For the rest of your life, be with people who make you laugh and meet interesting souls.

There are always some people who will appear in our lives inadvertently.

Affect our joys and sorrows, write a love-hate parting song, and then leave unforgettable memories.

Remember a classic question in Zhihu: "What is the best love?"

The answers to this question are endless. Some people say that they need to recognize each other's love concept, some people say that they have no idea of each other's acceptance, and some people say that it is to make two evenly matched people better.

The so-called best appearance of love, in fact, there is no only standard.

But the simplest judgment is probably that there are more smiles on the face than before, and two people are happier than one.

After all, the original intention of pursuing love is only to make your life happier and luckier.

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When you meet the right person, you will laugh more than cry.

Read such a story:

Once upon a time, there was a king who had two daughters. The two daughters have one thing in common, that is, tears can be turned into diamonds.

Later, the two daughters got married separately.

The eldest daughter married the prince and the youngest daughter married the shepherd.

Ten years later, the eldest daughter wore gold and silver and lived in a luxurious castle, but her face was much haggard than before. When asked why, she said:

"Every day with him is a luxurious life, but it seems to be at the expense of my smile."

It turns out that the eldest daughter and the prince have been making do for ten years. The eldest daughter often lives in Lacrimosa, and the prince is not only indifferent, but also earns a lot of rare treasures with tears.

The youngest daughter still lives a poor life with the shepherd.

The king looked at the poor life of his little daughter and was puzzled. He asked the shepherd:

"Why do you still live such a life? Obviously, a tear from her can make your life better! "

The shepherd smiled and said:

"Because I can't bear to make her cry."

With the wrong person, life seems to be full of frustration; With the right person, ordinary days are full of joy.

More smiles than tears are the best proof of this happiness.

Zhang Ailing once said:

"Let you cry to tore heart crack lung of that person, is your favorite person. The person who breaks your heart with laughter is the one who loves you the most. "

People who don't love you will make you sad when you think about it, and people who love you will make your mouth rise when you mention it.

People who don't love you are indifferent to your tears, but people who love you will try their best to make you laugh.

He is like a beam of light in your gloomy world, taking you to out of the dark and staying away from confusion.

He may not be good at sweet talk, but he is willing to be a pistachio in your life and hold up a sunny day for you.

You will find that the deafening thunder seems less terrible on rainy days; The silent night in winter doesn't seem so long; Even the troubles on the way to work are not so annoying.

He will let you know that these troubles are not a big deal, but being with each other is the most important thing.

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Love someone who makes you laugh.

The poet Burns said:

"What is life without love? This is a long night without dawn! "

Life is long and a person's journey is always lonely.

Therefore, we look forward to being taken care of by fate and getting a love that grows old together. After all, these two words sound exciting.

We hope that love can be like honey in bitter gourd juice, which will make our boring days sweeter.

But if this relationship brings you more sadness than happiness, then its existence is meaningless.

Colleague Xiao Fang once experienced a bad marriage. At that time, she often quarreled with her husband, and there was no big contradiction, but all kinds of trivial matters could be quarreled two or three times a week.

In the company, we can see that she is depressed every day and too tired to do anything.

One of the most frequently heard words from her is: "Why do you do this every day? I am really fed up with such days. "

Sometimes, I see her sitting quietly in the stairwell, wiping her tears.

Later, once, after two people quarreled, my husband left without saying goodbye and didn't go home for several days, not even calling.

She finally realized that the days of being trapped in a dead end were over. After struggling in this relationship for so long, she is exhausted. It's really time to say goodbye.

Soon, they divorced.

Xiao Fang and her current husband met at a party. At first, they just tried. Unexpectedly, they have been walking side by side and have a pair of lovely children.

Now, she is like a small sun every day, not only smiling, but also influencing people around her with her positive energy.

When you fall in love with someone who makes you laugh, you will find that all the difficulties in life are not worth mentioning.

The haze hanging over your head can be easily brushed away by him.

He is like a wall in front of you, which can block all the storms for you.

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Since then, all bitterness has become sweet.

When we were young, we would roll around in pettish, which is why we ate candy only when we knew we would cry.

Later, I had to be brave and smile, knowing that no one would spoil myself any more.

But you should know that the person who makes you laugh is the one who will coax you with a lollipop and take you home when you are sad.

In the TV series "Carat Lovers", the heroine Mi Duo finally got together with the male god Xiao Liang through unremitting efforts, but she was left behind on the spot because of misunderstanding when she got engaged.

At the end of the story, the misunderstanding was solved. I thought I would meet her again, but I didn't expect her to turn around and choose Lei, who has been silently accompanying her.

It seems unexpected, but it is reasonable.

Just like Ru Ping in "Heavy Rain", she finally gave up He Shuhuan, who was vacillating in love, and married Duffy, who was a little silly and lovely.

This is not making do, nor making do, but knowing what is sweet because of suffering.

Because I was black and blue all over myself, I finally knew how precious it was to meet someone who cured me.

From then on, it was bitter and sweet, and it was scarred.

He will be your reassurance, your fluoxetine, the energy to eliminate all your anxiety, and the driving force for all your happiness.

From the moment I met you, I was destined to have a smile between my eyebrows.

Life is not long, and it is worthwhile to come to this world with the right person.

Along the way, many people love you, but few people always love you; Many people laugh with you, but few people always make you laugh.

Life is to walk with a smile and hope; Feelings are valuable only when they meet another interesting soul.

May you finally meet the person who makes you laugh when you think about it, and run as soon as you see it.

For you, he is the summer wind, the spring rain, the most precious gift of fate and the most dazzling light in life.

In the future, be with the person who makes you laugh more.