"obedient" men are not born.

"obedient" men are not born, but are "cultivated" by women!

In your life, have you ever asked a man something like this: "Go and wash the dishes" and "Why are you so loud? What do you mean? " "You just play all day. Didn't you see the situation at home? "

But many times, men don't do what you say, or even ignore you. Even if there is, it is barely perfunctory, not really agreeing with you from the heart.

In fact, everyone has neglected the correct method of "making demands". When the demands are different, the ways of making demands should also be different.

How to communicate with men correctly and make demands?

How to communicate with men correctly and make demands?

When getting along: be clear about your bottom line and needs.

It's simple. If you want a man to listen to you, you must explain to him what you want and why you want him to do it. If your request is reasonable, he will naturally make some concessions. You don't have to worry too much about whether your request is too much. At least you can try to talk about it.

Don't keep silent again and again, so when you suddenly break out, he will think that you are making a mountain out of a molehill and making trouble.

For example, you don't like your boyfriend talking to you loudly. Even if he is not mean to you, you will be unhappy if he calls you loudly.

In this case, you can communicate with him: when I was young, my parents often quarreled in the middle of the night, and both of them shouted loudly. At that time, I was often awakened in the middle of the night. I didn't dare to go out to watch it after I woke up. I was too scared to sleep and worried that my parents would quarrel again. This experience left a deep impression on me. The reason why you don't like him yelling at you.

So I really don't like people talking to me loudly. I felt particularly uncomfortable when you called out to me just now. (Say your feelings+put forward your needs)

A man who loves you will always try to understand you, and then he will definitely not do it because he thinks you don't like it in the future.