I bought a car for my son, and my daughter-in-law who didn't go through the door also asked for a car, because this is in conflict with my son. Should I buy it?

Let's talk about your point of view first. If you think about it from your point of view, you can really see the great feelings of the great parents of the Chinese nation. They only have children in their eyes. They can give anything for their children, and their children are all you have, lest they be hungry, thirsty and tired. . . Even his spiritual world, you should help him to take care of it, pay attention to it, care about it. If he is unhappy, you will feel sad, distressed and even flustered. Auntie, I should call you Auntie when I am 29 years old. There are no parents who don't care about their children, but there is a limit to pain. Excessive love is to spoil them. This is going to kill their children. How many precedents are in front of you? We will all say, at your age, this is the truth. I understand better, but when the problem happens to me, when you see your son unhappy, your heart will not taste. What you care about is not your daughter-in-law, but your son. Maybe you have never been strict with your son. Maybe you have been unconditionally satisfying all his requirements since your son grew up, even if that is unreasonable. If so, aunt, the problem lies with you. Accustomed to taking, getting angry and losing his temper, this daughter-in-law who hasn't passed the door is more important than your own mother in his eyes. Aunt, do you think this is your fault or his fault? Parents are their children's first teachers, which can't be wrong. Now that you can buy him a car, it proves that your family conditions are good, and your daughter-in-law can ask you for a second car, which proves that you can still afford it. If you are happy for your son, I suggest you buy it. Anyway, if you can afford it, your son will be happy. Who is this money for? It's not for him, anyway. What do you say? Then next, you want to buy a house for your son. When the daughter-in-law saw that she quit, she cried and shouted with your son: I want a house, too! Your son is depressed again, and he is unhappy with you when he comes back. What should I do if his son is unhappy? Yes, anyway, I left it for my son when I paid for it, so I bought a house again. . . Then. . . Then. . . I don't think even Bill Gates would spend money like this, would he? It's just a suggestion. Think for yourself!

Then let's talk about your son. From my point of view, our parents brought us into this world is the greatest favor to us. We don't have any right and qualification to ask our parents to ask for it, not to mention being able to drive and prove that we have reached adulthood. Then we need to rely on our own hands to create and fight for it. If we can fight for steamed bread, I will eat steamed bread. If we can fight for porridge, I will drink porridge. If we can fight for more, we will repay our parents. When I was a child, my parents were big trees, and we were small saplings, which sheltered us from the wind and rain. When I grew up, we became big trees. Our parents' branches and leaves had withered, our bodies had bent, our roots were stronger than our parents', and our stems were stronger than our parents'. It was not for us to steal our parents' water, soil, nutrients and sunshine, but for us to shelter them from the wind and rain. . .

I am also a son. Two years ago, my father passed away, and now I live with my mother. When my father was alive, our relationship was not very good, but I know that he cared about me, because I am his son. Now I often think of my father, most of which is regret and self-blame. This is my biggest regret that I failed to let him enjoy happiness when he was alive. The tree wants to calm down, but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to raise it.