Remember when little lemon came.

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20 17,101on the afternoon of October 6, there you are, my little baby.

20 17 10 3 went for a check-up, but there was no sign of starting yet, but he was asked to be hospitalized. Because I have gestational diabetes, I swear, I will never suffocate that cup of sweet and greasy glucose water when I test my blood sugar in my second child. (It makes me sick to think about it now)

It broke my heart to be asked to be hospitalized without warning. Helpless.

Tell me why we choose to listen to the doctor and go to the hospital:

1. The fetal heart rate has been around 170~2 10 since 9: 00 every night a few days ago. I'm worried about the baby.

2. Although I know the test results of gestational diabetes caused by drinking too much sugar water during the test, it is indeed a little higher when it is tested occasionally, and the problem of gestational diabetes cannot be ruled out.

3, the doctor's instructions "If there is a problem with not being hospitalized, can you bear this responsibility?" "This kind of thing is only a matter of minutes, and you don't want to be pregnant for so long without results!" Yes, my child, I can't ruin her chance of birth because of my negligence and willfulness.

Go through the admission formalities and call your family.

Jingning's grandmother is afraid of old ideas and worried about me. She told me that it was very likely that the doctor would lead a group of interns to examine me in the middle of the night (to be honest, I was scared at that time), and tears fell when I called.

Jamlom was there, watching me cry and telling his mother not to talk, which made everyone very upset.

I ordered a takeaway at night. After eating, I have the habit of taking a bath when I sleep at night. I can't sleep without a bath. It happened that I really came to the hospital unprepared that day and didn't bring anything.

Think about it and sneak home to get something!

Yes! Yes, you can only sneak around!

Because I am in the hospital, there will be security guards and nurses checking posts regularly in the hospital, and no pregnant woman can escape their "Wuzhishan"

Later, Jamlom took me "out of prison" and under the pretext of walking, we sneaked through the garden corridor next to the inpatient department and came to the outpatient department next door.

At that moment, I envied the pregnant women sitting in the clinic, because they could leave if they wanted to. No one dares to stop it.

The car started and we came out through the hospital booth.

Xiao Xu said proudly, "We are out! I will take you away. "

Poof, two people laughed one after another.

On the way, I was nervous and scared, and kept saying what to do if I was caught. There is a brief sense of freedom in my heart, which is fleeting, because I have to come back after taking a shower.

Jamlom said, "Don't think too much when you come out. I will deal with some things. "

When the car was parked, I hurried home, and pedestrians were screaming on the road. My heart is full of miscellaneous grains. Everyone has something to do. They may be full and ready for a family walk, and I will spend the night in a strange place tonight.

When I got home and looked at this small place, I never wanted to sleep at home tonight as much as I do now.

Time doesn't allow me to brush off my clothes and take a bath when I'm sad.

After taking a shower, I grabbed a bag and packed my things. Clothes, facial cleanser, bags, hangers, towels ... stuffed in the bag, hair and whole body are still wet, so we are racing against time. Just about to go out, grandma Jingning came back from her aunt's house. Out of concern, he kept telling me to pay attention to this and that. I didn't listen to a word because I was at a loss. You just want to say yes.

Xiao Xu also came to pick me up and embarked on a journey back to the "prison". Just arrived in the inpatient department downstairs, the nurse station upstairs called and asked me where I was, and told me to go back to my room at once. I lied that I was downstairs in the garden. Come up right away.

Jamlom, stop the car. I'll go upstairs by myself. The female security guard in the corridor pointed at me and chatted with the nurse. "She must have run out." A female nurse said sternly, "There is nothing to go out next time. If you leave, you can leave the hospital. You are responsible for any problems, okay? "

I held back my giggle, "Mm-hmm, I see, it won't happen next time" and then slipped into the room.

Jamlom came up to me and said, "I just passed the corridor, and those people said,' This must be her husband'."

We both laughed, and they had already seen our cleverness.

In the evening, Jamlom and I stayed for a while. I think he is really tired. Although I really hope that he can stay here with me, I really have no choice. I can't let him do nothing. He won't sleep well. Let him go home.

He made an excuse that I was sleepy and wanted to sleep, so he left.

