Love is a game that does not follow the law of conservation of energy.

A few days ago, I heard a friend tell me that "all the girls who value material things are married, but only those of us wh

Love is a game that does not follow the law of conservation of energy.

A few days ago, I heard a friend tell me that "all the girls who value material things are married, but only those of us who value feelings." I've always wanted to write a paper. I am free today, and it's the Double Ninth Festival, so I wrote the following article.

I once read an article that girls who don't value material things are more likely to become older women. It is relatively easy for girls who value material things to find a partner, because material girls know exactly what they want and are willing to make some compromises for what they want.

This is indeed the case. Those girls who just want to marry love often find it difficult to find the right person, because it is too difficult for two people with different family backgrounds, cultural backgrounds, educational backgrounds and living customs to achieve a high degree of spiritual harmony.

And those girls who marry material things are not necessarily unhappy after marriage, because they are more satisfied and willing to compromise in life. Girls who pursue love are either happy because they marry love or miserable because they are disappointed in love.

If you don't care so much, you won't be so disappointed and hurt, and you won't be so indifferent and sad. Too much sadness is because of deep love.

Because of love, I dare not bother each other and do whatever I can. If you are afraid of hurting each other, don't say what you can; Afraid of disturbing each other, take away everything that can take care of yourself. The more you care, the worse you lose.

"In the past, the color of the sun changed slowly and the mail was slow. I could only love one person in my life." Such a beautiful poem is getting farther and farther away from the life of modern people. The stability and durability of modern people's feelings are greatly reduced, and the classical love concept that has been single-minded has been greatly challenged.

So breaking up in love has become a very common thing, and getting married and divorced is not a big deal. The fragility of modern people's marriage feelings seems to be lasting, and the portrait of a single-minded person is a joke.

Love is a game that does not follow the law of conservation of energy. People who have a plan live smoothly. Only those of us who want nothing but love often fail miserably. There is no fairness in the emotional world.

I just wanted to keep it simple. If I love someone, I will love him and spend my life with him. Everyone has bad habits. If you care too much about someone, maybe that person won't cherish you. If you love someone too much, you may be proud of convenience; As a lyric says, "the favored people always have nothing to hide." This is why "the world is simple, but people are complicated".

True love, deliberately sought, is often not found. Maybe with fate, you can get what you want.

If you are not sure whether the love you meet is good or bad, just try it. Let go of your hand and return your freedom to love. What remains in your hand is truly yours. Those feelings that disappear when left out in the cold are just a smile.

Good love lies not in the sudden magnificence, but in the companionship year after year.

In any case, I still have to believe in love, believe in simple and pure love, and believe that holding hands is a lifelong love.

I overheard many stories of people around me these days, some were shocked and some were unbelievable. Even some students who came back from internship told me in a firm tone, "for money, people can sell everything, dignity, soul and body." If you don't want to, you just don't have enough money. "

I told them that this was not the case. Such things do exist, but they must be only a few phenomena. The students don't think so They think my life is too simple. I know that in their eyes, this simplicity is just synonymous with stupidity and pedantry. Students in their twenties, it seems difficult for me to change their values. At this moment, I just feel so helpless.

But anyway, I still choose to believe in life, love, the future and everything. I'm glad that I haven't lost my original self in this complicated world.

Only by enduring loneliness and loneliness can we maintain prosperity and happiness. If the rest of my life is the right person, what does it matter if I stay up late? Make yourself better, financially independent, ideologically independent and personally independent, and what you expect will come.