After six years of marriage, she transformed her husband from a poor boy into a car and a house. Is this the real "prosperous husband"?

Introduction: A truly "prosperous" woman is actually a considerate and generous wife who knows how to empathize with her husband, knows how to be considerate of her husband, is not sarcastic, is not stingy and annoying, is not too picky, and is not always It's an accusation.

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When it comes to a woman with a prosperous husband, the first impression that comes to people’s minds is probably that the woman is slightly fat, has a wide face, a full sky, and a round earth...< /p>

But in addition to these, a woman’s gentle and family-oriented character is the essence of a prosperous husband.

There is a saying "It is difficult for a man to be greedy and do anything if he has a good wife at home."

"Virtue nourishes the body and wealth enriches the house." Even if the wife of a prosperous husband is not good-looking, he will He becomes more and more beautiful because of his gentle and virtuous character.

So it doesn’t matter if a woman is not good-looking. Who says that a bad-looking woman will not have the good looks of a husband? The most important thing is to have a gentle character, a good character for dealing with others, not to quarrel, not to argue, and not to take chances.

Ating is such a prosperous woman.

Although Ating is not very beautiful, Ating has a very good personality. Not only is she gentle, she is considerate and caring at home, and she can also help her husband take on the pressure and responsibilities outside.

Ating's husband has been married for six years now. Apart from the occasional quarrel, the two have never had a single quarrel or blushed. Under the nourishment of a happy marriage and love, Ating, who is not very good-looking, looks very soft and blessed.

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Ating and Ahao have been married for six years. They opened a department store wholesale department in a small town and lived a prosperous life.

Everyone in the village calls Ating Wangfu, because Ahao’s current good life only started after marrying Ating, so people in the village always say that Ating “made her mother-in-law’s family” , "Wangfu".

After getting to know Ating carefully, I realized that Ating’s prosperity is mainly due to Ating’s character and how she behaves.

Ahao is an orphan and was fostered by relatives since he was a child. Although Ahao has no father or mother, fortunately, Ahao has a good character.

Ating and Ahao met on the bus and fell in love at first sight.

Ating’s parents did not agree with the relationship between the two at first, because Ating’s family was okay in the local area. Although both of them were from rural areas, Ating at least had a complete family, and her life and finances were not as good as those of hers. More than enough.

But Ating doesn’t care about finances or that Ah Hao is an orphan. She values ??Ah Hao’s ambition and character.

Under Ating’s persuasion, her parents also considered that Ating is already 27 years old, which is not a young age. After dating for one or two years, she is almost thirty years old, and she should be careful about her love partner. It was settled, so they agreed to the relationship between the two.

Now, the two have been married for six years and live very happily. Ahao went from being a penniless poor boy to becoming the owner of a wholesale department store in the town, with a prosperous business.

Ating and Ahao not only have a two-story wholesale department in the town, but also bought a house in the local city where they live. Everyone in the village said that Ahao was lucky to have a daughter-in-law with a prosperous husband.

To say that Ating Wangfu is real, Ahao himself also said that his daughter-in-law Atingwangfu, especially what happened to Ahao five years ago, shortly after the two got married. Ahao himself said, "It was Ating who saved my life."

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That was shortly after Ahao and Ating got married. At that time, Ahao and two other people from Murakami A young and strong man was working hard at a brick factory five miles away from his home, hauling bricks for a construction site in the suburbs.

It is very hot at noon in summer. The three trucks carrying bricks are all from the same construction site, and they come and go together.

It was noon, and all the bricks in the brick truck were loaded, and we were waiting to take them to the construction site after eating. At this time, Ating brought some mung bean soup to Ahao, saying that the weather was too hot and she wanted Ahao to relieve the heat.

The other two young men were very envious of Ah Hao. In the scorching sun, his wife actually walked five miles to deliver mung bean soup. Think about their own daughter-in-law, who doesn't even have a caring phone call.

Ating gave the mung bean soup to the three grown men to drink, and persuaded them that the weather was too hot and they might as well rest for two hours before continuing.

The three men did not listen to the advice, thinking that the more money they got, the more money they would make. Life is hard for everyone, and they only make ends meet when they go out to sell bricks.

Ating couldn’t persuade others, but insisted that Ahao rest for two hours before setting off, otherwise she would ignore him.

Ahao couldn't resist his wife's request, so he had to lie down in the shade of the tree for a while, thinking that after the other two companions came back from the construction site, the three of them would set off together.

However, after Ah Hao rested for two hours, his companion had not returned yet. According to common sense, the round trip from the brick factory to the construction site only took an hour and a half, so it was time to turn back.

Ahao called and found out that the two of them had been in a car accident.

The reason was that the weather was hot and the driver was driving tiredly. When crossing a bridge on the brick road, two large trailers rear-ended each other and two people died on the spot.