I covered myself with a quilt and suddenly I couldn't help crying. I am very lonely. The woman in the next bed gave birth for a week. I've used all the methods of giving birth, but I haven't given birth yet. I've been crying. I feel horrible.

But touching the baby in my belly, as long as she is still in my belly, I can't influence her because of emotions. Although no one is around now, I still have the most important person-my child by my side. She will fight with me.

Sleep lightly and the nurse wakes up regularly to check the fetal heart rate. It's finally dawn.

Before I woke up and waited for Jamlom to bring me breakfast, the nurse gave me a needle.

On the 4th, I stayed in the hospital all day. The doctor did a routine examination and asked us to give birth at night. He promised, Jamlom has been "annoying" the doctor, asking not to have a baby tonight. (The elder said that the date should be postponed to 16, 16 instead of 15. Later, it turns out that children can be born whenever they want. Even if you choose a good day, it's not her time. She just won't come out. )

Later, the doctor has been persuading us that the delivery is not necessarily so fast. After talking a lot, there is really no way to drag it into the delivery room and wait for the doctor to check it out. Drainage bag

I lay in a cold bed and measured my fetal heart rate. Everything is normal. I have been staring at the time on the ceiling, praying that the time will pass quickly.

Maybe prayer really helps. After waiting for more than an hour, the doctor hasn't come yet. The operating table is a little cold, and suddenly I have a stomachache and want to go to the toilet. Please ask the nurse to let me go to the toilet. That nurse is a little girl, very nice and easy to talk to. She was afraid that I would be bored alone and talked to her a lot. She is an angel. )

After going to the toilet, I lay down and continued to measure the fetal heart rate. At this time, the fetal heart rate is very fast, about 170 to 200 (lower than normal 160). It's been like this for a long time, and the doctor has been here for a long time, and the fetal heart rate has not slowed down. Up to now, I still don't understand why the fetal heart rate is particularly fast from Monday to 8: 00 pm. Baby, are you too nervous to come out? Then this is similar to my mother's. My heart beats faster when something happens.

Later, the doctor said that the fetal heart rate was too fast to give birth to a water bag. Go back to sleep and prepare for the next day's delivery.

On the way back, I was a little lucky and a little sorry, although I could have seen the baby earlier. Go back to your room and continue to do fetal heart monitoring.

Interestingly, my child's fetal heart rate is too fast, and the child in the next bed is too calm, and his mother keeps humming with oxytocin. As a result, the boy has been sleeping in his mother's stomach and can't get up. The nurse asked the lying-in woman in the next bed to listen to children's songs and wake up the little one in her stomach. I just listen to soothing music to soothe my fetal heart.

Two kinds of music in a room echo each other and smile at each other.

Jamlom and I "humble abode" in a bed, that night, although very crowded, but very practical.

Just before going to bed, the bed next door went into labor. After comforting my husband in the next bed, I heard the nurse's desk tell him to prepare something for the parturient and wait at the door. His wife is going to give birth!

In the middle of the night, the mother-in-law and the child went back to the room. Because we live in a double room, they have been going in and out loudly in the next room. It is a bit bitter that my mother-in-law and husband are loudly accused of not doing well. She said to her mother-in-law, "Keep your voice down and don't disturb others' rest." "Hey, hey, you don't in the past, I'll disturb others. "

The next morning, sweet Jamlom drove to buy me breakfast. After breakfast, she followed the doctor into the delivery room with her mobile phone to play oxytocin.

Passing through a short corridor, we are faced with a frightening "delivery room", where there are waves of wailing and bitter anger of doctors. Comfort yourself when you are a little scared. Don't shout. Doctors don't like it.

The distance between delivery room and waiting room is very close. One second, you can hear the mother crying and wailing, and the next, you can hear the child crying.

With the baby's voice, I am sincerely happy for their family, and a little life is coming. Although he is crying, everyone around him is laughing. Sigh the greatness of life. I also have infinite imagination and excitement about the baby in my belly. I'll meet you here.

After the nurse in the delivery room quickly went through all the formalities, I went in to find a good bed and adjusted my sleeping position. The nurse came to disinfect and give an intravenous drip.

Ten minutes ....

