I had a quarrel with grandma. I wash dishes with detergent. There is too much detergent. The sink is full of detergent. My grandmother said I lost my home and washed so much.

After that, nothing happened. Don't think too much. It's all trivial matters. In a family, it is inevitable that there will be some minor contradictions among family members. In fact, when you think about it later, it's all small things, all for the good of your family, so sometimes you have to stand in the other person's position to think about the problem.

For example, your grandmother, in their time, especially when she was young, was estimated to be very frugal and had a good moral character of diligence and housekeeping. She saw that you had too much detergent, so she said you. In her eyes, she felt that she was not frugal and was defeated. Of course, it's a bit of an exaggeration for her to say that you lost your family, but she is an elder, so don't think too much.

Actually, you could have explained it to her, just say you didn't pay attention. Of course, you slammed the door and said that your grandmother's house was gone. This is also wrong. After all, she is an elder. However, your grandmother won't be angry with you. She may feel that she shouldn't say that about you. Usually, your grandmother must be very concerned about you. (The answer is for reference only)