Is it necessary for a poor person to spend all his money to buy a house in a rich area and cultivate contacts for his children?

In fact, it is completely unnecessary, because the poor will never integrate into the circle of the rich. "Choice is greater than effort, platform is greater than choice, and connections are the pulse of money." This is a very classic sentence in many enterprise management training at present, and there is another sentence: "Who you are is not important, what matters is who you are with." There are similarities and differences. Whether a person can grow up smoothly is closely related to his environment and the people he contacts.

The ancients have long understood this truth, so "those who are close to ink are black" is widely circulated. The starting point of all this is good. In order to instill the importance of socializing in children from an early age, we should push ourselves from the middle class to the rich class, and let ourselves and children get in touch with richer people and make friends with them. First of all, your ability to enter the rich areas is worthy of recognition. You can see many rich people and luxury cars. The initial stage was successful.

But have you ever thought that if you have this idea of jumping, others will do the same thing with you? There are many smart people in the world, many people are smarter than you, and many people follow suit. Therefore, you are likely to become a neighbor of a group of "pseudo-rich people". Many rich people have joined some high-end service clubs. You have spent all your money to buy a house. Do you have any extra money to buy a membership card?

Although it is said that the friendship between children is pure and childhood can be the best feeling in the world, can your children become friends with those rich children? This is very difficult. Really, many friends in social circles are based on a fixed circle of friends, and so are children. This is very realistic. There are too many social uncertainties. It is impossible to integrate into that social class just by owning a house in a rich area, not to mention that poverty limits our imagination.