20 minutes ....

Half an hour ....

An hour ... it started to hurt. ..

That kind of pain, tight stomach and irregular time ...

At noon, the nurse asked everyone to ask their families to help buy rice and bring it in to the doorman. Jamlom bought a meal and ate it while it didn't hurt. You can feel the helplessness of migrant workers squatting on the side of the road by swallowing them alive and choking them inside.

After dinner, lie down and wait for the start ... I'm so sleepy that I can only sleep for a while. The nurse came to wake me up to measure my blood sugar and increase the amount of drops to make the pain worse. ..

In the meantime, my mother-in-law and my mother came to visit me, but Jamlom, who was so worried, was angry. After giving birth, everyone came to me to complain about Jamlom. I'm so nervous. I am embarrassed to apologize and accuse Jamlom of being rude. At the same time, I am glad that Jamlom cares about me. Of course, I don't really blame my elders for their "accusations", but also to tell me that he cares about me. Xiao is really lucky.

There is a pregnant woman crying next door, screaming that she is in pain and can't stand it. An elderly nurse came to deliver a baby to a pregnant woman and urged her to refuel and give birth naturally. Comfort her that she can give birth soon, and don't give birth easily. The mother still cried and shouted that she must plan her abdomen.

In desperation, the nurse asked her to call her family to explain the situation and repeatedly confirmed that the pregnant woman was moved out of the delivery room at 2 pm that day to prepare for surgery.

After the pregnant woman left, the old nurse was very angry and said helplessly, "If you can give birth naturally, you must plan your abdomen!" Don't plan your stomach easily. Do you think it's good to plan your stomach? You'll regret it when you finish planing. How can giving birth be painless? "Although it is a bit alarmist, it is biased. But there are more or less sequelae, but we can't understand without empathy. However, we should not be too harsh on pregnant women, because people's sensitive nerve perception is different, and some people are extremely painful with a little pain. If they are all said to be effeminacy, there may be many similar cases of "pregnant women jumping off buildings because their families have dystocia". Understand more and care more. Don't criticize others from your own point of view.

Continue to drip aimlessly and find that it hurts more and more. Grit your teeth when it hurts, but tears are squeezed out of the corner of your eyes, so you can't be found when you cry. I am eager to ask my baby. The baby in my belly may come out to see me at any time. Of course, I have to hold on and tell myself that there are still more difficult difficulties to break through. I surrender now, and no one can help me.

Finally, it lasted until 5 o'clock, and the nurse had the meaning of letting go. After registering everyone's situation, she announced to everyone: "Everyone's situation is quite good! Come on, let's see if we can start at night! " I was secretly happy, but the nurse went on to say, "The situation of bed No.3 (my bed number happens to be my favorite number, and it is also a fate) is not ideal. It is estimated that I will not be born tonight, so I will come and have a bladder at night." Suddenly it seems that I failed the exam and was asked to repeat the grade. I was scared, tears fell, and I suffered for a day, and the result was not over yet. Very sad.

Dry your tears, pack your things, and send a message to Jamlom with your mobile phone, telling him that I am out, just as my mother-in-law and my mother are still here. I was also moved by the way everyone felt distressed after I came out.

Then I decided that my mother-in-law would stay tonight.

Jamlom bought a good meal. After I finished eating, I took a bath and went into the delivery room drainage bag at 7 o'clock. Seriously, the water bag is really unbearable and special! It hurts! It feels like the whole person is about to be torn apart. Those two or three minutes felt as long as the whole century and very painful. If I had waited until the beginning, I might not have suffered such a crime.

After releasing the water sac, the fetal heart rate was measured and observed for one hour. During the period, I feel very empty every time I feel pain, about a whole day, really tired, sleepy and painful.

After the observation, I went back to my room to rest. I went back to my room and lay very weak. My mother-in-law took my hand by the bed. I'm afraid I'll scratch her when it hurts. I told her I didn't have to hug me. I just grabbed the edge of the bed when I was in pain, but she casually said, "Nothing. Mom is not afraid of pain. Grab me when it hurts. " She was very moved.

When I see Jamlom, my eyes are always red and I want to cry. It feels like all the lines of defense have collapsed.

