What do you think of a man who comes home from work without gambling, smoking, cooking and washing clothes?

I think everyone thinks that such a good man is a national treasure, but I have different views.

My boyfriend and I are going to get married and break up in three months. Is he the kind of person everyone thinks? Good people? I don't smoke or drink. I go home to cook after work, take care of me, be gentle and considerate, and be thrifty. I thought I would live a happy life from now on, and then it wasn't what I expected. Such men certainly seem to have many advantages, but let me talk about their shortcomings.

First, the pattern is very small. I always think that men should go out and see the world more and deal with all kinds of people more, so as to become a knowledgeable and open-minded person. And this kind of man who comes home from work and cooks around his wife has a really narrow vision and mind. He can't tolerate things beyond his understanding, so he loves to get into a dead end and haggle over every ounce, so it's really tiring to get along with such people. After we broke up, he took advantage of my absence and went to my house without even saying hello, and took all the gifts he bought me for various festivals. He is also a great person, and I have nothing to say about it.

Second, there is no ambition. His life is mainly plain and comfortable, so he is easy to satisfy and doesn't want to work hard. Some people think this is acceptable, but the economic foundation determines the superstructure, and he can do it when he is in love. But once he is married and lives, other people's husbands are working hard outside, life is getting better and better, and his life is always standing still, so quarreling is inevitable.

Third, there is no responsibility. Every time two people have problems, he will reflexively put the blame on you instead of taking responsibility, so the woman with him is very tired. Every time he quarrels, he will argue, as if whoever wins the quarrel will have food, but he doesn't know that he won the quarrel and lost this person.

I'm glad we broke up. If we get married, I don't think my future life will be easy, so I also advise you, either those who look good on the surface are good men, some men smoke and drink, some may get tattoos and fight, but they are responsible and responsible men when things happen. Of course, these personal habits are important, but I think the most important thing is to look at personality. The above is just my personal opinion. Please forgive me if you have different opinions.