My boyfriend sent a circle of friends but didn't return my message. What happened?

Early in the morning, my roommate was very angry and sent me several messages in succession: I blacked out small purchases.

She was surprised at her gentle temper and said to herself, it's wonderful. To tell you the truth, I also put up with that small purchase for a long time. I sent a sentence to my roommate, "Hey, go ahead."

My roommate was in a hurry, so she called directly and said, I asked her about the price of air cushions in Korea, and she threw me some figures. I kept asking her when the goods would arrive and other information. After waiting for a long time, she didn't reply to me. Later, when I saw that she sent a circle of friends, I asked, "Are you there? After a long time, I saw that you sent a circle of friends and didn't reply to me. " Then she replied angrily, "Oh, my God, you are grandpa."

I also know this small purchase, and my attitude is quite hot. If you ask her the price, you can't even say it's expensive, otherwise she will scold you in the circle of friends for being so cheap and expensive. If you ask the price if you don't buy it, she will also send a circle of friends and say, "Don't buy it more than twice, just pull it black." After payment, she will ask when things will arrive, and she will send a circle of friends and say, "What's the hurry? I don't see what I am. I

She has a bigger temper than her clients and is dissatisfied with them. She usually sends a circle of friends. I don't know whether to blame or be discouraged. It is common to send a circle of friends to let you see her scold you but not return the message. I have dealt with her before, and finally I was angered by her and directly blacked out.

Finally, the roommate added, "Her circle of friends is either a product or a curse. She has such a bad business attitude and feels that others have a bad temper. " I smiled and said nothing.

As far as I know, it is a bit unreasonable for a business person to send a circle of friends but not reply to the customer's news. Clients looking for you must be anxious to consult you. If you send a circle of friends slowly and don't reply to others, it will make him feel that you have a bad attitude in the eyes of customers. There are some contradictions when talking about business First of all, you will swear in your circle of friends and not reply to other people's messages. At this rate, you will capsize in the gutter one day.

It doesn't mean that customers are superior, you should treat them as masters, but at least you should respect each other. If people kindly consult you, there is no point in slapping you. Cousin is also in business. Every time a customer calls, no matter how busy, he will politely say, "Hello, what can I do for you?" No matter how busy he is, he will reply to the customer's information as soon as possible.

Aside from the politeness of interpersonal communication, "sending friends and not returning messages to each other" should be a taboo for businessmen.

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"You sent a circle of friends but didn't return my message" is also fatal in friendship.

For a long time, I met something. I just wanted to talk to someone in the short term, and it was quite private, so I finally chose my best friend at that time. I know she's busy. Before chatting, she will ask you if you are busy now, and then choose a good time to chat with her. But whether she has leisure time to chat with her or not, she is very busy. Many times, she can't wait for a reply in the middle of the chat, and often she will reply in a day or two.

At first, I comforted myself and said, "I am too idle, and I can't blame her for being too busy." Later, she didn't return my messages. In a blink of an eye, she went to a circle of friends and sent a photo of having a hot pot with her friends today. The filter of the photo is still very nice. I praised her circle of friends and commented that she would reply, but my message would still reply the next day, saying, "I have been too busy recently."

It happened several times that I sent a circle of friends and didn't return messages. Besides, I'm sensitive. Later, I broke off contact with her for a long time. Later, a friend who had a good relationship with us asked, "Why haven't you seen her out to play recently?" I was very angry and said, "I feel that she doesn't pay much attention to me."

Even good friends need a sense of existence. If you go to P picture to send a circle of friends and don't reply to my message, it will really make people think more. There are awkward moments in friendship. I don't know whether it is unintentional or intentional behavior, which will make me feel "you are my good friend, but it seems that I am sentimental and you don't care about me at all".

I smiled and told my friends about this psychological activity, saying that maybe I was Asura in my previous life, so I was jealous and sensitive. My friend smiled and said to me, "In fact, I really want to change into me and wait for news from my good friend when I am lonely. She didn't return to me, but she sent a circle of friends to chat with the people who commented below, and I would think so. " Friendship is also something that needs you to come and I want to return. When you are alone, you just wait.

For the sake of friendship, once you make a circle of friends and ignore me, I can be your busy. If you did this twice, I would think you didn't see it, but you did it three times. Maybe I really need to readjust the orientation of our relationship, at least let me understand that for you, maybe I am not that important to this friendship.

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A few days ago, I sent him a message politely because I wanted to ask my friend for help, but I didn't wait for his news. After a long time, I saw him upload a few small videos to watch the concert. At that time, my most direct explanation for his not returning my messages was "He is really busy now, so I should wait."

The next day, he was busy with various activities and sent photos of the activities as usual, but he still didn't return my messages. At that time, he had a feeling of being treated as a little transparent and secretly depressed. Later, he comforted himself and said, "The Great God is very busy, and it is normal for the news to be submerged." In the afternoon, I had the cheek to send him another message, ignoring that I didn't wait for his news before, and he didn't say anything about me. After a while, I finally heard from the Great God, but he didn't.

There is no right or wrong here. After all, everyone has the right to choose, but what I want to say is the basic attitude of interpersonal communication: respect each other.

We don't care much about the news that ordinary people don't return to my circle of friends. We still proudly think, "If you don't dump my mother, she doesn't want to dump you yet." But if you don't reply to me, we won't pay special attention to you, not for anything else, but because you have the right to speak in our hearts. You are very worthy of concern. We have great emotional expectations for you, so we will be disappointed if we don't get the corresponding return.

We care about your reply, but we can understand your explanation. The attitude of explanation is very important. Choosing the way to escape will deepen our misunderstanding. It's no big deal to explain it to your face.

What makes people sad is never "you sent a circle of friends but didn't reply to my message", but you didn't reply to my message but didn't explain it to me. The problem is never your circle of friends, but your attitude.

"I'm so sad that you sent a circle of friends but didn't reply to my message" and "You sent a circle of friends but didn't reply to my message, but told me that you were busy and I understood you". There was only one explanation before.

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