Why can Emperor Wei Ming Cao Rui’s first wife, Mrs. Yu, never see Cao Rui again?

Today I will tell you about Wei Ming Emperor Cao Rui's original wife, who was deposed because of a vicious curse and could never see Cao Rui again. Wei Ming Emperor Cao Rui had many concubines, with tens of thousands of people in his harem, including his first wife. There were three titles, namely Mrs. Yu, Empress Mao of Ming Dynasty, and Empress Yuan Guo of Ming Dynasty. As Cao Rui's first wife, there are very few records about Mrs. Yu in history books. We only know that after she fell out of favor, she was deposed because of a vicious curse and could never see Cao Rui again.

According to "Three Kingdoms" records, when Cao Rui was the king of Pingyuan, he married a woman named Yu from a large family in Hanoi as his concubine. However, after a while, he took Mrs. Yu's daughter Mao from the same county as his concubine. . Mao was deeply favored by Cao Rui because of his talent and appearance. The two of them were in the same boat when they entered, and they were in the same chariot when they left. They were extremely affectionate. While Cao Rui favored Mao, he neglected his first wife Yu. The latter was dissatisfied and complained, which is also the meaning of the title. As soon as Cao Rui came to the throne, he immediately appointed Mao as a noble concubine (second only to the queen), and the following year he made her queen, leaving Mrs. Yu aside. Mrs. Yu was very sad and dissatisfied with this result, and her expression of anger and humiliation was often reflected in her color.

Judging from historical records, although the Bian family came from a humble background, she had a gentle personality and an upright style. She would never rely on her status to compete with other concubines for favor, but instead took good care of them and their children. In terms of clothing and utensils, Bian respected frugality and did not like luxury, which was very similar to Cao Cao's style. At the same time, Ms. Bian never seeks personal gain for her family members, and often warns her relatives not to rely on her connections to do evil. From this point of view, Bian can be called Cao Cao's virtuous wife and a female model praised by the world.

Cao Cao was full of praise for Bian's performance, saying that she was the most difficult person because she could not change her face when she was angry, nor lost her temper when she was happy. 》). Chen Shou in "Three Kingdoms" also spoke highly of the Bian family, saying that although the Wei Empress's family was rich and noble, it was not as powerful as those of the Han Dynasty, who would dominate the government if it was not their base. It is beautiful to learn from the changes in the past. Looking back at Chen Qun's discussion, Zun Qian's theory is enough to serve as a code for hundreds of kings, and it will be a constitutional model for later generations? (Ibid.) It can be seen from this that although Bian's family background was not good, he was a man of many commendable qualities. This was definitely not what Mrs. Yu said: "There are no people who can act righteously."