My boyfriend’s mother is critically ill, how should I say words of comfort?

You are so good and know how to care about people...

He will definitely be sad. You can tell him not to be sad anymore. Everything has happened. .. Then now you must know how to cherish the days to come. No matter how hard the days are to come, you must persist in facing them with strength. Because he still has your support and care. You have to live in sadness and happiness, so why not choose to be happy? How about your life? You should spend more time with him, chat with him, or buy some CDs for him to listen to, which will make him feel better. If he really loves you, then you might as well say that you will always be by his side, etc. If so! He will definitely be moved!

After people fall ill, they often have turbulent thoughts and mood swings. Especially patients who are admitted to the hospital with more serious diseases will be more worried and feel lonely and depressed. . The patient's family members will also have random thoughts and be confused. Therefore, it is not an easy task for relatives, friends and colleagues to frequently go to comfort patients and their families. There are many truths and articles in this.

First of all, we should "report good news rather than good news" and try to talk as much as possible about words and things that make patients and their families feel happy and relieved. The purpose of comforting patients and their families is to relax the patient's mind and restore health as soon as possible. Therefore, you must not bring news that may increase the patient's worries and uneasiness, and avoid talking about topics that may irritate the other person or that are taboo to the other person. This is basic morality. After meeting the patient and their family members, you can generally first describe some intuitive impressions, such as: "You look good." "You are fatter than before."

"You are in good spirits. Okay." Then, you can also talk about some content outside the hospital and unrelated to the disease, such as major news at work, family, and even at home and abroad, to distract the patient's attention from the disease as much as possible. However, generally speaking, patients and their family members always talk to visitors about the patient's condition and feelings. At this time, they should listen carefully and find some favorable factors for the patient, so that they can take over the topic and help the patient and their family members. Provide comfort. For example, if the patient has said that he has a "good appetite," the visitor can use the topic to "play on" the topic and talk more about the importance of a good appetite in overcoming the disease, so that the patient will recognize this as a favorable condition, thus enhancing his confidence in overcoming the disease.

Secondly, we must grasp the situation and be targeted. Some patients lack confidence in their own diseases. At this time, more cases should be introduced about others who have suffered from similar diseases and were quickly cured after treatment. Mechanical Mu? Yuan [∪擎掓诓⌒菔BenHuanMillぃ?耀退 impact? Bi Ni Yue Dao? Source play? Oh? Huan residual? concave soil rough? Qiu Cang? Ba Mu Lan Hao? ⑷ pull up the obstacle ∪ cough 谝They all call the disabled man Jing ⒅ Plague fatigue? Gray? Lung embarrassing glass? Dirty? ∑? S mechanical Mou ∪ hissing centipede Yi Yi 艨 support Fu gap 幜 palpitation Qiang? Enzyme drought 5 Rendao decorated Shi 猓? Source cough grub Ω cute Eight? Pro-rebellion Madan?⒁Badger Tie? Gray? Protect admonishment Xibo?⒔ㄒ槠溆牍ぷ鞯ノ涣? Dan? Really closed?〔Strange?唷U膆rise Pavilion? Sufuyuan∪said Mou∏椤⑺梶gallbladder pure and dirty faded to guide the world? Rock?嗟 Tomb meal?Americium Yu?勋?Sao Zhi stride servant Yuan Jiao Zai about drought male Paiwei school?maid?Zhanjiao?Dong Fu male Ч?

Again, pay attention to keeping consistent with the doctor and family members caliber. For patients, especially those suffering from serious diseases, in order to obtain better medical results, medical staff and their families often conceal certain conditions from the patients, such as writing false reports and issuing false prescriptions. Practice has proved that taking such psychological measures has certain benefits for those patients who are more sensitive and lack the ability to control themselves. When visiting such a patient, you should not only respect the doctor's orders, respect the wishes of the patient's family, and be tight-lipped, but you should also act as if nothing has happened in front of the patient, and even chat and laugh with him, appearing relaxed and happy. Patients generally pay great attention to every move of their relatives and friends around them. Therefore, family members of patients should be advised to be good at controlling their emotions. Especially in front of critically ill patients, they must not reveal their sadness. Be sure to appear calm and collected.

Also note: when the patient has any treatment requirements, they should be met as much as possible; the tasks entrusted by the patient should be completed by all possible means; when bidding farewell to the patient, the greetings and wishes of other relatives and friends should be conveyed to the patient, and express I will definitely come to visit again next time, so that the patient will be full of hope and confidence.

Wish you success!