physiological reasons. Let the family prepare a bottle of original ecological true honey and drink it before entering the operating room. Like to drink sweet, put more honey. It's easier to give birth. Because honey has a lubricating effect. Relax, doctor, there is nothing to be afraid of. I wish mother and son peace!

There is nothing to be afraid of. As soon as you close your eyes and open them again, the baby is born. Even if you worry again, this day will come.

0 1 Look at negative news positively. The negative news here refers to how painful it is for a woman to give birth to a child in a costume drama, especially in the scene where a grandchild gives birth to a child. After watching the stills, I haven't forgotten that scene in my mind. Really impressive: I grabbed the quilt with both hands, gritted my teeth and tried hard, but I couldn't give birth. I tried again, but I still couldn't give birth. Finally, I was exhausted.

So the hardships of the process, with a positive and optimistic attitude to treat, pay more efforts, the moment the child is in front of you, you will feel that everything is worth it.

(The picture is from the Internet, and will be deleted if there is any infringement. )

There are also negative news that friends, girlfriends and people in the same community have had children. They will say that it hurts to open the palace mouth, the scar on the stomach is really ugly, there is so much meat on the body ... and so on, but when you look at their happy faces when they escape, do you think they still care about the pain, scars and meat?

(The picture is from the Internet, and will be deleted if there is any infringement. )

My wife was delivered by caesarean section, and she didn't even look at the scar on her stomach. She only has her daughter in her eyes, and she doesn't like it enough. That kind of feeling is that everything is worth it for the sake of children: my husband can have it, my parents can have it, but the child is mine, and having her is enough.

I hope you don't do this. In addition to children, there are husbands and parents in life.

Get ready before you die: everything is ready, just wait for the palace door to open. First of all, whether you choose to cut or smooth, each has its own advantages. In a word, the incision is not painful at birth, but painful after birth, because there are anesthetics and knives; Shun, it is a severe pain during childbirth, and it will hurt for a while after childbirth. Compared with caesarean section, recovery is faster. When I say temporary pain here, I mean lateral pain. This is at least a psychological preparation.

Secondly, when you have a baby for the first time, you should start milking. I remember the expression on my wife's face She didn't cry when she gave birth, didn't cry after the anesthetic, and cried when she was milking, but she didn't cry aloud. She just said: it hurts. Think for yourself.

Advocate breastfeeding, if not, feed milk powder.

Third, the bag has just been prepared. Relatively simple, my previous question has a very detailed list, all kinds of documents, all kinds of paper, clothes, bags, and all kinds of things that the baby uses alone.

Fourth, prepare your wallet. A four-legged gold eater is coming towards you. Diapers, clothes, milk powder, bottles, toys in different periods, various complementary foods to be added for six months, etc. Spend 2000-3000 yuan a month, there is no upper limit. There are mines at home that can be ignored.

My little Bao is almost fourteen months old, and his monthly expenses are 3000 yuan less. Reference.

Fifth, be self-disciplined after delivery and don't give up your beauty. After giving birth, my figure will definitely be out of shape. I take care of the children every day, and I don't get enough sleep, let alone take care of myself. But I want to say, fatigue is certain, but is it bad to look at your beautiful self every day? Will children be unhappy when they look at a beautiful and energetic mother? No matter how tired you are, you don't always rest, so you should make yourself better, exercise, get back into shape quickly and enhance your physique. I believe that family members can also take care of children.

Worrying too much can only make you nervous and cause mental fatigue, which is not worth the loss. I believe that sentence: the enemy will block you, and the water will cover you. No one can take the place of you in the matter of having children. Only thinking by yourself is the greatest energy support for yourself and your children. Come on! Is it really that terrible to have a baby? As a mother who gave birth to a child, I want to tell you how I felt at that time.

Having a baby is terrible. Before I was born, I was afraid of this and that. But when you arrive at the moment of birth, no matter how painful and uncomfortable you are, you are not afraid in your heart. You hope your child can be born healthily.

As the saying goes, a mother is. For the sake of children, I can endure any sin. The pain of giving birth and breastfeeding, even if I think about it, is unbearable, but when I am a mother, I really endure it.

So don't feel terrible. Think more about the children, and you will be afraid of nothing. I hope everything goes well with you! The baby is healthy!

Hi, I have given birth to my second child so far, and it was a natural delivery, not a painless delivery.

I can tell you for sure that it is not as terrible as you think.

Before I had no experience at that time, I was also a scared baby.

I was so anxious that I couldn't sleep all night when I had my first child. Brush your mobile phone every day to check the experience of other pregnant mothers giving birth to children. I didn't see it until three or four in the morning. I'm afraid I missed any experience and didn't learn it.

In fact, the most important process is the preparation before production.

As for entering the hospital, there are doctors in every process, so don't worry at all.

What are you afraid of?

First, did you have all kinds of examinations, three-dimensional color Doppler ultrasound and Tang screening before giving birth? So the babies who pass these tests normally are very powerful and healthy babies, don't worry.

Secondly, in the process of making, I want to remind you that the chair I am sitting on is a little cold and icy. However, you don't have to worry about the skills of obstetricians and gynecologists, because they deliver dozens and hundreds of babies every year. Without him, only hands are familiar. Ha ha! Close your eyes and don't be afraid.

Come on!