How to be a good father and stepmother?

Stepfather and stepmother, but it's not easy, because you're not dealing with your own children. It is a problem to say that others will treat you badly, regardless of him, others will say that you don't care. But if you want to be a good stepmother, you can.

To be a stepmother, you should be mentally prepared and criticize before being a stepmother. Things should be faced by yourself, not for others to see. You can't treat your stepson differently. You can't do the same thing to your own children. They do the same thing. The best thing is that all children are treated equally, including education and material aspects.

It can only be the same. Otherwise, in order not to let outsiders talk about themselves, it is very good for the stepson, very bad for their own children, and especially bad for the development of both children. Stepsons may not appreciate you, but your own children will hate you, which is a great failure. Educate your stepson the way you usually educate your children. Maybe that's what you said at first, but so what, as long as you have a clear conscience. Time will prove that you have raised a successful child and become a stepmother.