I will ask for help in the future. What should I give you when we first meet?

People nowadays are very realistic. The first time you go to her house, she will soon see through the purpose of your visit.

I tell you, it's really important to give gifts, which can ease the strangeness between you and her. For a woman in her forties, I think you should give her some gifts that can make her look younger, but not too expensive, otherwise she will think you are tacky. I don't know how old you are, whether you are a man or a woman. The woman will have more topics with her, the opening will be easier and the conversation will be quick. Don't be afraid if it's a man. Didn't we meet for the first time? I don't have a crush on her. Go on a blind date (*^__^*)? Hee hee.

You go to her house and say hello when you see her. If her husband is here, say hello. If well educated, women in their forties are generally' strong women'. Let's start at her house, so we can use the pillow wind. It depends on whether your gift meets people's tastes. Her husband, you can try to send some tea, saying that drinking tea often can cultivate one's self-cultivation and so on.

Anyway, you should have the mentality that I am not interested in your relationship. Otherwise, you will find it difficult to look up in front of them. And we can not work, but we have to be dignified!

In my heart, if she is well informed, she will definitely give you a hand for your grandfather's sake, otherwise such a person is extremely hateful.

Finally, I wish you a happy New Year. ...

Forget me!