Ahao breathed a cold sweat after hearing this. While he was grieving for the loss of his companion, he was also grateful to his wife. Thanks to myself for sending mung bean soup every now and then, and thanks to my wife who strictly requires me to have a good rest. She would rather make less money, but also put safety first.

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From then on, Ah Hao stopped driving and hauled bricks. He and Ating borrowed some money from the bank and started a department store wholesale business in the town. .

The business of the wholesale store was not very satisfactory at first. Ahao was also worried, but he could not think of any other way. After that, Ating was still running around for Ahao, visiting small shops in various villages to drum up business for her own department store.

Many people like Ating’s way of doing things. She is not only generous and decent, but also not stingy. If you buy a lot, she will get a discount or give you a cup, toothpaste and other small things. Some people come with children. Yes, Ating gave the children candy. Neighbors and people from the small shops in surrounding villages who come here to buy goods all like Ating.

It is precisely because of Ating's gentle and generous character and good way of dealing with others that she has brought ideal business to the wholesale department.

It took the two of them five years not only to get a bank loan, but also to buy a car and a house in the county.

And all this is due to the marriage between Ahao and Ating. Even Ahao feels that without Ating, he would not be where he is today.

In the past five years, the two of them have been doing business. Ahao can't settle accounts or write, because he is an orphan and it is good to be healthy and healthy. He has never read a book.

So whenever she had free time, Ating would ask Ah Hao to settle accounts and write. It was a good job, and Ah Hao was willing to learn. Besides, he was also smart and learned very quickly. Although I don’t have much knowledge in my head now, it can be compared with junior high school graduates.

As neighbors, we have witnessed with our own eyes the transformation of Ah Hao from a poor boy with nothing to the situation where he has a house and a car today, and we all know that all this is because Ah Hao married a "rich husband" woman.

Whenever the neighbors mentioned that Ating was a prosperous woman, Ating would lower her head in embarrassment. She was as gentle as water, neither arrogant nor arrogant.

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Once, when Ating and I were chatting, Ating talked about her bitter history.

She said that when she and Ah Hao first got married, Ah Hao was very thin, didn’t eat enough and lived irregularly. When a person is used to being a promiscuous person, he will naturally develop some bad habits in life, such as always staying up late, skipping breakfast, and liking to smoke.

However, Ahao is a good character and a progressive person, which is why she likes him. It's just that Ah Hao has no guidance from his parents and is accustomed to doing things his own way, so he doesn't know how to be flexible in dealing with people. This is the main reason why he is obviously very motivated, but he had nothing in the few years before marriage.

After that, Ating started to regulate Ah Hao bit by bit, not only making his life more regular, but also helping him get rid of bad habits. Ating would also explain in private how to deal with people and how to behave. And help Ahao.

Ating said, "When we first got married, Ahao said that he was very afraid that I would think he was poor. I told him, what is there to be afraid of? I don't think you are poor. Since We are married, and if we want to be poor, we will be poor together. Besides, we can live our own lives, and we can live well in the future. As husband and wife, we can turn black soil into gold."

I told Ating, "Everyone in our town says you are a rich woman, and if it weren't for you, Ah Hao would probably have died long ago."

A Ting paused, her eyes a little blurry, probably a few days later It took her ten seconds to tell me that at that time, Ah Hao was working in a brick factory pulling bricks. He was so tired that he was out of breath every day and his feet were blistered. In order to make more money, he would make two more trips without taking a break.

She felt sorry for Ah Hao, but she couldn't do much to help, so she had to make some mung bean soup every now and then and send it to the factory. She delivered it there herself, talked to him by the way, and rested under her supervision. For a moment, don’t neglect your health just for the money of two more trips to pull bricks.

It was precisely because she would walk five miles from time to time to deliver mung bean soup to Ah Hao and supervise Ah Hao to take a rest. Ah Hao didn’t want her to go in vain, so she obeyed him. , thus avoiding a disaster.

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Later, when I asked Ating for advice on how to get along as a couple, when Ahao and Ating were together, no matter what Ahao said, Ating would support Ahao. , to encourage Ahao, even if Ahao has something wrong, Ating will only talk to Ahao privately.

The two of them lived their lives in consultation. There was no obligation to listen to the other, and they listened to whoever made sense. There was no red-faced quarrel. Now the two have been married for more than six years, and they are still as loving as they were when they first got together.

I don’t quarrel when something happens. I’ve lived here for six years and I’ve basically never had a quarrel or blushed.

Ating said, "They all say that I am a woman with a rich husband. I have never thought about this. I only know that Ahao is my husband and everything I do is for him." , for our family.”

Yes, a truly “prosperous” woman is actually a considerate and generous wife who knows how to be considerate and considerate of her husband, and is not sarcastic or stingy. Don't be too picky, don't always criticize, and give your husband appropriate encouragement, support, and trust when he needs it.

To be honest, a woman who is prosperous in her husband is also a woman who is prosperous in herself.