Sixteen years later, the inside story of Family with Children was exposed: Sure enough, we were cheated. What do you think?

Before, "Family with Children" once again reached the hot search list, which caused netizens to reminisce together. "Your childhood, my childhood, seems to be the same. Small shoulders and big schoolbags, go to school ... "When this song came from my ear, it seemed to flash across the noisy interface of" Family with Children ". Liu Xing, who is naughty and disobedient, Xia Yu, who is smart, Xia Xue, who is smart and studies well, Liu Mei, who is manic and rambling, and Xia Donghai, who is tolerant and gentle, seem to be fresh in my memory.

Some people ask, why is Home with Children so popular? This is because the family style and communication method it conveys are too enviable, because people who read it can find out from his father Xia Donghai's words and deeds that he is waiting for, caring for and paying attention to his three children. As netizens said, education is an eternal topic discussion, and there is no correct answer, but perhaps Xia Donghai's method can give parents an answer.

Parents are children's best teachers. A netizen saw such an intimate scene in Changsha subway station: while waiting for the subway station, a baby asked what the footprints on his feet were for, and his parents also had grandmothers, especially patiently telling them that there was a long queue, and they lined up neatly for the baby to see.

At a street corner in Shijiazhuang, a woman led a little girl across the road, and when she saw a car approaching, they stopped involuntarily to return it. However, the car stopped at the crosswalk, and the mother and daughter passed the main road. The girl still thanked the car for giving way under the reminder of her mother, and waved to the driver, which made people feel warm.

Thousands of parents expect to send their children to the best colleges, accept a good education and try their best to create a good educational natural environment for their children, but they usually ignore that parents are the best teachers for their children. For children, a good education is the example of parents. In "Family with Children", in one episode, the film producer deliberately contacted the TV station for an interview in order to make a lot of money in making TV series better.

When helping Xia Donghai prepare the difficult problem in advance, he exaggerated his experience as a film director in the United States, pretending that he had turned down an invitation from Hollywood before. At that time, many children were around, and now his practice is very important. Is it to earn such unconscionable money, or to be a model for children? Without hesitation, he chose the latter one and steadfastly refused the interview with the TV station.

Home is the school where children begin to develop, and parents are the best teachers for children. Although you can't say which parents you have, you will definitely teach which children. However, there is no doubt that parents' life values, values and outlook on life are harmful to their children's future development or greater, which will harm their children's future progress. Children are like sponges, the good and the bad are digested and absorbed.

adults smoke, but children follow suit; Adults throw rubbish everywhere, and children follow suit; Adults swear on the road, and children follow suit; Adults destroy public property, and children follow suit; Husband's domestic violence, couple's dispute, children's learning, etc. Leading by example is better than teaching by example. Everyone teaches children to be "good and smart", so you should be an adult and check your personal behavior first. Don't keep saying one thing and doing another. Because of your every move, your children are learning.

It is really important to pay attention to children. Xia Donghai has always given trust and attention to every child. Xia Xue is a girl who has been in an ordinary high school. While helping Xiaoxue tidy up the room, Liu Mei accidentally turned to photos and birthday cards from Xiaoxue's chest of drawers, mistaking Xiaoxue's students for being in love. Xia Donghai immediately dissuaded this individual from his behavior after learning about it: "Every child has his own little secret.

sometimes, she doesn't want to be known. If a child is not respected, how can she respect others? " Indeed, the child is also a separate individual with his own personality traits; Everyone should pay attention to their thoughts, intentions and choices, instead of imposing everyone's thoughts on their children. Otherwise, it will not only stimulate their self-esteem, but also continue to make them suffer obvious rejection.

There is another episode of "Family with Children", which is about Xia Donghai catching an article at home, and he is very anxious. Just then, Liu Xing and Xiao Yu were a little unhappy when they robbed the bathroom. Xiao Yu spilled urine on Liu Xing's sheets angrily, which caused trouble to his father Xia Donghai. Xia Donghai, who was already worried about her work, spilled all her anger on Xiaoyu and sent Xiaoyu to wash clothes.

It's quite possible that in ordinary families, the matter will come to an end, but Xia Donghai also has the second half of the upgraded version. After Xia Donghai finished his busy work, he felt that there was something wrong with Liu Xing Xiaoyu's solution, so he made a decision to apologize to the children. Put on the sheets washed by light rain, put a wreath of flowers on your head, show your anger with your heart, don't shirk your responsibility, and sincerely apologize to the children.

parenting education means nurturing yourself first. Cultural education of children is actually the process of parents' own growth. It is not much easier to say "sorry" than to love children and devote all their lives to them. In fact, it is not a TV series, and there is no "family reunion" with the director's wonderful pen. In many cases, everyone must learn how to be a parent, and the road of culture and education is long, so we must gradually explore and study scientifically. No parents are perfect, the same, no children is appropriate.

the most important thing for honest parents is to learn to respect their children. Parents' attention, giving children self-esteem and self-confidence; Parents cherish, so that children know how to cherish themselves. Clear rewards and punishments, fair, not one-sided, not shielding. The most important thing is to accept every child from the heart: crouch down and listen to the children, and you will see an innocent and flawless world. What do you think? Welcome to leave a comment and tell me your unique opinion.