After a night of pain, my mother-in-law and I curled up in a bed. I was sleepy and tired and fell asleep. Jamlom didn't sleep well those nights, because there was no place to sleep, and he was really haggard. Later, he kept saying that he had not recovered from those days. I've always denied it.

Actually, I agree with him in my heart, but I don't agree with him in front of others.

Originally, his family thought that he was very tired because we got married and gave birth to children, and my "concern" made me resist. It seems that my daughter and I are dragging him down, but I don't think it should be a man's responsibility. If I am lucky enough to have a son in the future, the first thing I want him to learn is to take responsibility, love others first and then love himself.

The next morning, I had a stomachache. After breakfast, Jamlom helped me move to the doctor step by step, because there was no sign of delivery, and I had to sign "amniotic fluid" to give birth. When I arrived at the doctor's office, the doctor was not there. I have to wait for a while to make a tour. At this time, I was in a panic, and I felt flustered. The waist is also stiff and painful, and I feel that every inch of muscle in my body is going to be broken.

After a short relaxation, I still feel nervous, because relaxing for a minute or two will usher in another pain. Seriously, it's like someone else's story now. I've never experienced such pain. But the painful despair at that time can still be felt by taking a deep breath now.

The doctor came, signed his name, wrote his name several times, and signed "agree" and "know". I didn't listen to a word of the conversation between the doctor and Jamlom. I really want to lie on the ground and don't want to move. But thinking of this lie, I may be sent to first aid at any time, and suddenly I thought to myself, "I can still hold on!" " "

The nurse helped me into the delivery room to change my shoes. Waiting for the doctor to bring a water bag for the sheep to drink.

The doctor checked ... The doctor checked and said, "Well, it's better than yesterday. I should be able to give birth tonight."

The word "tonight" is as long as a century to me. After all, it's just after breakfast, just after 9: 00 in the morning ... which means I may need to eat two or even three more meals. Despair again.

After the amniotic fluid is released, it smells fishy. I hope you won't stay too long, son. Come out quickly. Mom is worried that there will be less and less amniotic fluid, and you will suffocate.

I went back to the delivery room again and chose the bed next to the pregnant woman who called for family planning yesterday. I don't know if the pregnant woman regrets this choice when she gave birth to a boy and a girl.

The nurse came over and continued to play oxytocin. I'm glad I don't need to play.

Today's nurse on duty looks like Miss Fang, but she is very gentle and friendly. After introducing herself, the nurse tied up the fetal heart monitor and intravenous drip tube. Went to the door at work.

There is another parturient in the next bed. In the conversation with the nurse, I learned that she had eaten oxytocin for two days, and her cervix opened 1 and her fingers stopped, which was very collapsed. Ask the nurse to give her a painless injection.

This battle also scared me a lot. Seriously, if I don't give birth today, I will really collapse. Stomach pain for 24 hours, that feeling is suffering, pain, helplessness, helplessness.

I sent a message to Jamlom, saying that I also want to play painless games. Later, Jamlom has been doing ideological work with me. In fact, after I finished my hair, my stomach began to hurt more and more. I read the message and have no strength to reply. It's just that Jamlom may have been scared by me and called him everywhere to ask if he could play painless games. This tells him not to call, which tells him that it is harmful. Called me, but I didn't call back. I'm afraid I chose to fight. Funnily enough, I almost forgot about it after I finished speaking.

It's time for dinner, so let Jamlom buy something to eat. ..

Later, the pain was unbearable, so I asked the nurse to help me see if the palace mouth was open. I called several times and watched several times. The nurse kept saying it wasn't that fast, not that fast, but I could obviously feel the pain and I couldn't help it more and more. My eyes were red, and the gentle nurse comforted me, don't cry, be strong and save your strength to have a baby. I nodded, my heart full of emotion. Later, about four fingers were opened, and the nurse said that she was going to enter the delivery room. ..

When I entered the delivery room, I always thought that the delivery room was for one person, and I didn't want to see several operating beds in the delivery room.

Just lying on the operating table, the woman next door gave birth to a little boy. I watched the little boy fall to the ground, and soon I heard the little boy crying. Welcome, little guy.

