Tell me about recent events.

Recently, the maternal events in Yulin have been continuously fermented and spread, which has aroused the concern of the whole society. The hospital and family members have their own words, and things have been turning over. But the truth is still inconclusive, and it is estimated that it will not be announced to the public.

As a new mother who has just experienced 36 hours of natural delivery and finally changed to cesarean section, she should express her protest and anger at the hospital's rigid cesarean section index while hurting the deceased.

At present, my baby is still in the neonatal intensive care unit. From birth to now, I have only seen it in the operating room. The answer given by the hospital is to observe again. I am still lying in the hospital, suffering from heartbreaking pain during childbirth, pain after caesarean section, and anxiety about the baby.

On the afternoon of September 3, I hung up the local 3A hospital for emergency treatment because I felt amniotic fluid leakage. At that time, according to the hospital, there was no leakage and the hospitalization goal was not achieved. However, due to the expected date of delivery 1 week, he was admitted to the hospital.

At three o'clock in the morning of September 4, amniotic fluid flowed out again, and the nurse observed it regularly, and basically judged to enter the state of delivery; At four o'clock in the morning, I have contractions; At 8 o'clock in the morning, the pain was unbearable. We asked for cesarean section, and the hospital doctor gave the conclusion that the child was not big. Personally, although my pelvis is small, I can still give birth naturally, and I don't meet the standard of caesarean section, so I need to consult a superior doctor. And talk to his wife alone, and put forward that if there is no guideline, the consequences of caesarean section will be borne by pregnant women and their families, and the hospital will not bear any responsibility ~ ~

At about 9 o'clock, the doctor in charge came to work and advised me to give birth naturally, saying that it was for the sake of the mother and the mother, otherwise I would regret it. I said at that time, can I have a cesarean section if it takes too long? The other party said yes ~ ~

So, I entered a long process of natural labor. At first, I could bear it, with a long interval, but the pain made me grin. Slowly, the pain became more and more severe, like a fracture, and the lower abdomen was hollowed out ... It was so painful that it was difficult to breathe. At the same time, due to the rupture and outflow of amniotic fluid, it is necessary to monitor the situation of the fetus. In the middle, I went through two turns from the inpatient building, two elevators and several aisles, waiting for the fetal heart blood supply test in the perinatal intensive care unit full of pregnant women. I was lying in a makeshift bed, suffering from severe pain in a noisy intensive care unit. It was a feeling of physical and mental exhaustion and pain.

In the afternoon, the doctor came to check and still only opened his fingertips. In the afternoon, around 16, it was again suggested that the amniotic fluid rupture time was too long, and it was estimated that the child was too old. My pelvis is very small. I'm a 35-year-old woman who asked for a caesarean section. But was told that it did not meet the guidelines for caesarean section; We also suggested that the competent doctor agreed not to go out for too long and agreed to caesarean section; Then I was told that the doctor had left work and there were no surgeons now. During the period, the doctor in charge of the night shift in the hospital gave me and my family a strict education. Said to my mother (at that time, my mother asked, what took you so long)

When you are emotional, you also make it clear that it is not ancient, and it hurts for three days and three nights (some doctors said that some people have to hurt for three days and three nights). This is all modern, otherwise, why did you ask the doctor?

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Therefore, I can only continue the painful natural childbirth experience again. At this time, it has been about 14 hours since the amniotic fluid flowed out. The pain continues, becoming more and more unbearable, the feeling of fracture is more and more frequent, and the backache is to the extreme. I hardly ate anything for a whole day, and kept hanging various oxytocin, antibiotics and other potions ~ ~ I vomited three times because of the unbearable pain. In order to let me rest, the doctor injected valium, but the pain was still not relieved, and I didn't fall asleep for a second.

Amid the roar and groans, at 3: 00 a.m. on the 5th, the nurse said that at 2: 30 a.m., it was ready for delivery. In the delivery room, I was in pain and despair, holding the midwife (nurse) in the dark and begging weakly: Can you cut me open? I was sweating with pain. I could hardly breathe. I vomited three times and didn't eat. I am very tired. Can you ask the doctor to operate on me?

The doctor in charge came again, checked the opening of the palace mouth, said it was only 1.5cm, and called me a mother with weak willpower. But maybe it was because I kept moaning and worried that I didn't have the strength. I suggested giving me a Demerol to relieve the pain and get some sleep.

However, Demerol still doesn't work for me. I am still heartbroken with pain. I silently counted the pain time, from more than 20 seconds to more than 50 seconds. ...

At about 5 ~ 6 o'clock, he said three fingers and was sent to the delivery room. Pain is painless, but it is still effective. The pain has been relieved a lot. I slept in a daze for a while, about 7 o'clock. It's time for painless action. Once again, I feel unforgettable pain. I am still helpless with only three fingers.

