On the subway, six or seven-year-old children are still sitting in strollers. what do you think?

Six or seven-year-old children are still in the stroller, and parents are obsessed with saving trouble. It is not a good thing to cultivate their children's habits.

Tell me an example around you!

Two little girls, one is brought by grandma and the other is brought by grandma. As long as the children go out, I have never seen these two children walk.

Once I chatted with my grandmother, I told her that the child was so old that she had been holding a stroller. Grandma's answer is: the child doesn't walk a step, and I can't hold it when I am old, so I let him take the bus every time I go out. The purpose of the diagram is to save trouble.

Tell me about my girl. I took care of her alone when I was a child. Of course, it's convenient to come and go. After we were over 2 years old, we seldom used a cart, because it was inconvenient for me to take her and push another car alone. I'll leave when I can. To this day, my daughter is four and a half years old, and she walks everywhere by herself. On one occasion, she walked nearly ten miles with her father.

Children never ask for hugs when they go out. Every time they really can't walk, they just stand there and shout tired. At this time, dad will hug for a while.

If you drive out, your children will become more and more lazy.

We say that children's character is actually cultivated by adults. At the age when she likes to walk, we let the children take the bus directly to save trouble. At the age of walking, children will become more and more lazy and dislike walking.

Because it's easier to take a bus than to walk! Children aged six or seven have a clear sense of self. If parents watch carefully, children will not only dislike walking, but also be lazy in life.

Parents blindly consider their children, and children may be more selfish.

A child of six or seven years old must weigh forty or fifty Jin. Even sitting in the car pushing a child is not an easy task. If a child is used to enjoying the habit of reaching for food with his mouth open and going out by car, such a child will not consider his parents.

If one day you tell your child that mom is tired. If you can't push it, maybe the child will cry and think it is the parents' fault.

First of all, don't let such behavior become the norm. Children aged six or seven should go to the first grade, and we should cultivate their independence. Therefore, parents should learn to let go of what they can, travel far and by car occasionally. Not surprisingly, I am afraid to get into the habit of taking the bus as soon as I go out.

Secondly, don't let children feel that everything is right. Before the next child gets on the bus, can you say: parents are tired after a day's walk, but considering that the child is young and growing, you can push the child for a while, but you should talk about time or distance, because parents also need to rest.

The purpose of this is to let children learn to be grateful, rather than taking parents' efforts for granted.

Finally, just like weaning, I feel that after going to kindergarten, I should deliberately reduce the behavior of taking a stroller. Sometimes it's not that children are lazy, but that adults are too lazy to educate their children, because education has no immediate effect, so they always think about how to make it easy!

It doesn't feel right, but there is nothing we can do. Our family is in a similar situation now. The eldest daughter is five years old and the youngest daughter is one year old. The youngest daughter has not yet been born, and the three or four-year-old eldest daughter is tired when she goes out, so let her father hug her. Sometimes I hug her if her father is not around. Later, when the youngest daughter was born, she would take a stroller when she went out, and the eldest daughter would take a stroller when she was tired. In this case, we will choose the young and let the old sit in it. Because it's easier to take the small one than the big one. In fact, she also knows that it is not good to take a stroller at this age, but she will not care so much if she is too tired. We adults get tired when we walk too much, but adults can't be willful like children. Sometimes I laugh that she is a baby, and sometimes she wants to sit. When she is too old to push the stroller, she doesn't have to sit if she wants to. So when I see a six-or seven-year-old child still sitting in a stroller on the road, I will snicker in my heart and think, this is also a lazy child who doesn't like to move, not to the point where he feels incredible. After all, it's someone else's children, and how people want to take care of them is their own business, and each child's situation is different, and we don't understand it, so don't make a fuss.

When I was over two years old, I took it to Hong Kong for vaccination. My mother-in-law and father said they could go by themselves, and there were two adults who didn't need to bring carts. I failed to stick to my principles, so I carried it all the way from home to Hong Kong, and then from Hong Kong to home. Except for the hug of the baby's sleeping father, everything else was just me! ! ! Are you out of your mind? Hold the umbrella for a while, and your hands will get sore. Think about it. You have to hold a child weighing more than 20 kilograms with your bare hands, and you may be emotional for hours! ! No one will stop me from now on! At the age of four, she traveled abroad to catch a plane. Good thing she brought a stroller. She sat quietly in her car and let me push all the way to the airport. I stopped boarding as soon as I got on the plane. If I didn't bring my car, I don't know where I cried. Therefore, before going to primary school, a light and easy-to-push car is a must for me to take my baby out. I don't mind other people's eyes ~ ~ I can see the German walker on weekends, and the boss is still pushing the stroller.

Twice, the child was tired and fell asleep. I was born with my baby in my arms and transferred to the subway. The tired baby is very heavy and has many transfer steps. When I got on the subway, people gave me their seats. The baby is a little older, and I'm afraid that the baby's shoes will touch others, so I don't care. I really wanted to cry at that time. Therefore, after those two experiences, I will never take my baby to play far away by subway again.

What if I bring a stroller? The doll can sleep peacefully, but it is uncomfortable to sleep anyway, but it is the doll herself who is uncomfortable. Holding it is also uncomfortable, but having a stroller will reduce a lot of trouble. I'm not afraid of my shoes touching people. You can take the straight ladder when pushing the stroller, and it doesn't matter if you turn farther. Don't bother to give up your seat on the subway. The doll has a stroller, and adults just stand for one stop.

So I strongly hope that the load-bearing design of the stroller is bigger.

The mother of three children tells you how normal it is. The second son is three and a half years old, and we push him when we go out. As for why not let him go, we have to force him. The reasons are as follows: 1. You've only been out for a few minutes, so you have to hug him. If you don't hug him, you think he's so old. If you want to hug him, you won't give him a hug. Let's hug him. Almost 30 Jin. 2. If you go out to play, sometimes it takes a long time to visit a scenic spot, and children will be really tired if they keep walking. We adults are tired from walking too much, let alone children. When we are tired, we have to hug. Then you will know how convenient it is to bring a cart. Children walk too slowly when they go out. They can't walk when they see beautiful and interesting things. No matter how hard you coax them, they will be different. Even if you push them, you can spend a lot less money. I personally understand my point of view, don't spray if you don't like it.

Six or seven-year-old children are still in the cart, which feels strange, but when you think about it, there is nothing wrong with it. We can often see parents walking down the street with big dolls in their arms. Although the child is six or seven years old, he can really fall asleep regardless of the occasion and time when he is tired. This adult will be tired into a dog.

I remember when my daughter was five or six years old, I once took her to the hospital to see a doctor. On the way back, I slept all the way on the subway. After I got off the subway, I couldn't hold on any longer. I found a stool at the station to let her lie down, facing the strange eyes of people coming and going, and some enthusiastic people came to help. I have to keep explaining that "nothing just fell asleep ... I gave birth to it, and it looks like me".