How to treat people who don't fall in love and get married before the age of 30?

? Thirty years old, and thirty years old. In our traditional concept in China, anyone who has no children at the age of 30 is guilty, let alone someone who doesn't fall in love and get married at the age of 30. Such people estimate that their parents have to worry about death every day. Parents can't sleep at night and can't eat enough.

Although I am about to enter the ranks of 30 years old, what I want to say is that people who don't fall in love and get married at the age of 30 have their own difficulties. I think these people, if they have the right partner, who don't want to fly together and who don't want to be alone.

? The first kind: this kind of person usually has a person living in his heart. "once the sea was difficult for water, it was always amber." After seeing you, others have lost color in my eyes, and I can't stand being close to anyone. When we were together, we swore to each other, but for personal reasons, we didn't cherish it, or because of external objective factors, we finally failed to get married, but you will live in my heart forever. Today, you have married someone else, but you will always be the white rose in my heart.

? The second type: if you can't find something that "suits" you, you'd rather lack it than have more. My personal working and living ability has been strengthened. I have my own career, and I have done it well, just like a strong woman. I can handle all the troubles in my life by myself, and I have tried blind date, but I haven't felt a heartbeat since I found it. No one can conquer my heart, so no one is suitable. There is a single, rather short than extravagant.

? The third kind: "fear of love" and "fear of marriage". When I was a child, my parents quarreled all day and eventually divorced. Growing up with my grandparents, I can't feel fatherly love and maternal love. I don't expect the other half. I don't want to fall in love or get married.

? The fourth type: family reasons, no love and marriage capital. A relative of mine had a car accident in junior high school, and his father died, leaving his paralyzed mother, him and his young sister. In order to take care of his family, he didn't finish junior high school, so he went to work to earn money, and he had to send his sister to school and cook for his mother. Now in her thirties, my sister has gone to college, and my mother still needs to take care of her. I asked him when he would think about himself. He smiled and said to wait until his sister worked. It's really sad to hear the news.

The fifth type: there is a love object, but the same sex. Some girls have found girlfriends and boys have found boyfriends, but under the pressure of public opinion in China, same-sex marriage and gay love are still not accepted by the public, and both parents in the family keep secrets from each other.

The sixth kind: unmarried people. There are two kinds of situations, one is not married in love, and the other is not married in love. This is indeed due to the differences in personal world outlook and outlook on life, and has also been influenced by western thoughts in recent years. In order to pursue a more free life and better enjoy the process of love, a group of unmarried people have emerged.

To sum up, except unmarried people, I think most people still want to find their other half as their life and soul mate, but due to external public opinion and their own pressure, more and more people now choose to be alone, not to fall in love and not to get married. But never say that these people are abnormal, only that they have no good chance to find the other half.

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