What is the cat abandonment effect? How can a man be single-minded to you?

Let men be single-minded to you, don't have to contact every day, and learn to abandon the cat effect.

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I'll cherish it more when I get it back.

Abandoned cats will be especially smart when they come back.

Because it has experienced the cold and hardships outside the home in the days when it was abandoned, it is afraid of being abandoned again, so it will manage your feelings carefully.

This is the psychological "cat abandonment effect".

In fact, the same is true of love.

And Zhong is only thirty years old. When they got married, they ignored Zhong's love.

Everyday life is bossing her around and pushing everything on her.

But after Zhong and his divorce,

Gradually understand the position of the clock in her heart, and then pursue her back with her own sincerity.

Things that are too easy to get are often difficult to leave a deep impression in your heart.

On the contrary, it is those who strive for what they finally have, or what they lose and get back, that make people cherish it more.

As the lyrics say, "If you can't get it, you will love it more. If you come too easily, you will ignore it.".

Sometimes I hope that men are single-minded to you, constantly pay for themselves and contact each other every day;

It is better to learn to use the "cat abandonment effect" and properly separate it, which may get unexpected results.

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At arm's length, the most exciting.

In fact, when running a love affair, try not to show your cards too quickly.

Simply put:

When you fall in love with a man, you can't wait to buy him food, medicine, care for him and love him, but many times such unilateral efforts are hard to get good feedback.

Lin Pinru in The Temptation to Go Home is not the best example.

As a housewife, she gave up her career and devoted herself to her husband, but in the end he fell in love with someone else.

Good love goes both ways, not one's progress.

So the best way to catch a man's heart is to make him notice you and participate in this relationship with you.

Han Kefei in We Can't Be Friends is the best example of using the "cat abandonment effect".

When Han Kefei didn't like Yan Bai Yang, he always pursued him.

But deliberately keep a distance from Yan Bai Yang, deliberately alienate him, and then send him some gifts from time to time to express his affection.

Just like when Yan Bai Yang is ill, Han Kefei will take the initiative to take care of him.

But Yan Boyang usually wants to meet Han Kefei, and she always finds various reasons to refuse.

So far and near, at arm's length, let Yan Bai Yang deeply fascinated by Han Kefei.

Yan Boyang began to pay attention to Han Kefei and would try his best to make her happy and ask her to meet.

Buy Han Kefei's favorite movies, eat her favorite dishes, and buy a lot of snacks from time to time to make her happy.

In this way, the two got closer and closer, and Han Kefei saw Yan Baiyang's true feelings and gradually agreed to his pursuit.

Many people will blur a point of view in love and mistakenly think that they will pay wholeheartedly, and love will gradually move towards themselves.

But in fact, love is the same thing for two people, and it takes two people's * * * to last for a long time.

When you feel that you have given too much, you can take advantage of the "cat abandonment effect".

Like Han Kefei, keep a proper distance and let the people you love care about themselves.

It takes time to get used to giving, and the "cat abandonment effect" is to tell you:

Create your own opportunities, let him feel your goodness, understand your goodness, and understand your goodness, so as to cherish your goodness.

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Love is not a game, it needs to be managed with heart.

Anita Yuen once told the story of her and her husband, Csillam, in The Romantic Journey of the Wife.

Anita Yuen said that he was very headstrong when he was young. Whenever two people quarrel, Anita Yuen will break up.

Then, Csillam will come to apologize.

I remember once, Anita Yuen broke up because of some trivial matters.

Csillam didn't speak, silently packed Anita Yuen's luggage, sent her to the airport, and then said, "It's not what you said. Let's go and break up."

Anita Yuen began to panic, hurriedly apologized that he was wrong, and it would never happen again, which saved his love with Csillam.

In fact, men and women feel the same about love.

Just like everything goes to extremes, love needs to master a "degree" and know enough is enough.

If you frequently use the "cat abandonment effect" in love;

If you say "break up" easily, he may think that you don't care much about this relationship.

In this case, even if the other person has deep feelings, it is likely that these words will dilute his love for you.

You know, love is not a game you chase after me.

Although maintaining a relationship requires mastering many ways and means, it is difficult to get the other person's heart by blindly paying;

But the basis of love is "sincerity", and love based on sincerity can last long.

The "cat abandonment effect" is just a way to maintain love. What really captures a man's heart is his most sincere love.