Children object to their parents' nagging.

If children are asked to vote for their parents' disgust and dissatisfaction, then nagging will definitely be on the list.

One thing, if you talk too much, children often behave worse and even have rebellious psychology.

Psychologically, it is called "overrun effect", that is, too much, too strong or too long outside * * * will make people feel impatient. Simply put, if you want your children to listen to you, don't nag. ?

First, nagging will make children get along more and more. The first bad result of nagging is to make children lazy and form dependence psychology.

Why are some children particularly procrastinating? For example, doing homework, brushing teeth, staying in bed and cleaning the bedroom, no matter how hurried parents are, it is largely because parents talk too much.

The more you talk, the more children depend on your urging and lack initiative and enthusiasm.

A mother once left a message saying: "Our children don't know how to eat every day, and they keep urging him. He just gave a perfunctory" Uh-huh "and" Oh ",and it took a long time to move chopsticks. If he doesn't keep calling him, he won't know he's coming! This is one of the consequences of parents nagging too much. If you don't say it a few times, he will quit, because he knows that his mother will remind him anyway, so he is more unhurried and sloppy. ?

Second, nagging frustrates children's self-esteem. The essence of nagging is a way of communication that does not respect people. Behind constant nagging and constant reminders, it is often accompanied by distrust and blame for children. ? Many times, behind the parents' lengthy nagging, we don't trust our child completely, and we don't believe that he can do well, so we will keep talking.

People who love to nag often think that I am doing it for your own good. That's why I said so much. If I were someone else, do you think I would say one more word? ? But for people who are nagged, this is a psychological burden, which means that you don't trust me and respect me. ?

Third, nagging parents can't get the respect of their children? A friend once told me a little thing: once my son's school organized a spring outing, his grandmother was particularly worried. This is the first time for his son to leave his family and go to a distant place to play.

Before the child left, grandma repeatedly explained the precautions. At first, the child responded a few words, but the old man talked for half an hour, and the child finally became impatient: "Are you bored?" Is it over? The friend looked at the old man standing there alone and lamented that the child was really not sensible. It is obvious that what this adult said is right and for his own good. Why does he feel angry when he is ungrateful? In fact, this is another bad effect of nagging: children begin to ignore what adults say. Losing patience and rebellious psychology show a contradiction and disrespect for parents.