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Be generous in the company, don't be timid.

First, be generous in the company and don't be timid.

Don't be afraid to do propaganda. Have a meeting and eat with laughter, don't be petty and don't see the world.

Don't be afraid of colleagues' comments and eyes. I want to get closer to the leader. "But I'm always worried that my colleagues will flatter me, but I don't care."

Don't be afraid to make friends with leaders. Some people are afraid of authority and hide when they see leaders. Actually, it's good to be modest and generous.

Don't be afraid to offend the smooth operator. Old fritters specialize in picking soft persimmons and like to push all the chores to you, just politely refuse.

Second, you are here to make money, not to make friends.

Colleagues can't give you a promotion and a raise. Don't be too entangled in interpersonal relationships in the workplace, and invest time and energy to improve yourself. The communication between colleagues can be polite and direct, and there is no need to ponder each other's emotions and feelings too much.

Don't be afraid to make mistakes at work. Don't waste time on the fear of work. I believe everyone will make mistakes. After making mistakes, we can sum up the experience and lessons to improve. Others may not do better than you. Try to do it.

Establish a sense of boundary. Don't spell milk tea if you don't want to spell it. Take a walk and fish for dinner, go if you want, go if you don't want, and don't force yourself because of your feelings. The more you care about your colleagues' feelings, the easier it is to be timid, and the easier it is to develop into a soft persimmon in the workplace, which anyone can pinch.

Third, don't push too hard at work.

The workplace is about getting results, and nothing else matters. Think clearly what you want in this position, what the leader wants from you, and just balance these two things. The rest, as you like.

Talking about feelings hurts money. Work is doing things with money, there is no need to overdraw your body. If you find out after joining the company: "I only want the company's money, and the company wants my life", then run quickly. There is no need to sleep in a hurry for work.

Always remember that the company is just your endorsement The only thing you can have and focus on is a skill that you can use in any job. In the workplace, the power and position you think you have do not belong to you, and you have never really owned it. These are all your fantasies, because if you leave this position, they will all disappear.

Don't brainwash yourself. Please stop being touched by yourself at work immediately and be a working machine without green feeling. The so-called "sense of identity" and "sense of accomplishment" are all false dreams woven by capitalists for migrant workers, and the person who really benefits is definitely not you.