What is the effect of parents' failure to keep an appointment on their children?

Parents' failure to keep the appointment may have the following effects on their children:

1. Children learn not to respect time: When parents don't keep their appointments, children will feel that their time is not respected, which will make them learn to ignore the importance of time and stop taking appointments and time arrangements seriously.

2. Children feel neglected: parents' failure to keep the contract may cause children to feel that they are not important in their parents' hearts, thus affecting their self-esteem and self-confidence, which in turn leads to communication barriers between children and parents.

3. Children lose their sense of security: If parents don't keep appointments and are often late, children will feel that they have lost their sense of security while waiting for their parents, resulting in insecurity and anxiety, which is easy to produce fear and anxiety.

4. Children learn to be irresponsible: Parents who don't keep appointments make their children feel that they can be irresponsible, which will affect their sense of responsibility and growth concept, and let them learn not to be responsible for their actions.

Therefore, parents should try to avoid not showing up or being late after making an appointment. If something really needs to be delayed, you should inform the child at the first time, let the child understand the reason, explain the time and place of meeting to the child, and establish trust and relationship between parents and children. At the same time, parents should also respect their children's time and needs, give them enough attention and companionship, and let them feel valued and loved.