Boyfriend went to travel alone without saying anything. Did I break up?

I don't think it's necessary to be broken up. I may be a little angry, but I still need to analyze the specific problems.

In the first case, the trip is a planned trip for two people.

If it's a planned trip, it's only because of your personal reasons, such as the work arrangement can't ask for leave in time, and it's normal for your boyfriend to leave on his own. Of course, if you don't say hello, you will be a little angry. This can be put in other people's shoes. If you are going to travel with great expectations, but the other party suddenly tells you that you can't attend, it is understandable to leave on your own in excitement.

This situation is relatively simple. Contact and say hello every day. You can send a text message or WeChat first, and it's best not to choose the morning, because when traveling in general, the morning is in a hurry and it's easy to ignore it in a hurry. Don't be too late. If you climb mountains or do other sports, you will probably be very tired and go to bed early. It is best to choose after meals, such as around eight or nine o'clock. At this time, people are generally in a better mood and more relaxed. You can also praise or comment on the expectation of traveling together when the other party sends photos of friends circle or space.

In the second case, your boyfriend traveled without your knowledge, and you learned about it through photos sent by the other party or other friends.

This situation is hard to understand, unless it is a long-distance relationship. If it's a long-distance relationship, both parties are relatively free, so it's normal to go without reporting to you. But if the two sides are in the same city and often meet each other, and your boyfriend goes out to travel without telling him, it can only be said that your feelings are not deep. In his mind, there is no need to tell you about this behavior.

This kind of treatment is also very simple, so we must wait for him to come back and sit down and talk. You don't need to argue, just let him know that you care about him. For example, if you can't find him and are worried about an accident, your boyfriend and girlfriend don't have to fully grasp each other's itinerary, but you have to tell each other about this separation.

In the third case, after you have an argument, your boyfriend travels alone.

This situation is the most unfavorable, but it also proves that he loves you very much. Your quarrel had a great influence on him. He wanted to calm down and didn't want to face a worse situation. However, avoidance can't solve the problem. Before he thinks it over, you should first determine the way to solve it, saying that no matter what differences there are, the feelings of both sides will remain the same, and * * * will try to solve the difficulties faced.

In short, during his trip, try not to make phone calls to avoid disputes. You can communicate by texting or other relatively relaxed and calm ways, and then have a calm interview after you come back to avoid similar situations in the future.