When do you think mother-in-law is different from mother?

As long as the mentality is flat, they are all mothers, and mutual understanding is a family, safe and healthy! Life is so beautiful.

I think many people now understand that mother-in-law is not a real mother, so she is psychologically prepared before getting married. If the mother-in-law is not a real mother, she may not find the difference until after marriage. When two people fall in love, you will know that a mother-in-law is different from her mother, but in fact, the essence is different. If the mother-in-law is a mother, you can marry her son. What does it matter? You are not related to her by blood.

Mother-in-law can only respect and speak well of her. When you marry into this family, if you meet a good mother-in-law, she will cook for you. When you meet an ordinary mother-in-law, she will think that you are going to start doing what a daughter-in-law should do when you marry into this family, and you will be told by her mother-in-law. If you are a mother, a mother generally won't let her daughter do housework. When you are a baby, it is good to be pampered, and it is good to be too lazy to get along with your mother-in-law after marriage.

Don't treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, and don't feel bad about not being your own mother. Getting along with my mother-in-law is like getting along with two women. Respect each other and greet each other. Don't think it's easy to do this. Many daughters-in-law were very sweet and diligent before they got married, but when they really got married, no one called them. They think that they will not respect their elders in any case. This is actually very wrong. Best for their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because the distance is too close, there are too many contradictions. After all, many living habits of the two generations are different. Visit the old people occasionally, and they will think you are especially filial. The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in each family is different. As long as you do it yourself, you don't have to care too much about others.

When there is no family conflict, it is still very harmonious.

If there is an argument, my mother-in-law will still come to me.

When I was sad and crying, the difference came out, and my mother would stop me from holding me in my arms to comfort me.

My mother-in-law will only walk away after seeing it, as if she didn't see it.

This is the difference!

After all, it's not the meat that fell from her, but it's still not close enough.

When giving birth to a child

My mother-in-law cares about her grandson,

Mother cares about her daughter.

It's time to have a baby!

When giving birth to a child, the mother will feel sorry for her daughter, and even shed tears when watching her daughter's pain and suffering.

Mother-in-law will think that all women who have children are like this, and they all have this process, so they disagree.

When will I feel this way? I think it's a bit silly for my mother-in-law to treat you as her own mother.

Why? Because there is no distinction between near and far in interpersonal relationships. Yes, you became her daughter-in-law because you married her son, yes, a daughter-in-law, not a daughter. Even daughters are adopted daughters. Can an adopted daughter be the same as a daughter?

There is a kind of mother-in-law who is kind to you (and so is her mother-in-law) because she really likes you, thinks about you everywhere, misses you often, and really keeps you alive in her heart. Willing to pay for you, out of an instinctive concern for the younger generation and love for friends. There is a very basic point in dealing with things. We will not blindly take sides with anyone, and whoever is right or wrong will not generalize. This is a feeling based on liking you personally. Secondly, you are her daughter-in-law and like you more.

There is a kind of mother-in-law who is kind to you (and so is her mother-in-law), which is an indirect feeling. The basic point of everything she does is to make you be good to her son. To put it bluntly, she may not like you that much, but she has to, because her son likes you, and she has no choice. If she chooses, she doesn't like you at all. But she won't show it, but you will find that everything she says to you and does for you is based on beating around the bush to remind you of her son everywhere.

There is a kind of mother-in-law (so is mother-in-law). This kind of mother-in-law is the most stupid. She doesn't like you, but she must show it She says every day that it will lead to family disharmony. She said that you, you quarreled with your husband, and his husband was in a dilemma. She said you, but you didn't say it, but you kept it in your heart. If you keep it for a long time, rabbits will bite when they are in a hurry. Slowly, this daughter-in-law will also have her own strategy. Can a family be good without a family heart? Many such families usually end in breakdown.

In fact, whether to treat your mother-in-law like your own mother has already been said in your answer before, so I won't repeat it this time.

For example, if your husband complains to your father about you, see if your father will take his side. By the same token, who do you think will be happy to complain to her mother-in-law about her husband? Then whoever's cabbage is arched by a pig will be unhappy.

So this problem, when I think my mother-in-law is different from her mother-in-law, should always exist.

Tell me about my experience.

The first time I felt different, it was two months after delivery, because I was on the first floor during the day and lived on the second floor at night, and I went up and down the stairs several times a day, which caused leg pain.

One night, I just came from the first floor, and my mother-in-law asked me to go down and get something. I was angry. I said to her, I just went down to the first floor. Why didn't you say something? My legs that climb upstairs every day are so painful that I can't squat down.

From that day on, my mother-in-law basically wouldn't let me go down.

She said that I have been two months, and I still have pain here and there, just lack of exercise. /kloc-I was pregnant in 0/0. Once I give birth, can I fully recover in one month?

Another time, it was a little cold at night. I put on a little more clothes and covered myself with a quilt (because I was a little afraid of the cold after giving birth). My mother-in-law said it was so thick, not so cold. I told her it was because I was afraid of the cold after giving birth, and she said it had nothing to do with it.

Although she meant no harm, her tone of voice really made people feel uncomfortable.

And my mother, whenever she tells her that her leg hurts or something, she will buy me medicine and let me have a good rest.

When I go home, I go to the vegetable market with my mother. Every time I ask my mother what to buy, she always says, I don't care, as long as you like it.

There are many similar things.

By saying this, I don't mean that my mother-in-law is a bad mother-in-law. On the contrary, on the whole, I think my mother-in-law is good. After giving birth, she is taking care of all the children, and I don't care at all.

Others spend months feeding their children and changing diapers, so they can't sleep well. I basically eat and rest this month.

Having said that, what I want to express is that as a woman and a daughter-in-law, you must not think that your mother-in-law will be like your mother. Your living habits and concepts are different. There is no need to force her mother-in-law to become a mother.

Just keep mutual respect with your mother-in-law Don't expect too much. The less you expect, the less disappointed you will be.

Hello, about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. My own experience is that from the beginning, I didn't expect and ask my mother-in-law to treat me as a mother.

To put it bluntly, my mother-in-law never gave birth to us or raised us. Naturally, we don't understand our temper, habits and lifestyle, and we don't understand our mother-in-law.

Therefore, I don't expect my mother-in-law to treat me like a mother, and I won't be disappointed. On the contrary, when I get concerned, I am very happy. This way of thinking is easier to get along with.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to get along with strangers because of the same man. But calling her mother-in-law "mom" is easy to produce a kind of expectation and requirement similar to "mom". On the contrary, it is easy to be disappointed when getting along. Adjust your mentality at these times.

Mother-in-law is mother-in-law and mother is mother, so that she will not be disappointed and lost in her heart.

I can feel it from the moment of pregnancy, and it is obvious from the moment when the child is born. The most obvious thing is that after the birth of the child, she has a very close relationship with her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law takes care of her life, diet and body more obviously.

Mother-in-law and mother are both mothers, but there is still a gap, because I grew up beside my mother when I was a child, so I can speak casually and freely. Even if I go back to my parents' home as a guest, I can easily say what I want to eat, and I am not afraid of being unhappy.

Mother-in-law is also a mother, but she must speak in moderation and dare not ask for anything. She can't arrange what she wants to eat, and she is afraid of being rejected by her mother-in-law. If the mother-in-law is a picky person, the wife will be very tired.

Don't worry about this and that around mom. This is the difference between two mothers.