I called my wife and asked her to negotiate with the doctor and ask for a caesarean section in the morning. Lover's feedback: The doctor disagreed, but still suggested a natural delivery.

I unplugged all kinds of tubes, hoping to communicate with the doctor face to face, but because there is a lot of amniotic fluid flowing out of the waiting room and delivery room, I can only walk on my back, which will be dangerous. In the meantime, I also expressed my doubts. The doctor told me that sheep will regenerate when it comes out. It doesn't matter. We have been monitoring the situation. I tried to communicate with the doctor upstairs, but it was stopped because the amniotic fluid poured out like tap water. ...

At 8 o'clock in the morning, the attending doctor came down and told me that you didn't meet the criteria for laparotomy ... again! Pointer! Pointer!

I was injected with painless anesthetic again. I took the doctor's advice and hired a guide. I've been in pain. In the afternoon, I was still desperate and proposed caesarean section again. The doctor still said it didn't meet the guidelines. At about 2 o'clock, the amniotic fluid flowed more and more, and the mattress under me was almost soaked. The doctor took a temperature of 37.6℃, which exceeded the critical value, and suspected that there was an infection in the uterine cavity. The doctor came down again and said that you can have a caesarean section ~ ~

Finally, he was pushed into the operating room and had a caesarean section. The child weighs 3930 grams, a difference of 70 grams, reaching 4 kilograms. However, due to my elevated body temperature, the child was immediately sent to the neonatal intensive care unit for monitoring and observation.

The Yulin incident in Shaanxi Province, without personal experience, may be considered as a cliche plot of love rat and her evil mother-in-law after reading the evidence materials in the hospital.

However, after 36 hours of extremely painful negotiations and several communications with the hospital, I used my limited knowledge to show that "my pelvis is narrow, and several doctors in prenatal examination also said that I was difficult to give birth." I respect and trust doctors, listen to professional advice, and try my best to be smooth. The doctors in the hospital also agree that 12 hours will not be smooth. But after 24 hours, 30 hours, during which I negotiated with the hospital several times and asked for it several times (my family and I took turns to communicate with the doctor and begged for caesarean section), and the doctor in charge of the ward always responded that you did not meet the "guidelines!" , "you can't cut! ".I feel that the attitude that the hospital does not support should also be one of the main reasons that push the parturient to a dead end ~ ~

It is said that Yulin's parturient has been exposed again recently, and the autopsy has reached 6 times ... From my limited experience, I feel the same way, and the cold doctors and guidance make people desperate ~

Let's look at the so-called pointer first: there are many versions on the Internet, including relative pointers and absolute pointers ~

In fact, compared with the above standards, my pelvis is narrow, with an outlet of 8cm, which is 2cm narrower than the normal 10cm. The fetus is huge and weighs about 8 kilograms. I am an elderly primipara, just over 35 years old, in the labor process of overdue pregnancy (4 1 week pregnancy). The head basin is not weighed, and the head keeps floating. The amniotic fluid broke for 30 hours, but he still sat on the ball while washing the amniotic fluid according to the doctor's request, hoping that the fetal head would come down; And delayed delivery ...

Generally speaking, this is completely in line with the relevant guiding principles ... But the hospital, especially some doctors, firmly refused to perform caesarean section for me under the pretext of the guidelines, which made me feel very incomprehensible and chilling ... Until I was discharged from the hospital, some doctors in the hospital still stated: You did not meet the guidelines, and we barely found an excuse and excuse for caesarean section for you. ...

I was discharged from the hospital at home today (fortunately, the baby is fine and discharged with me). The whole pain, anxiety and pain are doubled, and the cost is doubled, which is more than three times that of ordinary caesarean section and more than five times that of ordinary delivery. ...

Frankly speaking, on the one hand, this experience feels that the rigid guidelines for caesarean section in this hospital are above all else (perhaps enforced by individual doctors), and even abnormal to the point where the mother or baby is close to the dangerous border before surgery; On the other hand, some obstetricians are immune to the suffering of pregnant women, almost indifferent and mechanical, and the so-called benevolence almost does not exist. Third, the experience and professionalism of some doctors in the hospital are deeply questioned. Everything is measured by instruments. According to the data evaluation, the evaluation error is not as big as Baidu. Com's baby weight calculator, prenatal examination and several B-ultrasound three-dimensional, the doctor estimated that the weight was 6.5 kg to 7 kg, and my own Baidu weight also reached 7.6 kg; Finally, I also want to say that doctors should be kind-hearted, save lives, prevent problems before they happen, and minimize injuries and pains at relatively reasonable prices, instead of taking cold pointers as a guide ... We should not take patients' pains for granted and respond numbly. ...

I hope our medical care will be more and more humanized! The so-called caesarean section pointer should also be used more flexibly! Some of our medical staff can understand the pain and situation of patients and really play a noble role in saving lives, instead of rigidly implementing the guidelines and treating patients and help-seekers as assembly line products. ...