The doctor told me to push hard when it hurts first. When I push hard, I can feel my muscles pulling my bones and muscles, as if I had dislocated them.

After a few minutes of hard work, the doctor suddenly said, wait, I will see the child's head soon. Then quickly prepare the surgical tools, and the doctor is obviously a little nervous. I'm nervous too, because I'm going to see the children soon. Looking forward to it!

The doctor said that the baby's heart rate is a little slow, so it needs to be cut sideways.

I didn't even think about "stop! What is more important than the safety of children! "

After anesthesia, you can still feel the feeling of the scalpel going down, and you can also feel the severe blood flow. The doctor kept stopping the bleeding and then pressed my stomach, and the child came out slippery.

The doctor immediately looked at the time and reported the time to the registered personnel.

The moment the child came out, there was joy and loss. I am glad that I finally brought you into this world, but I am very disappointed that my stomach is no longer your warm harbor.

The child is in front of me, and the nurse is wiping her body, weighing her and measuring her height.

When it was finished, the nurse showed it to me and asked me if it was a boy or a girl. Actually, I can't see clearly. I said nearsighted "girl" and the nurse said "Yes, it's a lovely little girl, lovely". The nurse also hugged tightly and repeatedly said "cute, cute".

Haha, I'm suddenly jealous of this little nurse. She is the first person in the world to hug my child, and I want to hug my little daughter, too.

This little girl is the same as Siwei. The face is round and pink. The only thing I feel unhappy about having a daughter is that she will have to go through me as a mother in the future.

I hope she can find a husband who loves and cherishes her.

Whether the days are dull or rich, they can be healthy and safe.

Later, an aunt and a nurse, holding rice noodles packaged in Jamlom, as well as the bag and mobile phone I brought in, said that someone called my mobile phone and made a lot of calls. ? I took a look. It's Jamlom, just in time for my mother to call. The first one gave her good news and told her that she had a daughter. She is very excited and a little happy. She said, "Well, you have a good rest. We will arrive soon. "

I sent Jamlom a message telling him that she had given birth, but he still didn't believe me.

The nurse is going to take him to see her sister. I don't know what his mood was at that time. Being a new father must be full of thoughts. Later, I heard that when I showed him my sister, he actually cried.

The arrival of a life is tied to the heart of a whole family. Everyone is waiting for the arrival of this little girl with full expectations, blessings and deep expectations.

And our life is about to begin, my child, let's work together!

After a long time of sewing, the doctor did his best and told me that he would sew me up and ensure my recovery. I thank you again and again and take care of my children at the same time.

After packing everything, I saw the doctor take the cord blood with a needle. After the baby was born, I have been discussing umbilical cord blood with Jamlom. If we don't save it ourselves, we will donate it in the name of our daughter, so that she can do a good deed when she is born. The hematopoietic function of umbilical cord blood can save many people. Unfortunately, my knowledge in this field is shallow, and I was very busy soon after I was born. I didn't seriously study the donation method, so this matter was shelved. Later, it was estimated that umbilical cord blood was also accepted by the hospital, and I hope the hospital will donate it to help those in need.

Later, I changed my bed and went to the delivery room for observation for 2 hours. The nurse is really "heartless" and keeps pressing my abdomen with a strong hand. They also took great pains to clean up the dirty blood, and my bones were crushed by her.

Tell the nurse's sister, "I feel worse than having a baby. It hurts." Sister nurse said with a smile, it hurts to have a baby. This is to clean up the dirty blood inside. Later, there was no uterine contraction pain for the next month, which was probably related to this cleaning. I still want to thank her when I think of it.

After cleaning up, the nurse came over with her daughter in her arms and lay on my chest. I always want to look down at her, but all I can see is that her eyes are closed and her forehead and face are round, like a little doll. Although she still smells of blood, I can't help hugging her tightly. I've been waiting for 10 months, and finally I can hug you. You are the first child in my life with Jamlom, and we all love you.

The bed next door has been discharged from the hospital, and there is only our family in the whole room.

My aunt, mother-in-law and my mother are all here. My mother-in-law fed me brown sugar porridge, and the nurse asked me to go to the toilet in an hour.

