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In the past, when women reached a certain age, they would get married early and have their own families. However, with the changes of the times, some women are over 30, but they are not married yet, and they have become older women in many people's minds. It will also make people feel that there is a physical or psychological problem, otherwise how can they be alone? In fact, whether a woman is married or not is not certain that she has a problem. Maybe her lifestyle and ideas are different? So what does it feel like for a woman who is over 30, but not married and has no boyfriend? Bian Xiao interviewed three women and they said.

Ms. Qian: Nothing. I am used to living alone.

I feel that a person's life is quite good. Although there is no love, I am free and have many friends to accompany me. If I get married right away, I may not adapt. I don't feel anything about my life now! I think maybe I'm used to it! Don't think I have a problem. That's not the case at all. It's just that marriage is particularly troublesome and makes me unhappy after watching too much on-off and on-off.

Ms. Li: The feeling of loneliness and fear.

I'm thirty-five years old, but I'm still single. Sometimes I am really lonely, especially in the dead of night. I also hope to have a man to rely on, to talk to myself, to be cared for when I am sad, and to share with others when I am happy. But I was hurt by love, which made me afraid to start a new relationship. I am afraid of repeating the same mistakes, especially afraid of meeting loverboy again.

Zhang: I think career is more important than love.

For me, women should focus on their own careers. Although I'm almost thirty-three, I still don't have time and thought to think about getting married, but I put all my thoughts on my work. In my heart, I feel that as long as I succeed, I will definitely find a man who is as successful as my career. My mentality has always been that career is more important than love. Now it's not me. Nobody's after me. I just think those men are not as good as me. They have accomplished nothing, their careers are average and they have no feelings.

Bian Xiao's conclusion: For some women, they will live better without love. They always feel that getting married is a very troublesome thing. They have to face all kinds of things, and they have a headache when they think about it, so they are single. However, Bian Xiao believes that as long as you are a woman, you should need a man to take care of you. Maybe it doesn't matter now, but when you are old and don't even have a speaker, you will be very lonely.