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1. When one thing can only give you short-term pleasure, it is recommended to do less.

For example, stay up late to brush your mobile phone, chat late at night, and sleep late. Do more things that have no obvious short-term effect, but have great benefits in the long term, such as reading, fitness and loving someone seriously.

2. The more painful you are, the more places you want to avoid, and the more you can grow.

3. Time is not wealth, and efficient use of time can increase the happiness index of life.

Spend time brushing Tik Tok, playing games and even buying things you don't need. Instead, this time has become your debt.

You should learn to think about the use and management of time. If yesterday's time were reused by you, what would you do with it?

Deep reflection on specific issues is of great significance to the progress of adults.

Always remember that good health is the most basic.

There are 1000 ways to succeed, none of which needs to be at the expense of one's health. Don't take staying up late and working overtime as an honor, it's an excuse for yourself who is incompetent during the day.

Real self-discipline needs no deliberate efforts to maintain.

If you always have to force yourself to work hard, stop and think about what's wrong. When you play mobile phone, you are willing, because you know you enjoy it;

And when you force yourself to study or work, you are reluctant because you feel bitter. If you want to know what you really want, then talk about self-discipline. When it is not the alarm clock that wakes you up every day, but the dream, you begin to understand.

6. People who are not self-disciplined, don't regard games, Tik Tok and various entertainment activities as your enemies. Your enemy will always be yourself and the brain that controls your emotions. Treating yourself as the enemy of life and death is the first step to grow up.

7. Don't love you ≠ Never love you.

Love is a dynamic feeling, not a fixed pattern. If you like someone, you must pursue it bravely, and don't be afraid of being rejected. Missing is worse than making mistakes.

8. We should consciously and constantly optimize ourselves.

Apple 5, which can still be forced out, has been eliminated because the hardware has lost the opportunity to optimize.

People are the same, once they stop, they will be crushed by the wheels of the times. Read a new book every week, attend training once a month, and go abroad to have a look every year.

If you don't understand, you can go to Baidu. When you encounter difficulties, you must overcome them. You should have the determination of "the mountain blocks me, the water comes to build a ship" and be a person who constantly updates the system, so that you can sit on the great ship of the times and clink glasses or quarrel with excellent people.

9. University is only the starting line of life, and stepping into society is the real beginning.

Society is divided into three classes, which are cruel and even desperate, but the reality is fair.

Effort and time are your chips. Run slowly. In a few years, you will find that no one will go back as long as you are running.

Because most people like to complain and give up on themselves, either sit down and rest or go back. Many times, you don't have many opponents.

10, learn investment and financial management and compulsory savings. The former can help you, Qian Shengqian, while the latter can save your life at a critical moment.

1 1. The quickest way to learn is to find excellent people in the industry to take you.

How to let him take you?

The most effective way is to prove his value or pay for his time.

12, you just need to read the book well before entering the society. At this time, you mainly rely on IQ.

After graduation, you need to deal with many worldly things and have relationships with many people. At this time, you should focus on improving your emotional intelligence.

13, don't be afraid.

If you are afraid to learn to drive, you will miss the happiness of road trip. If you are afraid of socializing, you will miss like-minded friends. Afraid of the difficulties at work, you missed the opportunity of promotion and salary increase. In life, if you are afraid, you will get nothing.

14, after entering the workplace, there are two kinds of jobs that you need to take the initiative to fight for, one is a difficult job, and the other is a job that can share worries for leaders.

The more people who dare to take responsibility and share their worries for their leaders, the more they can get promoted.

15, a person who never takes the initiative to contact you can only say that you are not important to him.

Don't think "he is shy" or "he is just busy recently."

Not being taken seriously is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you dare not admit that a person who likes you, no matter how busy, will take the time to call you. He can't control how he feels about you.

So, when a person doesn't take the initiative to contact you, but you really like him, try your best to find a way to show your value, either make him fall in love with you or give up leaving him.

Only you can't hesitate and delay, because it will only cause long-term pain to both sides.

16, exercise, go to bed early and get up early, eat regularly and read more books. If you really don't understand what you want, you can never be wrong.

Stick to it for a year, even if you still have no goal, you can still have a good body and a knowledgeable mind, which is enough to make you surpass 80% of your peers.

17, don't completely expose yourself to colleagues.

Don't treat colleagues as confidants, it is difficult to have friendship independent of interests in the workplace. Today you are friends, tomorrow you may become enemies.

18, entering the rising industry.

In rising industries, the upper limit is high and the lower limit is guaranteed.

In the downturn, the upper limit is low and the lower limit is even lower.

19, honesty, loyalty, kindness, these qualities will never go out of date, the longer the time, the greater the strength. Thousands of years later, few people would believe in worshipping Liu Bei and Song Jiang, but he Kong saw their holy places in many places.

20. Those who are rarely applauded but are willing to applaud (like) others are often very kind and will receive good returns in real life.

2 1. Understand and master the methods of time management and energy management, which are two completely different concepts.

But there is one thing in common, that is, they can all benefit you for life.

22. Be prepared to face great difficulties in advance and try to put yourself in the environment of extreme survival.

If you think too much, you can ask less in the future.

Of course, we should also be prepared to acquire great wealth in advance. It is unlikely, but it is worth looking forward to. Believe in yourself.

23, stay up late less, not just talking.