As a result, with the help of my mother-in-law and my mother, I moved to the toilet step by step. After going to the toilet, my mother-in-law asked me how I felt. I said I was fine. I can't see clearly for a moment, and I have a little tinnitus. I want to close my eyes and calm down.

As a result, I gradually became conscious in a daze. I heard many people around me shouting and making a lot of noise, but everyone was burning with pain. A group of people carried me out of the toilet and went to bed. In a trance, they knew from everyone's nervous mouth that I had just fainted. ..

Boy, everyone described how fierce I was when I fainted just now, and I was ashamed.

Maybe I didn't feel anything I just slept for a while and really scared everyone. ..

I'm afraid everyone will remember what this life is like ~

Up to now, Jamlom will turn it out and say

After lying down for a while, my sister fell asleep in everyone's arms. Everyone discussed her appearance and said that she was exactly like her father. She's a little jealous. Hum ~ there is no one like me.

Her grandmother happily called her grandfather to report the good news that she had a little girl. It was so cute.

I couldn't sit up, so I followed the child with my whole eyes. When the child said to drink milk, I looked at her little face and thought it was particularly beautiful. This little man is my daughter.

Jamlom is more like buying a baby at a high price, holding it for fear of falling, and always telling everyone not to talk too loudly to scare the child. Here, he said to disinfect his arms and wash his hands.

Haha, if it weren't for everyone's little baby, who would put it aside with you?

In the evening, my mother and Jamlom stayed to take care of me and the children.

My mother was tortured by Jamlom that night. Newborn babies need to spit out the amniotic fluid in their stomachs, and adults need to prevent their children from choking.

So, Jamlom trembled all night, and did not dare to slack off for a moment. Call my mother and the nurse as soon as the child spits out amniotic fluid. Nurses are also very busy in the middle of the night. Serving Jamlom alone in one night will make him physically and mentally exhausted. Even I, a pregnant woman, cannot escape this fate. A day of pain and childbirth has exhausted me. I want to have a good sleep, but soon I heard Jamlom's slightly nervous eyes calling me to ring the nurse's bell and call the nurse. A little slow, and he denounced it. Hey, you have a child and you don't want a wife so soon.

Later, the nurse was very upset. She threatened Jamlom and said, "It's good to throw up clean, if you are worried that the child will always throw up uncomfortable. Then make a clear stomach. " My mother said excitedly, "Don't clear your stomach. It's still small enough." Jamlom didn't stop until he heard it.

It turned out that anyone who took care of Jamlom that night would be exhausted from boredom. Because adults think it is a normal phenomenon at all, as long as they take good care of their children and don't choke. However, Xiao Xu has just been promoted to father. He feels a great responsibility, but he doesn't know how to deal with his nervousness. It's interesting to think of him like this. Angry and distressed, a big boy became a responsible man. It is inevitable that some are at a loss.

The next day, my mother-in-law came to take care of me, and my mother went back in the old aunt's car. I heard that she slept soundly on the way back.

The second night with the experience of the first night, Jamlom no longer nervous. I also brought a mat, so I can have a good sleep in my room at night.

He had the hardest time when I gave birth, but fortunately he had time to accompany me on National Day.

I also believe that through this production, he can also appreciate the hardships of being a father and take up this responsibility well. In fact, my daughter seems really afraid of falling into her hand and melting in her mouth. Of course, when the little girl saw her father, she was very happy. Maybe she really had a lover in her last life. The little girl looked at her father lovingly. As a mother, I am also very happy.

The next morning, I was ready to leave the hospital and go home after the inspection.

I left this place where I stayed for six days, and I have bittersweet memories. I think I will keep them in mind forever. Fortunately, everyone I met was very kind to me. The first delivery is inexperienced and afraid of the unknown. Fortunately, under the guidance of these doctors and head nurses, accompanied by those two lovely little nurse girls, I gave birth to a baby smoothly, and the baby was very healthy. I feel very satisfied. Looking back on the pregnancy in June of 10, I passed all the tests and thanked God for giving me and Jamlom this lovely child. In the future, I will definitely train her well. Whether she has a future or not, she must be a kind person.

With beautiful thoughts, you will meet angels on the road.