What should I do when others are talking?

1 Basic language etiquette in the workplace

Everyone needs language communication, even the disabled need a way of communication. As a person who works in the workplace, language is a very necessary weapon. A person with language ability will do things very smoothly and greatly promote his work. Language is the knowledge that people in the workplace need to learn most. So, what etiquette and skills need to be learned?

1. Whether talking or communicating with colleagues, leaders, customers or other relevant staff, you need to have a basic etiquette. With basic etiquette, we will have good interpersonal relationships, which is very beneficial to our work. Language is an art that needs constant learning.

2. Many friends like to be close to others when talking, which is a very polite thing. Everyone should try to keep a distance from others when speaking, and avoid drooling all over the sky when speaking, which will greatly affect everyone's impression in others' hearts, so keep a distance and pay attention to your mouth when speaking.

When talking, many people don't pay attention to their own language, especially when some friends talk cheerfully, which leaves a bad impression on many people. Talking casually often hurts a person. Your careless words will make others care very much and will have a bad influence.

There are many times when people need to report their work to or communicate with their leaders. At this time, people should pay attention to language answers. Ordinary people should listen to the leaders at this good time and analyze their job satisfaction. Many times, it is good for leaders to talk more. At this time, everyone is smiling, silence is the best.

Etiquette and skills of speaking

2 the etiquette of talking with people

1. Make sure your mouth is clean and your breath is fresh before talking to people. If you talk with leaves and minced meat in your teeth, or have bad breath. Then no matter who can't stand it and wants to escape early, how can they listen to you? As the saying goes, "eat without saying, sleep without saying." Don't talk to people while eating, or food scraps may come out, which will inevitably make them unhappy and embarrass you.

2. When talking with people, you should look directly at each other's face, and never squint or look down at each other, because it will make people feel disrespected. And make eye contact from time to time. But don't stare at each other all the time, try to be natural and make the listener feel comfortable on the premise of facing each other squarely.

When someone talks to you, you should immediately stop what you are doing, turn your head to the other person and lean forward slightly. Listen carefully to each other. Don't be half-hearted, look around. Don't interrupt each other when they are talking. This is a very impolite performance. If you have different opinions or questions, you should listen carefully to each other before expressing them.

4. Put an end to swearing and swearing. Our country advocates a harmonious society and civilized language. Swearing words and vulgar words make people sound particularly harsh. I also labeled you rude, which made people stay away from you. Consciously avoid some habitual swearing. In addition, people tend to swear when their emotions are out of control, so they should avoid swearing and learn to control their emotions.

Etiquette and skills of speaking

3 Office etiquette speech skills

1. Don't talk about salary. Different pay for equal work is a common method used by bosses, but if it is not used well, it will easily lead to contradictions among employees, and eventually it will point the finger at the boss, which is of course something he doesn't want to see, so the boss intends to contact him in a single line when paying wages, without revealing the amount and telling others not to know.

2. Don't have personal problems. Never talk about personal problems or right and wrong in the company. You think it doesn't matter if you talk about others. It doesn't take a few times to bypass your head and set yourself on fire. Then escape will be very passive. Chatting in the office is just for fun, no matter who you are, you will often regret it afterwards. Unfortunately, the spilled water can't be collected. There are many dangers in treating colleagues as confidants. The workplace is an arena, and everyone may become your opponent. Even partners who cooperate well may suddenly change their faces. He knows that you are more and more likely to attack you, and the more exposed you are, the more vulnerable you are.

Don't say anything ambitious. Everyone has ambitions, but seats are limited. If you make your business public, you will openly challenge your colleagues in the company. There is not enough porridge, and the tree attracts the wind. Why be wary of being regarded as a threat by colleagues or superiors? Keeping a low profile is a good way to protect yourself. It is obviously funny to talk about life ideals in the office. If you work, you can work with peace of mind and talk to your family and friends when you are ambitious. Your value is reflected in how many things you have done, when you should show it, and there is nothing wrong with keeping a low profile when you shouldn't. Only talented people can do great things, not talk big.

4. Don't talk about family property. No matter how rich or poor you are, crying in the office seems pretentious. It is better to be sensible and not say anything you shouldn't say than to be annoying. Even if you just bought a new villa or went to Europe on holiday, there is no need to show off some happiness in the office. The smaller the circle, the better. Jealousy is not good, because it is easy to recruit people to calculate.

What are the skills of communication etiquette?

1. Don't bully the younger generation. If the opposite side is smaller than yourself, don't feel superior, as if you are very experienced and great, and listen to me, which will make the other side feel particularly uncomfortable, so don't be overbearing.

2. Keep smiling. Smiling can make others feel their warmth, make others feel that they are easy to get close to and approachable, and make others not defend you, so be sure to keep smiling when communicating.

3. There is little difference in age, so try not to use your respectful name. Sometimes, if you feel older than you, you will always be called. In fact, this will make the other party feel particularly unnatural and feel that you are particularly affected, which is very bad. So, unless you see an old man, I suggest you not be called all the time.

4. It depends on the chat environment. Look at the environment in which you chat and decide the topic of your chat. Don't say whatever you want under any circumstances, which may make your communication awkward, so you must look at the environment in which you chat.