24. "Pseudointelligence" is the most terrible.

I'm always afraid of wasting my energy, afraid to devote myself wholeheartedly, and I've decided to retreat or give up before I start. Judging from the high probability cases, such people are basically unsuccessful.

When the time is extended to 65,438+00 years, the output efficiency is far more than doubled, which is 65,438+00 times or even 65,438+000 times.

25. Stick to these four things and you will surpass 90% of your peers:

1), in a field that I have loved for more than 5 years.

2) Filter out unnecessary circle of friends, quit the watery community, and stop ineffective social interaction.

3) Go to bed early and get up early, exercise and keep reading.

4), childlike heart, meditation, hard work, reticence.

26. Don't force a defective friend to go with you, but find new friends with the same interests on the journey.

27. Arrogant and conceited people will be shot sooner or later, and modest and low-key people can always make a fortune by silence.

The WeChat business, which basks in luxury cars in the circle of friends, is basically rented, and some even take pictures on the roadside.

And many rich people will walk on the roadside in slippers and ride electric cars.

28. Regular physical examination. If economic conditions permit, doing something comprehensive and bringing your partner and parents can greatly reduce your life risk.

29. Enter a high-quality social circle. Make more friends with excellent people, learn from them, ask them for advice, look up to them, and finally try to surpass them.

30, a lot of reading, continuous reading, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, literary novels, you can read more.

It's not that you can send some literary and melodramatic sentences in your circle of friends, but when you read extensively to a certain extent, your speech and temperament will naturally make people feel comfortable.

You only know that gossiping, watching romance and playing games in idolization will corrupt you and make you vulgar. When chatting with people, I don't know what to say, I just nod and giggle.

3 1, the most cost-effective investment is to spend money on your own growth.

Don't save the cost of buying high-quality books, handing in courses that suit you and taking various certificates.

32. In most cases, silence is not virtue, but cowardice. It is a virtue to dare to show yourself.

People who are good at showing their personality charm can often lead the team forward together. People who are always silent and dull will either make people feel cold or be considered worthless.

33. Find a hobby and stick to it.

Reading, writing, painting and photography can give you endless strength and accompany you through a long and boring life.

34. Normal mind, patience and self-confidence are the core to determine the height and thickness of your life achievements.

35. "Who to fall in love with" and "Who to marry" are two completely different propositions.

The former is devoted to feelings, and the latter is devoted to your life. This is an extremely important question, which needs you to spend several years thinking.

Tragic marriages often occur because both parties get a marriage certificate before thinking about it. The sooner you think about this problem, the better. This is not utilitarian, but responsible for the lives of both sides.

Don't choose to make do or ignore the problem. The big crash is basically doomed from the moment you ignore the small problems.

36. The more you love someone, the easier it is to be tortured by that person.

Putting yourself first and having the ability to love yourself is the premise of loving others.

37. Quit smoking and drinking.

Men and women are all the same. If you can do this, there is basically nothing that can stump you in the future.

38. Learn to look at problems dynamically and dare to embrace change.

Before 2008, the owners of physical stores were crushed by the internet in less than 10 years. Renren. com was very popular in those days, but now few people don't know it.

Pay attention to the news, preferably give good news and good news. For example, if you buy a house and inform your friends, they may be stimulated to feel uncomfortable, but once again, they will feel better because they owe millions of loans.

39. Failure is not the mother of success. Only by reflecting on failure can we increase the probability of success.

You should reflect on the thinking process when making a decision at that time. Which link went wrong and eventually led to failure?

What would you do if you started over now? These reflections on failure will make you grow up quickly and stop being naive.

40. Friends circle is not used to vent negative energy. No one has an obligation to bear your pain. Only by understanding this can you make real friends.

4 1, the reserve of good reasons is actually similar to that of everyone, and the core is execution.

Sensitivity to high-quality content and super execution are the key to widening the gap between people.

42. Let outstanding people recognize your three core qualities:

1) extraordinary strength

2) Appropriate modesty

3) be positive

43, reading is important, and exams are more important.

Reading is a hard-working process, and exams are to verify your grades. The real strong will not be afraid of exams, only those who study and fish in troubled waters will be worried.

44. People respect the strong and the hardworking ordinary people.

The first runner of the marathon will get flowers and gold medals, and those who persist in running to the finish line with a foot injury will also get warm applause and cheers from everyone.

Everyone only disrespects those who are obviously capable and generally like to talk big. Ignorance and incompetence are not terrible. What is terrible is that ignorance is regarded as personality and incompetence as the capital of sympathy.

45. The price of every relaxation is that someone carries the burden for you, and this person must love you.

So I have always stressed that hard work, struggle, study and making money are not just slogans, but the best means to protect people around me.

46. Most people who are truly principled can hardly succeed.

Because I have something I insist on, I am not good at flattery, I can't say beautiful words, and I can't give up my dignity for profit.

Seeing something wrong, they would rather offend people than bow their heads and be silent or go with the flow, so they are often doing the right thing, but they are attacked because they harm the interests of the bad guys.

But once such people are in power, their achievements are often much higher than those of ordinary people, because they are persistent enough and attentive enough to what they value and who they value.

47. One of my most profound life experiences over the years:

Anything, as long as you have done it, you are not so afraid.

If you don't do it, you will be afraid all your life.

Learn to do what you are afraid of, and you will find nothing more.