The miserable life of a man who married the wrong wife.

As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. In fact, men are also afraid of marrying the wrong wife.

My friend's cousin is like this. Because he married the wrong wife, he spent decades in noisy beatings. She told me the whole story.

My cousin is twenty years older than me. It is said that when he was young, he was handsome and personable, and with a good family, countless girls secretly loved him.

I once talked about a girlfriend in two of a kind, but she was strongly opposed by her uncle and aunt, and was finally forced to break up. Since then, she has no plans to fall in love.

Seeing that my cousin became an older youth, my uncle and aunt were in a hurry and asked people to introduce their sons everywhere. Cousin is always holding the attitude of running errands. When she meets a girl, she just finds an excuse to push it off. It's no use kissing her several times.

Later, my uncle asked someone to introduce him to the daughter of a fellow villager. The girl fell in love with him at first sight, my cousin didn't want to, and neither did my aunt. But my uncle thought that this girl looked very gentle, her eyes were very thin, and she also cared about the mutual affection of her fellow villagers, so she forced my cousin to agree. My cousin is timid by nature and does what his father wants. Finally, without fully understanding each other, I hurried into the marriage hall, and my attitude towards my wife was lukewarm.

My wife changed her docile appearance into another face as soon as she got married. I sleep until late in the morning every day, and I don't take or twist the grass at home. I often find fault with my aunt's cooking and washing clothes.

She is short-tempered, narrow-minded, sarcastic and controlling, so my cousin has to listen to her. I get paid every month, don't smoke or drink, and even my cousin's former friends won't let him associate. My cousin was nicknamed "henpecked" and "wife-fearing" for this reason, and all his friends kept their distance from him. I cried carelessly, hanged myself, became suspicious all day, and lost my temper for no reason, which made the whole family restless.

Uncle and aunt see it in their eyes, but they don't care about her because she is young. At the same time, for the sake of family peace, they have always accepted jokes from outsiders. This further encouraged her arrogance.

Later, I bought them a house and moved out, and my uncle and aunt lived a stable life for a few days. The birth of my daughter brought some comfort to my cousin, and at the same time, he was busier. He goes to his parents' home after work every day, picks up his daughter, and then buys food, cooks and takes care of the children.

My wife has no job. My uncle asked her for a job before, but she was used to being lazy, tired and not free to get along with her colleagues. I resigned after a long time, and then I didn't want to go out and look for a job. She does nothing all day, focusing on playing mahjong, shopping and watching TV. Often the rice is not cooked, the clothes are not washed, and the children don't care, and their fingers are not touched by the spring water. Without the slightest concern for my cousin's hard work, my cousin can only sigh helplessly while silently taking care of all the housework.

From the moment menstruation opposed her marriage before marriage, she planted the seeds of hatred in her heart. Later, because of some trivial matters, the contradiction escalated, and she and her uncle and aunt became strangers, even to the point of growing old together. Usually, I don't just ask my in-laws about their lives, and I don't want my cousin to be unfilial.

As time went on, her resentment grew day by day. During this period, my cousin thought of divorce several times, but when he saw his daughter, his heart softened again. In this way, more than 20 years have passed, and my daughter has grown up, and she hates what her mother has done. Later, she married far away and never came back for several years. She has been familiar with her father's experience since she was a child, but it is beyond her power.

My uncle died last year. According to our local custom, if parents die, my son will make a crock for his parents on the day of the funeral, and my cousin has a sister. There is no doubt that he should make a crock.

Who knew my wife jumped out and tried to block it? She made a hullabaloo about in the mourning hall, cursing the street with her hands akimbo like a bitch, pointing at her cousin and swearing: "If you dare to give that old thing a crock today, see how I can clean you up when I go home!" My cousin has been bullied by her for decades. She has resigned herself to her fate and never dared to disobey her orders.

Relatives and friends can't stand it anymore, so try to dissuade them. You say something, she says something, move with emotion, and understand with reason. Even a hard-hearted person will be moved, but his wife's heart is rock-solid and resolute, and she won't listen to anyone.

In this way, the two sides were deadlocked and the mourning period came. Money talks. In desperation, menstruation promised to give her 80,000 yuan afterwards, and she reluctantly agreed to let her cousin go to the top of the crock.

Few couples are always together, and they all think that the wife's temper will get better with age. Who knows that instead of getting better, they have become more eccentric and tortured their cousins more and more. She vented her decades-old resentment against her uncle and aunt on her cousin.

For example, when my cousin goes out for a walk in the afternoon, she must come back at her appointed time, and she will not be allowed to eat if she is late. If one day she is in a bad mood and doesn't even want to sleep at night. If you dare to visit your menstruation privately, there will be a storm waiting for you when you go back. Seeing that her cousin was obedient to her and did not resist, she became even crazier. From the initial mental torture to the final domestic violence, my cousin was often beaten black and blue by her. It sounds shocking and incredible, but it did happen.

We all watched with indignation that my cousin was tortured to be senile, inhuman and helpless. If anyone speaks for him, his wife will go to his house and curse his ancestors for eight generations. In the end, instead of getting help, he will be punished more severely.

The noisy neighborhood is a little afraid of her. It is a famous "hag" in that area! I don't know how long he can last in such a dark day.

After listening to my friend's story, I couldn't believe my ears. I can't believe there are such vicious women in the world.

In an interview with Yang Lan, Bill Gates was asked whether the smartest decision he made in his life was to create Microsoft or do charity. He smiled and said no, he was looking for the right person to marry.

As the ancients said, good women thrived for three generations. On the contrary, bad women can destroy three generations. Therefore, no matter when men and women are looking for the other half, they must know people with their eyes and avoid meeting people. Don't just find someone to marry because you are old, urged by your parents, or for one reason or another, and ruin your life's happiness!